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Help please: He is living with another woman and sleeping with me...


Question Posted Tuesday May 29 2012, 1:54 pm

I have been sleeping with this guy for 5years now the ladt tim being 4 days ago.when we first started he was on the outs with his on again off again girlfriend of 10 years he has had 2 other serious relationships and I have had one and two kids but we always manage to hook up.hes dating and living with his girl and we have been having sex more now than ever im single and I think I love him although we have never said it to each other.he never calls unless hooking up no bday valentines or mothers day reconition how do I get over him how does he see me?

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VeNzUeLa answered Friday June 1 2012, 7:25 am:
If he never calls you except for when he needs to have sex, that is a problem. Unfortunately, it seems as though even though you two have a relationship that goes way back, that is all it will ever be to him. I suggest you move on, find a stable man and relationship. I don't know how old your children are, but I think you owe them some stability. Find a man that treats you with respect and doesn't leave you feeling like nothing but a 'booty call'. You honestly do deserve better.

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carayotie answered Tuesday May 29 2012, 5:44 pm:
He sounds selfish to me. Wants to have his cake and eat it to. I think you need to cut him lose. As hard as it may be because you have developed feelings for him. But, if he could do cheat on his long term girlfriend, then who are you? He probably wouldn't think twice to do it to you if you guys developed a relationship. I think it'd be better if you move on and find someone who will treat you how you deserve to be treated. it'll be hard, but in the long run I think that would be the best decision you could make with regards to him.

You know the situation better than anyone else, so its totally your call. But if hes already leaving you feeling like the "booty call", then you're way better off without him.

Good luck! xo

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