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How to catch a good boy


Posted Tuesday March 15 2005, 1:52 pm

So there's this boy I used to see at school a lot. Now he works at a grocery store in our town. Only he works early in the morning. I've heard a lot of really good things about him lately. Everyone says how amazingly nice he is. And considering nice guys are hard to find, I want to have a fair chance at this guy. But he also has a girlfriend (so I've heard.. from a boy who likes me..)

So I want a chance at him, but I've never spoken to him before, never had a class with him, and I dont have the slightest idea how to approach him and what to say.

Any help is greatly appreciated.

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i like him.. but what should i do? =/


Posted Tuesday March 15 2005, 11:53 am

i like this boy called daniel, but i dont know what to do! today in PE my friends were saying, lets call lauren's (my) crush daz, as a code name. as in daniel (they have these sad code names for the boys they fancy). i didn't tell them that i fancied him, but they must know, and plus in art, one of them asked if i fancied dan. i shook my head but i was smiling a bit so i guess they knew =( i'm really scared they'll tell him! he said he liked my drawing in art, and that it was better than his, and he kept touching my foot with his foot under the desk too. i'm real shy + ugly lol so i dont know what to do! id love to go out with him but i'm scared my friends would laugh. and plus he probably doesnt even like me =/ please help? thanks =)

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hes so mysterious...


Posted Tuesday March 15 2005, 9:54 am

I have a problem, i like a guy and im really not sure if he likes me back. Some of you told me he does and some said maybe hes beeing too friendy.
Anyway...
Yesterday I was absent so I asked my gf to say hi to him for me.
So he was surprised and asked her if I were sick and she said I was. She said he thought for a moment and then thanked her.
So, does this mean he's concerned? My other friends were shocked too, so does this mean he cares about me?

Today, I went to school cause I was feeling better.
First time we ran into each other, he was with a friend of his, so he said "Whats up?" without even looking me in the eye, just while he walked.
So I said "hey" ...

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where can i meet a nice girl? and how?


Posted Tuesday March 15 2005, 7:04 am

if you have read the previous post, you'd know how pathethic my love life is (20m never had gf). Anyway, where can i meet a nice girl? And how do i get to know her?

(any nice girl out there?)

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Less Experienced


Posted Tuesday March 15 2005, 6:36 am

Umm. This is pretty awkward to say, but I recently just got a boyfriend for the first time, which is exciting and all..except he has been all the way, meanwhile I have never even kissed anyone..but he doesnt know that.. what should I do?

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Am i a loser or my love life just suck????


Posted Tuesday March 15 2005, 6:25 am

THIS IS PRETTY LONG AND BORING....
Im 20m and never had a girlfriend!!!I never even hold or kiss a girl before.... It's not that im ugly or gay, although im not the cute or handsome type either. When i was in high school there were a few girls that come up to me but they weren't my type so i refused them all. But the girl that was my type, i never had the courage to ask them out (im very shy around the girl i like). Now that i drop out of college and work fulltime, i dont have the chance of meeting new people. HOW AM I GOING TO GET A GF? I dont hang out that much and i had never step foot in a club before. Here's the weird thing, the older i get the pickier i am about girlfriend. I thought that not having a gf is suppose to make me d...

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whats the deal!!


Posted Tuesday March 15 2005, 2:20 am

I am a 28 year old male with 2girls 4,and9 been with their mom 10years very happy!!Asked her to marry me she said yes ,things were grate 4 amonth and now she cant stand me for the most part but still afectionate and also head strong on moving out pleas help loves ontheline!!!!!

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long time ago still worth it?


Posted Tuesday March 15 2005, 12:20 am

Guys only please-just a quick question wondering if i could get some feedback

i used to have a friends with benefits deal with this kid-and after going on for about a year it ended just recently about 3 months ago-my question-do you think it would be akward for me to IM and just start talking to him him seeing as i've never done so before or as a guy would u find that akward and uncalled for? just wondering thanks a lot

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Kirsten


Posted Monday March 14 2005, 11:26 pm

Ok, theres this guy i like, hes a really shy guy till he gets to know you and stuff but anyways, theres this pretty girl that knows him pretty well cuz she has known him longer but she ask me if i thought he was cute and if i liked him and i told her i do and she started flirting with him a couple minutes later. like hitting him and giggling and picking on him and stuff. she was so flirting but...

she KNOWS i like him, and i thought she was my friend. how could she do that? what should i do..i dont have the courage to say anything. that and i dont wanna mess up our friendship but i have been trying to get him to like me and it was working so well, he did like me and then she started that and now i dont know. how can i get hi...

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Posted Monday March 14 2005, 11:00 pm

There is this guy at my school, who is really nice and cute. I like him a lot but he has a girlfriend. He always flirts with me though, and so I feel like I'm getting mixed signals, what should I do? Should I tell him I like, him?

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my friend and boyfriend


Posted Monday March 14 2005, 9:36 pm

Ok well it all started when me and my friend ( chelsea ) was sitting at lunch and matchng people up with good couples she matched me up with this new boy michael in 8th grade ( im in 7th ) i didnt know who he was and when i did find out who he was I LIKED HIM .. ALOT .... and i found out he had a girlfriend in 6 grade but she was cheating on him so I told my friend to ask him out for me and to tell him his girlfriend was cheating on him ... he told my friend he didnt know who I was and he would ask his girlfriend about the cheating thing... so then after that, the next week or so ... my friends dared me to say hi to him and i was really scared but i managed to choke out a fast hay and then the next day ( today ) i got caught throwing food a...

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boyfriend losing interest.


Posted Monday March 14 2005, 9:13 pm

Over the past few weeks my boyfriend has seemed [for lack of better words] wilted. He isn't happy, around me that is. He just came over so we could study for a test, and he was TOTALLY uniterested in me.. like over and over I asked him if I was that uninteresting, and if I was that unatractive and he said no to both, but that didn't change his mood.. I'm getting mixed singals here. Yes I have talked to him about this but what else can I do?

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He doesnt like me


Posted Monday March 14 2005, 8:38 pm

I like this guy

he doesnt like me

what do i do to get him to...??

i really need help!


<3 Kristi

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Posted Monday March 14 2005, 8:37 pm

i don't know what to do... i'm wicked shy round boys, but when im with my friends, i can be loud any way, my friend....in another homeroom.... sits next to tha kid i like (she doesnt like him...likes his friend) and she is good friends with him. everytime i go into her homeroom, one of my other friends follows me and is sooo loud, and i am afraid that he thinks i am like that. i know what ur all gonna say....if he doesnt like your friends then he doesnt like you..... the thing is...ii would never be like that around my loud friends crush..i know him very well thats why! so sorry its so long, please respond!!

love...
TROUBLED LOVER!

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Posted Monday March 14 2005, 7:29 pm

okay.... i really like this kid... but he has no idea, and ii dont kno what to do... he just broke up with his girlfriend..((a couple of months ago)) and is finally free.lOl soo what should ii do?? ii really like him!!!ii also talk to him on AIM... but ii dont kno what to say to him..pleaze help me with that 2!


lOve...
troubled love life

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Life


Posted Monday March 14 2005, 7:15 pm

Ok, where to start? I'm a freshman in high-school, and I totally hate high-school. I mean, its not THAT bad, but I'd prefer middle school, anyday. Last year, (in 8th grade) I had it all. Great friends, boyfriends, pretty decent grades, and everybody liked me pretty much. I was Ms. Perfect, and I was supposedly SUPER-HOT, or so everybody said. Now, I feel like crap. I'm always trying to be someone I'm not. My best friend moved away, far and we barely ever keep it contact. My other best friend, well we don't even ever hang out because I ditched her for my current best friend, and so now she had better friends, and I'm just a nobody. And my new best friend, well we've only been friends for about a year, not entirely, but the fights we get into...

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HELP!


Posted Monday March 14 2005, 6:27 pm

I guess this goes under this category but oh my gosh! i need HELP! Ok i am 13/f and i go out with this guy named David...well im his first girlfriend which is UNBELIEVABLE because hes SO sweet and hes not really hott but ya know! and so since im his first girlfriend his mom wants me to have dinner with them on friday...which REALLY sucks! because of ME! well i dont know if i can even go yet because i might have to go to my dads but still....i am SO SHY! like only around older people such as adults! but not people my age! see im so shy that when i talk about something thats kinda embarassing to me about my family, i get all shy and turn red...i dont know why and it makes me MAD! and its stuff thats not even that emabarssing!! anyone know what i can do to prepare or anything!?!

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love triangle! </3


Posted Monday March 14 2005, 6:16 pm

w0w i hate these l0ve life ?'s and all but i really really need help. Okay, this kid i like, is going out with another girl who is younger than him, but is really nice to me, and she was on my basketball team. Well you see, this boy and i have been talking on aol a whole lot and we feel sooo comfterable with eachother. He even told me that he talks to me longer and about more important things than w/ his gf and that he likes me more than her! Im not sure what to do tho cuz i really like him, but i dont want to hurt his gf. Can anyone help me?
signed- c0nfused

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paranoid?


Posted Monday March 14 2005, 6:04 pm

[note: this will be long]

I'm 19/f he's 20/m.

I've been with my boyfriend for what will be 3 years in August and I love him very much. But sometimes I can't help but think things like what if another girl comes along that appeals to him and will take him away from me?

My boyfriend always reassures me that he will never cheat, and I believe him for the most part, it's just that I can't help thinking these morbid thoughts. He's a people person who gets along with everybody. But as you know some girls mistake being nice with flirting...and I'm afraid that his social skills might get him into trouble someday.

We don't live as close to each other and don't get the opportunity to see eac...

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Lost and confused!


Posted Monday March 14 2005, 6:00 pm

Please read! This is the most confusing and hurtful thing that happened to me!

I have a boyfriend and I really love him. Even though I still am going out with him I've liked this guy soooo much this whole year! This guy knew that I liked him and he liked me to. Like 2 weeks ago him and his girlfriend broke up. While they were going out he was telling me that he really does like me and that he wants to go out with me. Well, he asked me out but I was still going out with my boyfriend. This weekend we didnt talk much. When I did he told me he wasnt over his ex girlfriend! I dont know what to do! Im heart broken! He told me he liked me and now I`m not in the picture anymore. He forgot about me and moved on! Please help! What did...

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