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what should i do stay friends or be more?
Hello everyone thanks for taking the time to read this!Well right now i like this guy that is 19 and graduated high school i am 17. He was the shy kid in the back wall all time.He never talked unless he was spoken to and always seemed depressed. i talked to my guy friend in that class most of the time and that friend sat next to the guy i liked obviously my guy friend didn't know i liked him but it was because at that time i wasn't sure if i even liked him. he was way too quiet and i almost gave up on him until he brought his skateboard in the class and my guy friend asked him to show him some tricks and well i commented that he was good of course he answered with thanks but even that made him shy. well eventually we talked more.He was less shy and we got to know each other but one day he asked for my number well i did and from there we text we talked about our personal experiences with life. He asks me for advice about things like opinions and i guess i always helped him boost his confidence to even make more friends.He felt comfortable talking to me. We even hanged at a skate park once one of my friends came along and he said he didn't want my friend to get the wrong idea about him and me going out and well that sucked its hard to tell if hes like a friend or more were even hanging again...
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Well if you have a wonderful friendship like that maybe you should just leave it alone and not try to make a whole new relationship. Sometimes making a friendship become more could just ruin it. For now maybe you could just try to be there for each other as friends and when you feel like theres more to that then talk to him and see where your relationship goes.
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I think you should let him know what you're looking for, whether it be a friendship or a relationship. LET HIM KNOW! Because if he's shy, he's not going to tell you how he feels about going out, so you just need to give him a little nudge and meet him halfway there. And talk to him PERSONALLY. Don't take the coward's way out and send your friends over to talk to him because that's how information gets screwed up, and besides, it means alot more coming from you. The both of you sound like you would make a great couple.
Good Luck!
~Andrew~
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