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not sure if he likes me


Posted Tuesday May 29 2012, 10:13 pm

13/f
so im in spanish class with this cute boy, and he is always complamenting me, once when i said a girl in a magazine is kinda pretty(not a lesbian just my opinion) he just laughed and said that i was prettier than her. he walks me to class sometimes and now im always looking forward to seeing him everyday. a few days ago i heard that he broke up with his gf, and his friend said he did it so he could ask me out. its been about 5 days and now im noticing that he is looking down my shirt, what should i do about that anyway?

do you people thinks that he likes me or am i just imagining it?

any advise is very thankful!! :)

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I am feeling trapped by my own emotions...


Posted Tuesday May 29 2012, 9:15 pm

Okay...so...I've known this guy for a few months now...he's everything that I want in a guy...and he's always very very flirty with me, and we just goof around and laugh and have fun and then we have deep, meaningful discussions about life and important things...this would be what I would call the perfect time for me to move in and see if he wants to take our relationship to the next step....

But he has a girlfriend already...I already feel ashamed of myself enough that I have thoughts of not wanting to respect the "he's taken" zone...this girl is nice, and we've spoken briefly a few times, and despite any of that, I don't ever want to hurt ANYBODY or be the cause of someone getting hurt...

She alread...

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what should i do : i wanna leave her but im too attached to her and its really gonna hurt me


Posted Tuesday May 29 2012, 8:05 pm

so me and this girl have been talking for about 2 years but first we was friends. so this is the problem i moved from around her to the suburbs and by the time i moved we wasnt in a realtionship any more but once i moved to the suburb i got back in contact with her and we tried to hit off again but the thing is i always find out that she's cheating so me im a female yes i like girls but i didnt never tell her that i knew about her cheating so i just started back ignoring her phone calls and everything like a year later my birthday came around and i was thinking about her so i found her on facebook and i gave her my number now i saw on her facebook that she was in a realtionship so i didnt really try ta bring up her relationship status but s...

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Help please: He is living with another woman and sleeping with me...


Posted Tuesday May 29 2012, 1:54 pm

I have been sleeping with this guy for 5years now the ladt tim being 4 days ago.when we first started he was on the outs with his on again off again girlfriend of 10 years he has had 2 other serious relationships and I have had one and two kids but we always manage to hook up.hes dating and living with his girl and we have been having sex more now than ever im single and I think I love him although we have never said it to each other.he never calls unless hooking up no bday valentines or mothers day reconition how do I get over him how does he see me?

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Should I give up?


Posted Tuesday May 29 2012, 10:33 am

I don't honestly know what to do. This guy made me feel really special, and it wasn't just in a friend way, he would use the words beautiful, babe and much more. I really fell for him & when I told him... He stopped texting me, he would ignore my messages because obviously he would of read them. He still acknowledges me whenever I see him, like with a smile. But avoids the question whenever I tell him how I feel (I've told him more than once) but it seems like I'm not getting anywhere. The only thing I could think of was telling him in person, so from across the room I mimed “what's wrong? Don't ignore my messages. You need to tell me where I stand” he was saying he couldn't hear me, and kept repeating what? I kept frowning and then...

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i need advice how to stop been lesbian


Posted Monday May 28 2012, 11:21 pm

Am a lesbia have been on it about 5 year ago I have a child with is about 5 year too start been lesbia after
I had my bady am 26yr now I want to marry and setle down I don't how to do it am so inlove with my partner. I want to stop it please help

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i cant stop cutting :( please help


Posted Monday May 28 2012, 10:39 pm

14/f
i have been cutting myself since my mom would not let me see my dad(alittle over 2 years).
i have not told anyone,but am considering telling my bf. we have been going out for 5 months and i knoow he will go beserck saying *why havent you told me before*.
i know he will say this cause he is very protective over me.

please help i dont know what to do, lately i have been useing a very dull and small knife,all it does is leave a red mark on me for about 4 hours.
and i want to use a sharp knife, i have willed myself to stay away from sharp knives so i dont get the temtation.

please? any advise is very thankful!!

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im not sure how i get pregnant ._. i knw it sounds weird but please hlp


Posted Monday May 28 2012, 10:16 pm

17/f
i was born with a penis and ive never had a bf cause i dont want to be embarassed.
pleeeeeeeease help, i want to be a regular girl!?!

any advse will be very helpful!

thanks in advance!!


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are these years all we have, or is there a future for us??


Posted Monday May 28 2012, 8:18 pm

I am a 21/f and "Joe" is a 24/m. We have been dating about 3 and a half years now. When we started dating, I was 2 months pregnant. He has turned out to be the most wonderful father and was by my side the whole time I was pregnant. We always got along and I kbiw he really loved me. I moved in with him a couple months after i had my daughter. My mother moved 600 miles away, but I was going to move in with him anyways. I know I love him.. in the beginning I was in love with him but I guess that fades away with most ppl over time. I have alot of self image issuesbecause of being cheated on in the past. But I am a thin person and I don't think I look that bad. Within the past year I have caught him lying about girls numbers etc. Thick...

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I like my ex ..


Posted Monday May 28 2012, 5:19 pm

Ok so from november-march I dated this guy. He was and still is super nice and cute and hilarious and did the cutest things like when I was cold outside he gave me his jacket and he said the cutest things to me like "I love you bbg, I want you to be the only one for me. I never want to loose you because if I loose you I loose a part of me. I will love you forever and no one in the world can replace you. You'll be mine forever and I know it <3 I love you" <-- see, he's really sweet and kind and nice and cute and amazing!!! I broke up with him in march because this other guy kissed me and I didnt feel like it was fair to him. I regret the day I broke his heart :(
Now, me and him are getting closer again. We walk to th...

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This guy flirts with me but has a gf.


Posted Monday May 28 2012, 2:57 pm

I met this guy last year but only recently started talking when we saw each other at a party last week. We exchanged numbers and everything. We talked a lot at the party and it was obvious he liked me. Even afterwards he would flirt with me and stuff. Later I found out he had a gf and I asked him about it and he said it was true but she is never there for him. I let him know that I wasn't the type of girl who would mess around with a guy who is already in a relationship but he said he likes me a lot and I guess I kinda like him too. I don't ask him to break up with her but he tries getting me to kiss him and stuff which I don't feel comfortable doing. What should I do? I am a 15 year old girl & he is 16.

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im in a relationship but my ex wants me back


Posted Monday May 28 2012, 11:42 am

i am dating a guy but my ex wants me back and i love both but i don't want to hurt any feelings i don't know what to do!

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Would a guy still date you if you are a virgin and will not have sex?


Posted Monday May 28 2012, 11:33 am



Are there guys that don't care if a girl is a virgin and still date her?

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i like him but ..


Posted Monday May 28 2012, 10:42 am

I like him but does he like me? Im 14years old and so is he. ut he's about to be famous cause he can sing and dance. i really like him and he really used to like me but does he like me anymore?? How would I know wothout asking him? Is it dumb to date him since girls will be all over him at concerts and stuff?

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Jealous ex, and mildy threatening my new relationship.


Posted Monday May 28 2012, 3:04 am

We broke up a while ago, and he hooked up with another guy (Bi) a day afterward. Literally. A few months went by, and when I felt I was truly recovered, I found someone else. But this person happened to be a good friend of both of us--I know that wasn't wise, but I really liked her (also bi)--and he didn't react very maturely. He's threatening not to be friends with her anymore, and I'm concerned because it's really upsetting her.

I don't even understand, since he seems happy with his boyfriend, never contacts me and ignores me, makes fun me when he doesn't and overall just seemed over me up until now.

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more mature?


Posted Monday May 28 2012, 1:38 am

20/f Recently, my boyfriend has told me he wants to focus on our future more, and that he wants to be more interested in the things I'm into. He emphasizes that it makes him happy just to see me happy. He has never been so vocal about it, and claims he is more mature because he has stopped masturbating so that he can wait for me to please him. He feels as though he is more mature, and that he is more attentive because I control when we have sex, pleasure, etc. When he said this I was very shocked, in a way insulted. I need opinions,I don't know how to feel..

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What's best way to handle this weird situation?


Posted Monday May 28 2012, 12:54 am

I've been told that this guy I was talking to has started to see my sister behind my back. of course she denied it. He and I haven't really spoken to each other lately. She has bit of a pattern of doing this, but if it's real and she loves this guy it will hurt as he was my high school sweetheart. How do I handle this situation in a way I dont look crazy and can be the bigger person, but cut ties with her at the same time? I don't want to look bitter. It's just that she was the one I cried to about him and everything and so if she can't stop repeating this behavior whos to say she wont go for the next guy? It's not just her fault but he's no longer in my life nor do I care to ever speak to him again.

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my cousins love life is jacked up ._.


Posted Sunday May 27 2012, 10:29 pm

my cousin is 10/f
she has 2 flippin' bfs!!!
i told her that she is to young to date and that she should break up with at least ONE bf. but she said she and her friend are sharing both of them and that she loves them both!
i dont know what to even say to her now,she young and she thinks that if i have a bf,am 14 btw, than it is ok to for her to have one.but she is very competitive! so now she has two!!!

any advise will be very greatful as soon as you can!
thanks!!

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Since the last time I had sex with a guy only one text


Posted Sunday May 27 2012, 8:15 pm

I was having a purely sexual relationship with a young guy who had just come out of a five year relationship (he ended it). He slept over practically every night since the first time we hooked up for about a month. He cried in front of me, he held me all night, the only thing he refused to do is go out. We seemed happy in our time one on one though. This made me fall in love with him but he only wanted friends with benefits. So he stopped pursuing me the moment I said I love you and we had some drama but then we reunited on Monday night - went out and had a casual night by the lake. It also happens to be the same day he saw his ex for the first time since their phone breakup and he ended it in person and had the talk with her. When h...

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Infants having crushes on the opposite sex


Posted Sunday May 27 2012, 7:18 pm

You know that stage where babies start to recognize people? Well what if an infant has a crush on someone at that early age? Does it even start that early? I highly doubt it, but I think that is what happened to me... I know it can't truly be named a crush, but something like that. I know that an infant is too small to even talk, let alone know what having a crush feels like. But at the same time I am not sure...

Please, no hate answers. I already know I will get some.

Thank you to the people who actually consider the question!

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