My crush told my best friend that he was going to ask me out to be his girlfriend and he got me a ring, he is going to ask me out saturday. What do I say im fourteen and not allowed to date, and we date secretly my parrents might find out i live in small town people know everything quickly. I really like him and i know him well and if I tell him to just be friends i know he is not going to. Im going to be a freshman im a girl by the way and its going to be hard, besides Im still in love with another guy.
Imperfectionist answered Wednesday June 27 2012, 2:09 am: do you like this guy? if so, i say go for it. sit down with your parents and talk to them. if they still say no, go for it anyway. if they find out you two have been dating secretly, you can't say you didn't warn them.
but if you really are in love with another guy. who cares. tell this guy that's about to ask you out. of course do it gently. because there is no point leading him on. you will never have a real relationship no matter what as long as you love someone else. [ Imperfectionist's advice column | Ask Imperfectionist A Question ]
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