sillyrob answered Tuesday May 29 2012, 11:38 pm: You're in love with neither of them.
That's the truth.
You really like both of them, and obviously your ex is an ex for a reason.
My best advice? Make them both go through a bunch of tasks like on your favorite reality TV show. When one of them impresses you, give them a rose to know they won. [ sillyrob's advice column | Ask sillyrob A Question ]
carayotie answered Tuesday May 29 2012, 12:20 am: There's a quote I was reminded of when I read your post.
"If you were really, truly, undeniably in love with the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second one"
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