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Feelings for my fiance's best friend.
Okay, so I've been engaged for about 8 months. My fiance and I have been together for almost two years. Lately, I've developed trust issues with my fiance and I feel as if I'm losing a lot of our connection, and it hurts a lot. My fiance's best friend, who is one of my closest friends as well, has been there for me, and when we all go out together, I feel like I don't even want my fiance there. I think I'm developing feelings for my fiance's best friend. It sucks because I know we could never be together, and I'm still in love with my fiance, but I also have feelings for our friend. I'm so confused, I don't know how to handle this! Help? Please and thank you!<3
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well you could try spending more time with your fiance first instead of his best friend. maybe you guys just need more time with each other or you could try to stay away from his best friend for a while and see how that works out.
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Things like this happen all the time. When things are going on between the one you love, you automatically look for someone who kind of 'takes his place'. It's not wrong, but can potentially mess things up if you aren't careful.
Now you say you think you have feelings for your finace's best friend right? Well you only think. This kind of feeling will usually happen if you have something going onbetween the one you really love because the friend offer support and whatnot.
The only advice I can give on this matter is try to talk to your finace. Talking it out will knock down barriers and maybe you guys can come to a solution. Meanwhile, try not to get attached to his friend. This could be bad if you start to really fall for him and he can't be with you. Many people could be hurt in the end.
Hope I could help and good luck. :)x
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