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everything happens for a reason
I'm seventeen, female, freshman starting college in the fall. Now, I am firm believer in "everything happens for a reason", all senior year, this boy who has a girlfriend and I had gotten very close. We had a class together first semester, all we would do is goof off, we were quite the fans of taking pictures of people who weren't paying attention and we would laugh at the for days. By the end of the semester, we knew our class was going to change and we wouldn't see each other everyday so we exchanged numbers. We text sometimes but not very often. I wouldn't think much of his, I guess "advances" such as me catching him looking at me a lot or not even being a part of a conversation I'm having yet still laugh at a joke I said, because I'm pretty sure he loves his girlfriend but sometimes he has me second guessing myself. Today, I had college orientation, low and behold, he is attending the same college I am. We didnt acknowledge each other all day until we were let go for free time to go to the party in the dorm basement, as he was walking to the party, he saw me pass him, walking to my room and called my name and motioned with his head toward the party. Going full circle, back to everything happens for a reason, I think both of us coming here while his girlfriend attends college five hours away, isn't coincidence. I know I shouldn't get involved because he is taken so please, no lectures on that but just tell me what you're thinking. Am I thinking to much into it or is he flirting? What do you think I should do if he makes more "advances"? What of he wants to hang out? Thanks.
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I'm sure he is interested. Whatever way it might be. There seems to be something there. And I believe in the same thing you do. Everything does happen for a reason. It could be a test on his end. It could also be a test for you too morally. If he were to make any advances on you, I think it would be a good idea to let him know that you have a lot of respect for his girlfriend. And you would not want to get between that. If he ends separating from his girlfriend, then that's another story :).
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Well maybe you should wait for a while and see what else he'll do. For now you could just stay the way you are and see where it goes. cause it might be a bad thing to get involved, cause as you said he has a girlfriend and i'm sure you wouldnt want to be the third party or anything, so just wait for the right time.
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You want to make sure that he is fully into you. and not just playing the field. if he is still with her. then he is not available. period. It is okay to like him. but don't let things escilate jsut for the fact. what if you were his gf. and had no idea what happening. kind athing.
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