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i don't know what to do... i'm wicked shy round boys, but when im with my friends, i can be loud any way, my friend....in another homeroom.... sits next to tha kid i like (she doesnt like him...likes his friend) and she is good friends with him. everytime i go into her homeroom, one of my other friends follows me and is sooo loud, and i am afraid that he thinks i am like that. i know what ur all gonna say....if he doesnt like your friends then he doesnt like you..... the thing is...ii would never be like that around my loud friends crush..i know him very well thats why! so sorry its so long, please respond!!
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If you aren't being loud he probably know you're not that way.I wouldn't let that part bother me.Talk to him and make friends with him.
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I don't know if I can help ya much, but I'll try. Try to talk to your friend about it. Don't go up to her and say, "you're too loud. leave me alone when I go in there." or any thing. when you go in there say somethin' like, "Hey, I don't mean to be rude, but can you kinda tone it down a notch. I have a headache." or somethin'. In my opinion it wouldn't be lying, because it looks to me like she is your headache. in a way your calling her a name without her knowing it, but shh, keep it hush-hush. Or if she knows you like him, just ask her to be a lil' less loud when your around him. Ask her if she'd appreciate it if you were loud like that around her crush and stuff. If you use this approach, be sure to keep telling her stuff like' "your one of my best friends, and I don't wanna hurt your feelings, but..." and fill in the dots. as for your shyness, your gonna have to get over that. try and say hi to him or something to build up your confidence around him, but don't go any farther than "I'm so-n-so" unless he starts talkin'. then just keep it cool & go where the conversation takes you. It'll probably still be a while before there's a chance of dating, but even if you never date you'll have a new friend. hope I helped ya.
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what are you asking? im kinda confuse about your question. Is there one?
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