what should i do : i wanna leave her but im too attached to her and its really gonna hurt me
Question Posted Tuesday May 29 2012, 8:05 pm
so me and this girl have been talking for about 2 years but first we was friends. so this is the problem i moved from around her to the suburbs and by the time i moved we wasnt in a realtionship any more but once i moved to the suburb i got back in contact with her and we tried to hit off again but the thing is i always find out that she's cheating so me im a female yes i like girls but i didnt never tell her that i knew about her cheating so i just started back ignoring her phone calls and everything like a year later my birthday came around and i was thinking about her so i found her on facebook and i gave her my number now i saw on her facebook that she was in a realtionship so i didnt really try ta bring up her relationship status but she kept asking me like when we getting back together and such but i specifically asked her do you have a girlfriend right now she said no so i told her like she needs to change her facebook status then she never changed it but she evenetually broke up with the girl but was still in contact with her so me being so inlove with her i left her back into my life but a couple of days ago i told her that im not finna let her dog me like she be doing them other girls and she told me that shes not then a few days later i asked her when is she gone tell me that she cheated on me and she acted like i was crazy, i dont know what to do i wanna leave her but im too attached to her and its really gonna hurt me , i just need to know what to do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Rena-Chan answered Thursday May 31 2012, 3:44 pm: It is always painful to have to let go of someone you love. But you should also consider your own happiness. Being in a relationship like that, it seems as though you'd be hurting more in the long run than if you were to just let go. Time heals all wounds, even the hidden ones. You will find someone who can love you and be faithful, but from the sounds of it, it's not her. You just have to be strong. It'll hurt, but you'll feel better later. Especially when you find your special someone who would never do that to you. [ Rena-Chan's advice column | Ask Rena-Chan A Question ]
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