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This guy flirts with me but has a gf.
I met this guy last year but only recently started talking when we saw each other at a party last week. We exchanged numbers and everything. We talked a lot at the party and it was obvious he liked me. Even afterwards he would flirt with me and stuff. Later I found out he had a gf and I asked him about it and he said it was true but she is never there for him. I let him know that I wasn't the type of girl who would mess around with a guy who is already in a relationship but he said he likes me a lot and I guess I kinda like him too. I don't ask him to break up with her but he tries getting me to kiss him and stuff which I don't feel comfortable doing. What should I do? I am a 15 year old girl & he is 16.
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I think he isn't good for you. STAY AWAY FROM ANY MAN WHO IS ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP.
Put yourself in his girlfriend's shoes.
How would you feel if he was your boyfriend and he was flirting with other girls behind your back?
He is no good and you can do way better.
P.S.
Tell his girlfriend!!!!
Good Luck.
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Tell him no and then tell his girlfriend too. She deserves to know just what kind of guy she is dating. You both deserve better.
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I would stand your ground and not to give in to him. Sounds like he is trying to have his cake and eat it two (having two girlfriends at once). The thing you need to think about is if he is treating his present girlfriend this way, would he be treating you the same way, going around to other girls? This guy is a smooth operator, I would avoid him.
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Stick with your gut! You told him where you stood with not wanting to mess around while he has a girlfriend. Stand your ground. And if you want to, call him out on it! "You know, I'm flattered and all, but I did tell you that I'm not comfortable with messing around while you are in a relationship. Don't take it personally but thats just the way I am." Don't let him push you around :)
xo
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