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I don't know what to do with him anymore


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 10:30 am

I don't know what to do with my boyfriend since he keeps hanging up on me,he just stops calling me for the whole day,he acts as though he was actually playing with me,he knows I am very sensitive and overemotional,and he seems to take advantage of that.The thing is that I don't wanna dump him,I cannot imagine my life without him;right away I start missing him a lot,I cry a lot and he knows this;so everytime we have the slightest argument he hangs up on me and spends the rest of the day without calling me or texting me,this situation sucks and I don't want it anymore,but I just don't know what to do,I don't know what to do with him.Last night we sorted things out but he warned me that if we start a fight again, he'll do the same no matter ho...

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Should i ask him out of be friends?


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 3:24 am

Ok so i like this guy hes shy but hes getting better at opening up. i was planing on never telling him that though, but he recently said he liked me.I was happy,but he said he didn't want to ruin the friendship we had and that was the same reason i also wasn't planing on telling him.I told him that i liked him too.Now we just continue to talk normally on the phone and its still the same but i feel like him telling me his feelings about me was going to be different but its not he just acts like nothing happened so i think he just wants to be friends. i'm going to hang with him this weekend so i'm thinking of maybe talking about this in person because on the phone it makes it hard to understand. Someone give me advice on what to say when i'm...

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Still Missing My Ex.. and it's been 4 years


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 12:23 am

I'm sorry this is so long, but I want to give you all the full story! THank you so much for reading!


I recently started dating this really wonderful guy named Tim who is the sweetest, nicest person to me and I am extremely grateful that I met him. I've never had a boy treat me the way he does.

That being said, when I was in high school, I dated a boy I liked for about 3 months. I had gone through 4 relationships (this one being my second) in my high school career, and I can basically boil them down to petty, short high school relationships that were fun while they lasted. However, this one that I dated, we'll call him Carl, was someone that I just became so connected to. I liked everything about him a...

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How can i get my boyfriend to kiss me without makeing the first move


Posted Thursday June 28 2012, 12:16 am

Well my boyfriend is like really shy and is not at all intimate with me in any way .ive read other articles about this and all of them are telling me I should make the first movebut the problem is I'm also very shy so I was wondering is their a way for me to like entice him to make the first move.pleeeaaaassseee help!

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Want to have sex with my ex girlfriend, but I have a new girlfriend too.


Posted Wednesday June 27 2012, 6:26 pm

im 33 male. dated a 28 yr old girl for 1 yr and 8 months. she has a 9 yr old son. broke up this january. we had a lot of petty fights etc as time went on. abt a month ago i entered into a new relationship. she had done so as well (her new bf has been in and out of jail). i told her it was a bad idea and we fought throught text. they broke up and she informed me. last week she texted thanking me for my help as shes finishing nursing school. we have been texting a bit more often nothing ridiculous. texted a lot sunday and i sais i wanted her back. she said come over im lonely and want to have sex w u but no relationship. i did so, and spent the night cuddling, had breakfast etc. i told my current gf that i have feelings for my ex and need to ...

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it is about my wife of over 20 years,i have caught her having affairs


Posted Wednesday June 27 2012, 3:25 pm

i have been married for over 20 years,that has been many ups and downs.i was 45 years old,and she was 19 when we met.our getting together is a story of its own.My question is all through our marriage i have caught her either having affairs with other men,are trying to have an affair with someone.Of course she denys everything but it is very clear to me and anyone who has eyes that it is going on,there is no doubt in anyones mind that it gos on constantly.I think it has lots to do with how she was raised.an other story there too.She was brought up in a home that had no respect for truth,honer are morals.My question is she absolutly knows that i know what she is doing its as plain as night an day.But she will deny any of the relationships unt...

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Asked to dance twice


Posted Wednesday June 27 2012, 3:03 pm

Ok so I was at this party and this really cute Spanish guy was there, I've briefly met him before but I didn't think he would remember me but he did :)
And there was some Spanish salsa music played at the party and and he asked me to dance at the begining and then closer to the end of the party he asked me to dance again to a Spanish song, so both times was to salsa music
I was just wondering does this means he might like me because he asked me twice?
I'm 16/f and he's about 19 (he doesn't know how old I am though so don't take age into account too much)
Thanks

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does he really love me?


Posted Wednesday June 27 2012, 12:19 pm

ok, so just to let you know, i am an eleven year-old girl in seventh grade, blond hair, blue eyes,and im petite. my boyfriend, *tyler*, tells me i'm beautiful and funny and that he loves me everyday/night, (i know what you're thinking, oh, how cute!) but he used to have a gf who broke up with him. (she is now my bestie) the thing is, when he broke up with her, he said, (and i quote) 'ill never love again! id be too sad.' so im not so sure if he lied to her or me, and its really confusing. please dont answer by saying, 'you're too young to date!' because i really love this boy. ps: *tyler* is not his real name and he has brown hair, blue eyes, and he is also skinny

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FIrst kiss with bf...


Posted Wednesday June 27 2012, 8:09 am

Ok so I have actually had my first kiss before but my new boyfriend hasnt and we've been dating since november. He says he wants to kiss me before the school year ends (thursday) and I said okay but truth is im so freaking nervous =/ WHy am i nervous about this when Ive had my first kiss before? Advice? Hes really shy..

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sucide


Posted Wednesday June 27 2012, 5:53 am

iam in love i cant suffer no more problems with my love and i cant live with out her. she wanna break up my relationship with her i have tried two times to die but unluckyly i escaped from that can u please give me esay way die please give better solution for me

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Is it ment to be?


Posted Tuesday June 26 2012, 6:10 pm

This guy and I, that Ive been talking about, we met about 3 years ago. And thru out the years we lost contact gained contact and lost it again. He said he actually went thru my friends facebook to find me. And a second date is the farthest we have gotten. I don't think he's afraid to commit. I really like him, I'm afraid to miss my chance with someone good.

Any advice on dating, would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks!

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Did I miss it?


Posted Tuesday June 26 2012, 6:05 pm

I went on another date with this guy, and its not that my gut says move on, when I'm with him he makes me happy. Makes me feel like whatever happened in my life is pointless, I can move on from it.
The night before our date, I told him the only way I would take his jacket is if we were boyfriend and girlfriend.
During our date at the end of the movie, he tried to give me his jacket, so I said "I don't know what your talking about" but he replied with "Oh, I think you do"

My question, Did i completely miss a chance to finally be his girlfriend?

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he wants a second chance


Posted Tuesday June 26 2012, 2:20 pm

i am 28 i dated this guy for almost 3 yrs .all this time he didn't give me or this relationship much time n thought. so i suffered immensely.it was me calling up after a fight and me starting a conversation always.so i broke up with him 1month back .now he is calling me up and wants to get back.although he is a nice,sweet,loves me absolutely but i ma not sure if this didn't work out in 3yrs will he be able to do it now.moreover my parents are looking fora groom for me.they want me married by next year.should i give him a second chance?or is it smart and hard to just move on and try something that works naturally.moreover my parents are not too keen on him as my future husband.so advice!

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Someone asking me out


Posted Tuesday June 26 2012, 1:30 pm

My crush told my best friend that he was going to ask me out to be his girlfriend and he got me a ring, he is going to ask me out saturday. What do I say im fourteen and not allowed to date, and we date secretly my parrents might find out i live in small town people know everything quickly. I really like him and i know him well and if I tell him to just be friends i know he is not going to. Im going to be a freshman im a girl by the way and its going to be hard, besides Im still in love with another guy.

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WHAT does this Mean???? Urgent replies Needed and Explanations!!!!


Posted Tuesday June 26 2012, 4:04 am


What does it mean when a guy asks you " What are you up to tonight"? OR " What are you doing tonight"? When he has seen you with friends and then he replies back saying " oh okay cool". End of conversation. This can not be a conversation starter because it ended it... :0 I mean why can't they just ask you to do something if they really want. What is up with this?

I mean why do guys ask this question and It can not be a conversation starter because this ended the conversation overall :0

And he is 24 and I am 24 years old as well....so we are not like in our early teens or kids.
He asked me this while he was working after we had talked a bit.

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he doesn't like black women, but I want him to like me anyway! what I do?


Posted Tuesday June 26 2012, 12:23 am

I met a guy who i heard dont like black women but I like him what do i do should i try to convince him to give me a chance and show him that there are good black women out there or just move on i have seen him looking at me so im not sure what to do

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Too young to get married?


Posted Monday June 25 2012, 10:37 pm

I have been dating my soulmate for around 9 years now, starting when i was 11 and now that we have graduated he thinks it's time to get married, his bestfriend warned me he is planning to propose this weekend and I'm only 19. I know i want to be with him for forever and I love him soo much! My parents and his always make snarley comments about how marriage at a young age is over rated and we used to agree when we were younger, but now all we want is to just be with eachother and his folks don't beieve in living with eachother before marriage, so that is a big part of wanting to get married ASAP.

But my question is, Am i being blinded by love and will me saying yes to him this weekend be a mistake?

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What the efff...


Posted Monday June 25 2012, 6:20 pm

Hi. So i had a question about this guy that I am in love with. I met him in November and we started getting to know each other. We don't go to the same college but we became very close. and are from the same home town. We then decided that we liked each other and started dating. It went well for the most part but we started fighting over dumb things. One day he was amazing such and amazing loving guy and the next he was a cold heartless guy I didn't know. But in January he was amazing and in a good loving mood and then he went back to school after christmas break. That day he told me he was really busy and couldn't talk as much. This lead to him never talking to me anymore. We would talk (always m texting first) every two weeks but nothing ...

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My Boyfriend and I's Complications


Posted Monday June 25 2012, 6:18 pm

My boyfriend for 5 years is absolutely fabulous, but we have our differences. His parents are rich and way more formal compared to my living standards and it causes a lot of problems between us. His parents constantly judge my family and I, and push him to break up with me all the time. It gets to the point where they make up exscuses for us to not hangout, therefore we hardly get to see eachother and we are 17. it has been five years and they still wont accept him dating me! He always bails and flakes out on plans we make and it stinks. I come close to just letting them win and breaking up with him because it's like a 6th grade relationship if we never get to hangout and just make phone calls and text all the time, I want that boyfriend wh...

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Can't pick a nickname for my boyfriend


Posted Monday June 25 2012, 5:30 pm

What are good nicknames for my boyfriend?

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