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Want to have sex with my ex girlfriend, but I have a new girlfriend too.
im 33 male. dated a 28 yr old girl for 1 yr and 8 months. she has a 9 yr old son. broke up this january. we had a lot of petty fights etc as time went on. abt a month ago i entered into a new relationship. she had done so as well (her new bf has been in and out of jail). i told her it was a bad idea and we fought throught text. they broke up and she informed me. last week she texted thanking me for my help as shes finishing nursing school. we have been texting a bit more often nothing ridiculous. texted a lot sunday and i sais i wanted her back. she said come over im lonely and want to have sex w u but no relationship. i did so, and spent the night cuddling, had breakfast etc. i told my current gf that i have feelings for my ex and need to step back a lot. my ex and i went for lunch yesterday. i keep saying ive learned a lot and wed do better. she is resisting my approaches but hints at future sexual meetings or maybe hanging out. i know i want her back but am emotional abt it and she sees it. what do i do??
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Alrighty. First off, you are aware that you cheated on your current girlfriend, right? You treated it as a lesser thing, but truthfully it was the only thing I could focus on after reading it. Seriously? Maybe your ex is afraid she'll end up being the toy your current girlfriend is. You should be straight up with women just as you want them to be with you. I'm sorry to tell you, but she's most likely using you as a boy toy until she finds someone who can give her what she wants, sexually and emotionally. About your current girlfriend, did you even tell her you had sex with your ex? You should think about setting things straight with these women, I'm sure neither of them are pleased with the situation. Best of luck.
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From one guy to another; your an ass and a player. That does not work today. When you leave a relationship you don't go back for a booty call, I don't care how good the sex is. Your ex is using sex to string you along at the same time is keeping you from having any real relationships with someone else.
Dump the booty call and don't turn back. Find someone you can relate with and not constanly argue with. Every relationship has their petty fights and even a few humdingers. Most of all they have have more respect and love for one another than fighting. This is the type of relationship you want to find for yourself.
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Why did you enter a relationship if you weren't completely over your ex?
My honest opinion, Your ex is nothing but a home wrecker. This women clearly does not want nothing more then a friends with benefits at the time. You didn't work out the first time, You likely won't work out the second time either. The reason I believe so is because she isn't looking for anything serious, You are a booty call. I really do believe with Rahzie it is a shitty thing to do to lead someone on. The women you were dating could of very well been the start of something new and good but you sort of blew that one.
One of the golden rules, You never befriend an ex. Unless you are the father of her son or there are parental issues between the two of you then there should be NO reason to be in contact with her. Also on a side note, If you were not dating her then whether it is a good idea or not you have no right too tell her whom she should and should not date. She moved on, You should of done the same.
You are pulling strings here and setting yourself up for another break up. If you want an emotional relationship then end it and find someone who is willing to give you the same and stop contacting your ex whom is nothing but drama.
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Stop stringing your current 'girlfriend' along. You don't want to be with her. You want to at least sleep with you ex, and possibly date her. So, you are just keeping her hanging in case it doesn't work out with your ex.
It sounds like you are also willing to sleep with your ex, and not be upfront with your current girlfriend about not being sexually exclusive with her.
And that is a shitty thing to do!
That makes you a lousy person and an asshole.
So, don't do shitty things!
Be honest and upfront and end that relationship before ANYTHING else happens.
Call her up and do it now.
Whatever happens with your ex is going to happen - or not happen - regardless. The best thing you can do is be honest with everyone, and you honestly don't want to be with your current girlfriend.
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