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Is he losing his interest? Long-distance!
So basically I'm really worried he's losing interest in me. We talk for 5 months now, and he changed in a last month. He still replays to me but he goes off and online quite often. We don't talk for that long anymore and he doesn't compliment me or say anything what he used to say anymore. Few days ago he asked me to Skype with him and he said he really missed me. On Skype he was complimenting me all the time and was showing lots of interest, but he went back to what he used to be after a day. I said to him that I feel like he doesn't want to talk to anymore but he said that he does he's just really tired (There is 6 hours difference) So if I have given him a chance to tell me that he doesn't want anything to do with me would he take it if he wouldn't be interested or would he still lie? Is it that he's just getting comfortable with me and just doesn't feel the need of doing all the stuff he did? If he would lose interest would he even still bother replaying to me or would he just stop? And also, should I tell him how much he means to me and that I feel like I'm bothering him all the time?
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Ive been in the same situation, i have found that the best way to get his attention back on you is to distance yourself from him for at least a week or two. this gives him time to miss you, the time that you would talk to himmaybe take a walk get some exercise instead, i promise he will come back to you quickly after a week.
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hey, uhm if i were you i'd also really be worried that maybe he's losing interest in talking to me but sometimes you just have to stop worrying about it so much. there is a possibility that he's just getting comfortable with you that's why he doesnt compliment you alot like before. you should talk to him about all the things your worried about with him and accept whatever he answers. anyway if you feel like he loves you and you know that you love him and besides all the worrying, that you guys are doing good then you should just let go of your worrying and stuff. if he really loves you distance won't be a reason for him to love you less then he did before :)
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