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Did I give up on myself?
I have had a crush on the same guy all my life (and no, that is not a dramatic exaggeration) and now, he has a girlfriend. I am surprizingly not bothered by this, why? All I really care about is if he's happy. Does this mean I've given up?
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That's really good that you care so much about he's happiness.Have you given up? I don't know but you look like you truly like him.I think you should maybe wait until they brake up and i know you probably waited to long cause maybe you didn't have the confidence to tell him before but you could also have your friends help you and tell him how you feel. Hope this helped! (:
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well it doesnt really mean you've given up. it just simply means that you love him so much that seeing him happy even with another girl makes you happy. you love him in a way that you want him to be happy with whoever he wants. it's really normal when you love someone, that the only thing that counts is they're happiness.
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*EDIT* In response to your feedback. Thank you for your rating and comment.I understand that,I appreciate how hard it is to get over someone. I have been there it took me a good 3years to get over a guy properly before. I wasnt trying to be passive or disrespectful by suggesting you move on. Its just hard given the circumstances. He has a girlfriend and i can understand how hard that can be to see him with her. But i firmly believe if its meant to be it will be. My current boyfriend liked me for a lot longer than i did him. He had to watch me be with countless people before i realised he was the one for me. So of course there is a chance you could still end up together. But im just saying try not to put your life on.hold for someone. Like i said if its meant to be itl be. Thats not to say you will never lose feelongs for him or truly get over him it just means youl get on with life. Thats my opinion and i hope i havent offended you. Hey there, it doesnt necessarily mean you have given up.It just means you care for him and care about his happiness. Sometimes we have to put our own feelings aside for the sake of others.I think the time has now come for you to move on. He has a girlfriend you are happy for him. Now its time to make your own happiness.keep busy and before you know it someone else will come along and take your interest. Its always hard moving on and it takes time but its mageable. Good luck and much <3 jess 18/f
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