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Feelings for my fiance's best friend.
Posted Friday June 8 2012, 10:25 pm
Okay, so I've been engaged for about 8 months. My fiance and I have been together for almost two years. Lately, I've developed trust issues with my fiance and I feel as if I'm losing a lot of our connection, and it hurts a lot. My fiance's best friend, who is one of my closest friends as well, has been there for me, and when we all go out together, I feel like I don't even want my fiance there. I think I'm developing feelings for my fiance's best friend. It sucks because I know we could never be together, and I'm still in love with my fiance, but I also have feelings for our friend. I'm so confused, I don't know how to handle this! Help? Please and thank you!<3
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To tell someone you love they are just being rude...
Posted Friday June 8 2012, 5:03 pm
I'm kinda at the end of my rope with my boyfriend. We live together, and he started a new job about 6 months ago that has him stressed out rather often.
I love him, and I want to enjoy our time together, but I just can't. He picks his nose and snorts, wipes his nose on his hands, scratches his crotch, burps, chews his nails, forget to brush his teeth... ectra...
It used to be that if I wanted to have a meal with him without this behavoir, I could at least drag him out of the house, but now that doesn't work either. He's nearly as bad in public as he is at home.
I'm sure he is feeling ignored and neglected, but I just can't take someone seriously when they are acting this way. I feel so disrespect...
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Rascist Father Hates Boyfriend
Posted Friday June 8 2012, 4:49 pm
I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 20. He means the absolute world to me. He is, hands down, the sweetest guy I've ever known. However, he's black.
My dad was perfectly fine with that fact that I had a boyfriend, until I told him that he's black. He won't even give him a chance. My dad knows that my boyfriend is important to me, but all he does is complain.
I told him that if he's just going to act this way, then I'm not so sure I want him around. He said that that was his plan and that if we ever get married or have children, he won't be there for us or for his grandchildren.
It's really upsetting me that my dad is doing this. I'm not too sure what to do. Help?
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I'm in a relationship but I still love my ex:-( help me.
Posted Friday June 8 2012, 3:32 pm
I have been going out with this boy for 1months now,but I still love my ex boyfriend,we were together for 6months but I found out I was being used cause he didn't like being lonely,he broke up with me about 4times in them 6months saying he didn't love me and that but I was stupid enough to go back to him,cause I loved him,now I'm going out with a new guy,he was my ex's best friend:-/ I'm not going out with him for spite or anything like that,but I do love my new boyfriend he treats me better but I still love my ex:-( he is always flirting with a girl now she's 4 years younger than him and 2years younger than me and she's always telling me that she loves him so much,what should I do:-( I love my new boyfriend so much but I still love my ex:-( help!
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Still In Love With My Wife
Posted Friday June 8 2012, 11:12 am
I am still in love with my wife but she is with another man while we are still married what should I do I dont want to divorce her but I dont know what to do
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what should i do stay friends or be more?
Posted Friday June 8 2012, 6:37 am
Hello everyone thanks for taking the time to read this!Well right now i like this guy that is 19 and graduated high school i am 17. He was the shy kid in the back wall all time.He never talked unless he was spoken to and always seemed depressed. i talked to my guy friend in that class most of the time and that friend sat next to the guy i liked obviously my guy friend didn't know i liked him but it was because at that time i wasn't sure if i even liked him. he was way too quiet and i almost gave up on him until he brought his skateboard in the class and my guy friend asked him to show him some tricks and well i commented that he was good of course he answered with thanks but even that made him shy. well eventually we talked more.He was less...
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I'm missing him so much
Posted Thursday June 7 2012, 10:19 pm
My boyfriend has just gone away for just three days!Even so,I'm already missing him as if he had gone a year ago,or as if he had gone for a year,I cannot focus on my things,I'm thinking about him all the time,I'm going mad,it's not normal,what can I do till he comes back to hug me and kiss me?thanks:)
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im so confused to what to say or do with my "crush"!!
Posted Thursday June 7 2012, 5:01 pm
14/f i've liked this guy for about a year. i was going through really hard shit with my family and everything a year ago and he helped me through it. last year we just started talking, i have a lot of guy friends so it wasnt unusuale i didnt even like him like that in the beginning. but i started realizing we have a lottt in common. even our signs go together perfectly. but at the time i was really self conscious and i knew people were going to start to notice that we were becoming more than friends. usually i wouldnt care because i dont give a fuck what people think about me, but at the time it affected me. so thats when i started liking him. and im pretty sure he liked me too. but his ex girlfriend is this popular girl who is such a jelou...
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Did I give up on myself?
Posted Thursday June 7 2012, 4:36 pm
I have had a crush on the same guy all my life (and no, that is not a dramatic exaggeration) and now, he has a girlfriend. I am surprizingly not bothered by this, why? All I really care about is if he's happy. Does this mean I've given up?
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I want to do something for my boyfriend
Posted Thursday June 7 2012, 4:27 pm
My boyfriend is away at the moment and gets back on Monday. I've really missed him and we've just come through a bit of a rough patch so I'd like to do something special for him. Obviously I could just cook him a romantic meal, but we do that for each other around once a week anyway so I'd like to do something different. I haven't got much money to spare so it needs to be something fairly low cost. Any ideas?
We're both 20 and more or less living together.
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Why can't I have a normal relationship?
Posted Thursday June 7 2012, 3:54 pm
I'm 17/f. I see all my friends have long-lasting relationships and they go everywhere with their boyfriends and they're happy. I've never had that. My "relationships" were all about sex pretty much. I have quite a past of guys that I thought made me happy, but really I look back and I've never had a good relationship. I'm attractive, have a good personality, have a promising future, and I can get along with any type of person. What's wrong with me? I'm almost 18 and I'm sick of feeling like I've been used.
I honestly don't even want a relationship with sex in it because I'm sick of it. I've never been on a date and I've never had a fun time with a guy that didn't involve sex. And thinking about it makes me mad. Why can't ...
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how do I talk to him
Posted Thursday June 7 2012, 1:44 pm
I have had a huge crush on this guy since high school, but we never talked to eachother,he was basically my senior in high school we would see each other but we never said hello... Right Now I am in my 3rd year in the university, his not in my school, and I just got his blackberry contact from a friend and I added him up and he accepted but I don't know how to start a conversation with him, I feel like he may just turn me off, and I have liked him since then this shit won't go away pls what should I do
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18 so out of reach?
Posted Thursday June 7 2012, 11:51 am
Hi,
Ok so I'm nearly 17.
I go to college and therese this guy who I'm not sure likes me. Firstly we're both very quiet and shy so thats why I'm unclear.
Like sometimes I'll look up and he'll be looking at me, and although we don't speak to each other he does mutter stuff to me pointlessly when handing out class papers and stuff.
I think he's 18 and nearly 19 and I'm only 16 still. But do you think this is a kind of turn off?
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Is it likely he will miss me?
Posted Thursday June 7 2012, 9:20 am
So that guy I met on the interenet over 6 months ago, ( we meet once ) has really really liked me but then he kinda seemed uninterested, (but we were still talking) in last few weeks so I said that I'm ending things with him as I'm tired of feeling like I'm bothering him, and he hasn't replied to me yet. Is it possible that he will miss me,( even if he did lose interest in me) when were talking every single day, and had plans for the future, his friends really liked me and so on? I kinda regret I said that now, but I feel like I've done the right thing. What you guys thing?
Any reason why would he not replay to me :/?
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What does this sound like to you?
Posted Wednesday June 6 2012, 11:47 pm
So there is this guy I like but I'm not sure if he likes me. He said hi to me once but other than that its been mostly the both of us not trying to get caught starring at each other. He looks at me and then turns away very quickly. He tries to avoid me looking at me but I know he sees me looking at him I mean wouldnt you notice someone looking at you? And lately we seem to be running into each other more than we use to or somehow hes near by where I can see him. And I can be with a group of people and he will talk to everyone but me. I'm trying to get his attention but it doesnt seem to work what do i do? Does he like me or not?
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Messaging a guy
Posted Wednesday June 6 2012, 6:19 pm
I'm live in Canada. So a while ago I asked a question on this site about how to tell a guy how i feel about him and everything.. Someone said to message him on facebook to tell him that i like him and how I feel about him and everything.. But I really confused on what to say! Any ideas?
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Boy trouble
Posted Wednesday June 6 2012, 3:45 pm
Im 16 and I've been going out with my bf for over a month and I really like him and he really likes me but the only problem is he likes to have sex and I don't. He wants me to sneak out with him a lot to do it and I don't want to. A couple of days ago this guy told me he wanted to date me and he is sweet and would never push me to do things like my bf does now. But the problem with him is we are so different. He's more of the preppy kind of guy and I'm more of the laid back person. I know if I leave my bf now I'll miss him like crazy because he's perfect except for the fact he pushes me to do bad things. The new guy is a good boy but idk if I should dump my bf for him or not?
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My ex and friends sister...
Posted Wednesday June 6 2012, 3:34 pm
So my ex bf broke up with me last year and we never talk anymore...it was a long distance relationship and i had really strong feelings for him but now 1 of my friends go ahold of the password and told him i was cheatng on him (when i wasnt) so he just took me off when i asked him why he said i had a weird look on life and he was sorry for me but we could still be friends. Now when go back to add him he just takes me off :( also is it illegal fr a 14 yr girl to date an almost 20 yr guy? its for my friends sister and shes dating him and shes very worried for her sister.
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Which one?
Posted Wednesday June 6 2012, 3:23 pm
Okay, so i have a boyfriend of almost a month now. He's really cute & nice but he's a year younger than me and he can be immature sometimes and it kind of bugs me. We're honestly complete opposites, but somehow i've fallen for him. Except the thing is, he's a sucky boyfriend. He never sends me cute paragraphs, or just tells me what he likes about me. Sometimes I feel like he's using me for my body, but then again he might not be. And when we're on facebook or texting he never sends me smiley faces or anything. He's just boring over messaging. But then there's times once in a while where he can be really cute and sweet. I've been thinking about breaking up with him because my feelings weren't that strong with him but the last time we hu...
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Is he losing his interest? Long-distance!
Posted Wednesday June 6 2012, 1:33 pm
So basically I'm really worried he's losing interest in me. We talk for 5 months now, and he changed in a last month. He still replays to me but he goes off and online quite often. We don't talk for that long anymore and he doesn't compliment me or say anything what he used to say anymore. Few days ago he asked me to Skype with him and he said he really missed me. On Skype he was complimenting me all the time and was showing lots of interest, but he went back to what he used to be after a day. I said to him that I feel like he doesn't want to talk to anymore but he said that he does he's just really tired (There is 6 hours difference) So if I have given him a chance to tell me that he doesn't want anything to do with me would he take it if ...
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