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im so confused to what to say or do with my "crush"!!
14/f i've liked this guy for about a year. i was going through really hard shit with my family and everything a year ago and he helped me through it. last year we just started talking, i have a lot of guy friends so it wasnt unusuale i didnt even like him like that in the beginning. but i started realizing we have a lottt in common. even our signs go together perfectly. but at the time i was really self conscious and i knew people were going to start to notice that we were becoming more than friends. usually i wouldnt care because i dont give a fuck what people think about me, but at the time it affected me. so thats when i started liking him. and im pretty sure he liked me too. but his ex girlfriend is this popular girl who is such a jelous person and is just demented. so i was having a hard time with friends and family. so i thought oh you know what i respect her as a person im not going to date her ex boyfriend. but in reality thats just crazy becase she had stopped dating him for about 8 monthes and she wasnt even my friend. i relaized i should've picked him over her for sure, because me and him would i guarantee still be going out. so i jusft started ignoring him and i could tell it hurt him that i wouldnt give him a hug and talk to him, it hurt me too and i did it anyway. and i totally regret trying to push him away. so then going into this year, 8th grade we didnt have a lot of classes together like we did last year and we dont sit next to each other like we did last year. so it makes it hard for me to to talk to him. but about 2 monthes ago our class was going to the computer lab and i called him over and was like hey sit next to me and as he was walking over he looked really puzzled hes like why? im like idk bc i feel like we havent talked in awhile and he said something like oh well im going to sit over there, and he sat with his friends. im like wtf? it never crossed my mind that he would reject me. but then again thats what i put him through for a year. i wanted to cry and punch my computer screen because it really hurt me. i thought if he had sat down i would have been like hey whats up what are you up to? and eventually saying look i know we havent talked in awhile but im sorry for pushing you away i feel really bad about it, but no he didnt even want to sit down. but he also now gives me alot of mixed signals like saying hi to me occasionally when its convenient for him but he goes up to other girls and hugs them like he used to do to me. but i think hes also scared of me a little bit becasue i come off as this very tough girl and not afraid to tell you how it is and hes a little more sensitive and hes tried so many times that i think hes given up. but i guess the good thing is he wont ignore me he still says hi. i know that if we talk more or if we have more classes next year i know our relationship is still there we just need to work on it, and i need to say im sorry. i mean i have his number, but we havent texted in over a year, were not close anymore and that would just be awkward. and i dont know if should just go up to him and tell him how i feel or what. im really confused and scared. i mean on the other hand i think he'll accept my apology but im still nervous. what to do?? thankyouuu
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hey think you should just tell him that you still would like to talk and if he say yeah sure and you know stuff like that then you should be like i miss talking to you and act like you don't have his number. Make an excuse like i lost your number or something like that and well maybe you guys can start messaging again and became the friends you guys use to be. If he doesn't look convinced with the whole i miss talking to you then you should just sorry to say but you Probability want to move on(:
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well first of all don't mind his ex. if your in love with each other go for it.
okay, well i really think you should go up and talk to him. when theres not to many people come up to him and ask him if you guys could talk. if he doesnt want to then just tell him to listen to what you have to say, and if he doesnt response then just leave it at that. at least you told him how you felt and he knows.
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