I don't honestly know what to do. This guy made me feel really special, and it wasn't just in a friend way, he would use the words beautiful, babe and much more. I really fell for him & when I told him... He stopped texting me, he would ignore my messages because obviously he would of read them. He still acknowledges me whenever I see him, like with a smile. But avoids the question whenever I tell him how I feel (I've told him more than once) but it seems like I'm not getting anywhere. The only thing I could think of was telling him in person, so from across the room I mimed “what's wrong? Don't ignore my messages. You need to tell me where I stand” he was saying he couldn't hear me, and kept repeating what? I kept frowning and then laughing, then he started laughing. (I'm a teen at school also) when I got out of the room, he was stood with his friends so I didn't say a thing. I don't really know what to do? I never have a chance to speak up front. Now that I'm no longer at that school, I will hardly see him. Can someone please tell me what could be the possibly reasons for why he's done this? What I need to do, to possibly solve it? Please, that would be a massive help.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? da1N0nlyfriend answered Friday June 8 2012, 5:27 am: honestly i feel that this guy was just either is trying to make you feel better with his kind words for whatever reason it could be or he might of just liked you but might of been shy or even embarrassed around his friends. He might just be like the kind that just plays around or even is afraid to tell his feelings. you never know it would have been better if you would of asked him a better question like why were you being all nice and now are ignoring me but sense you said your in another school you should Probability let it go unless you want to talk to him again you should just find him and tell him your feelings sense he doesn't answer you messages(: [ da1N0nlyfriend's advice column | Ask da1N0nlyfriend A Question ]
rainbowcherrie answered Thursday June 7 2012, 11:33 am: He sounds like a typical teenage player.
If he was interested then he would acknowledge you when you tell him how you feel and he would make an effort to talk to you.
Who knows why he lost interest. Perhaps he met someone else, perhaps he decided he didn't like you in that way, or perhaps he was just messing with you. You'll probably never know. Don't beat yourself up about it. You'll soon discover that there are many, many guys like this (and girls too I might add), who will play people and lead them on.
6dep6ressus6 answered Tuesday June 5 2012, 10:45 pm: probly should try to move on cuz he sounds like almost every guy i know including my self. to dumb to chang there mind and wont want too. i wish i could give you more help but thats just how this shit seems to work out. [ 6dep6ressus6's advice column | Ask 6dep6ressus6 A Question ]
brandi11 answered Tuesday May 29 2012, 6:42 pm: I must ask, does he reply to your messages when you're not telling him how you feel about him or did he just quit talking to you all together? If that's the case, then he may have led you on without thinking he was, or he may not know what to say. I would find time to pull him away from his friends & just ask him where you stand with him. Let him know that you're confused about the situation & you thought it was becoming something more than friends. If that doesn't work & you still don't want to give up on him then play hard to get. I hope this helps & things work out for you! (: [ brandi11's advice column | Ask brandi11 A Question ]
nascarfan1987 answered Tuesday May 29 2012, 5:53 pm: You need to leave him alone. Give up already. He clearly doesn't want to be with you. If he did, he wouldn't play stupid. Mouthing words across the room is silly. If you REALLY want him to be on the spot, write him a note, and have someone give it to him; watch him open it in class, and watch his reaction, that way he can't have an excuse of 'oh well i didn't know what you said'
So put him on the spot;
but since school is almost out; if not already out; you need to just move on. This guy isn't worth your time. He lead you on, and now that he knows you like him, he's taking advantage of it, and treating you like dirt.
GIVE UP.
Plain and Simple
Obviously you didn't like the advice I gave you previously, because you wrote the SAME question again; just worded differently.
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