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What the efff...
Hi. So i had a question about this guy that I am in love with. I met him in November and we started getting to know each other. We don't go to the same college but we became very close. and are from the same home town. We then decided that we liked each other and started dating. It went well for the most part but we started fighting over dumb things. One day he was amazing such and amazing loving guy and the next he was a cold heartless guy I didn't know. But in January he was amazing and in a good loving mood and then he went back to school after christmas break. That day he told me he was really busy and couldn't talk as much. This lead to him never talking to me anymore. We would talk (always m texting first) every two weeks but nothing like it was. He then over spring break texted me and things were like they were before, but when he went back to school I got my heart broken again. I've never been so heart broken and in love with someone. He never gave me a reason why he stopped talking to me which really messed me up. I decided to do my best to ignore my feelings for him. It was his birthday Friday and I didn't text him. He texted me at night and we were talking. He kept saying he wished he could see me in a bikini and out of the blue he said he was talking to a girl who never pleasured herself and asked if that was weird. I said not everyones open to talking about it. and he was like yeah no every one loves it like you ;) i joked it off then he kept asking me to talk about it. He would of NEVER brought something like this up before. I told him off once and for all. I said his friendship meant a lot to me and by him going so long in silence and then finally contacting me and bringing this up shows it meant nothing to him so i don't want it anymore. He never answered. Can anyone help me figure out what he was thinking in texting me that? Did i Do the right thing? I miss and love him. what do i do now?
Thanks sooooo much in advance for any advice! :):):)
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would it be rude if i simply just came and said: you were getting played. well still are because people like that love to treat you so good that you have trouble forgetting about them. so they can have you whenever they want you. so you're still in his little game. you were right to do what you did and the next time he talks to you ignore it. don't give him any response at all. he isn't even worth it. go find someone who is actually worthy of your time.
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The guy doesn't feel the same. It happens. Not every relationship is mutual no matter how much we wish it. Him talking to you one day and not talking to you the next indicates that he was just toying with you. He may have had mixed feelings about the relationship. He spoke to you when he was in the mood for companionship and you were probably his entertainment when he was bored. He needs to get a life. He texted you out of the blue about the girl because his conversation with her made him think of you. It humored him. If you were somebody's special someone, you would know it. You need to move on, this guy isn't going to give you what you're worth. You are special and you need to find a guy that knows that. That guy is exploring his options. You don't want to be the girl he falls back on because he can't settle for any other girl. If you want to have him running, send him a picture of you in a bikini but I think it's stupid to want a guy that put you to the side no matter how wonderful he seems. Shop around and pick you out something better (; Hope I could be of any help to ya.
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