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Okay, so i have a boyfriend of almost a month now. He's really cute & nice but he's a year younger than me and he can be immature sometimes and it kind of bugs me. We're honestly complete opposites, but somehow i've fallen for him. Except the thing is, he's a sucky boyfriend. He never sends me cute paragraphs, or just tells me what he likes about me. Sometimes I feel like he's using me for my body, but then again he might not be. And when we're on facebook or texting he never sends me smiley faces or anything. He's just boring over messaging. But then there's times once in a while where he can be really cute and sweet. I've been thinking about breaking up with him because my feelings weren't that strong with him but the last time we hung out I completely fell in love with him somehow and i'm stuck now. And i recently met this other boy, who had a girlfriend of 10 monthes and just broke up with her yesterday. He's a complete sweetheart in real life and over texting and he just seems perfect. But i know him and he's kind of a player.. plus i think my bestfriend likes him now. But he's still making an effort to talk to me and flirt with me so I know he's interested. He told me if i think my boyfriend treats me like shit then I shouldn't put up with it. He's so sweet, but i know he's probably taking advantage of me. But he has a point with the whole boyfriend thing. I don't know what to do.
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First off. Communication is the key. You should talk to your boyfriend about how you feel and what is lacking in the relationship. If he wants to work on it and you are willing to also then great! :)....if not, that obviously won't be helping your feeling for him get stronger so it would probably be best to just back off. You would most likely end up finding someone else
more suitable for you in that case.
The other guy who just broke up with his girlfriend yesterday. Don't let him use you as a rebound. Ten months in a relationship is a long enough to need some time to get over a person. Again. Don't be the rebound. He is probably most like being nice just to have you as his rebound.
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I think you should tell your bf how you feel. Fix the relationship you're in now before you try to jump ship. Tell your bf you want him to be more romantic. I don't think you should go out with the other guy because if you think he is a player, he is no good. If you talk to your bf and he still isn't being attentive to your feelings, then you should look for someone else. I hope your heart finds what it's looking for.
Good Luck!
~Andrew~
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well if you feel like your bf is just using you for your body then break up with him. if you feel that your unhappy with him and your feelings arent that strong anymore than maybe it's time for you to find someone better and if you can't bear to lose him try telling him how you feel.
now, with this other guy if he's flirting with you and all that then maybe he really likes you. if you know he's a player maybe you could try changing him. make him work hard to have you (that is if you broke up with your bf). the best feeling in the world is knowing that a person has changed because of you.
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