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choosing between two guys
Posted Tuesday July 24 2012, 4:07 am
im torn between two guys jake and kyle. ive been in a relationship with jake for about three years, however we broke up during that time and kyle and i got together. kyle and i lasted about 5 days, and jake and i got back together. but now its a year since all this hppened and i still find my self thinking about kyle. anytime kyle sees me he always makes it a point to talk to me, he also points me out to his friends if they see me out. when kyle and i were together for the 5 days we took things to the next level and went all the way .. but jake and have as well many times. i still think that i have feelings for kyle. but im not sure and im not sure if he feels the same. i find him more attractive than jake. i love jake but he treats me badl...
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I'm scared...and lost
Posted Tuesday July 24 2012, 4:02 am
Hey, I'm 13yo/f and I like this dude, 13yo/m and he used to like me too, but now I'm not too sure about it...well, we chat all the time on Facebook and that's when he said he likes me, I do too...so out of the blue he kind of stopped going on Facebook, I get confused if he's online or offline cz he's logged in on his iPod you know...like me, some people think I'm online, but I'm not I'm just logged in on my iPod all the time...so he's like obssesed with Basketball, so we all know he towers me cz he's very tall. I messaged him one day saying, 'if you dont like jus tell me.' the next day he responded and sed, 'you know, I'm so so sorry, but I'm too busy with basketball and I don't have the moment to get into anyone..' I said, 'sure ok, but i ...
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More than friendzoned
Posted Tuesday July 24 2012, 2:33 am
Hey! I'm 15 and female.
I've gone through a lot, but of course one of my problems has to be a guy :/
Basically, I met him, we hit it off. I didn't like him at first. I thought I'd end up friendzoning him, but I started to like him. And not for shallow reasons. Lot's of guys call me beautiful, but he's no quarterback, and I really don't mind. He's sweet, smart, and my type, and we spent a lot of time together. If someone my age can fall in love, I did it there.
So when I finally tell him I like him (VERY brave, for me at least), he responds well. Telling me how sweet and beautiful I am. Etc.
Then, the next weekend, my best friend, who knew I liked him, announces they're going out.
And she's so crappy to him...
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Do I have a right to be upset with my boyfriend?
Posted Tuesday July 24 2012, 1:53 am
21/F
Me and my boyfriend of four years have a long distance relationship and this is just one of many typical conversations I have with him:
"Him: so is that a no to seeing you this weekend?
Me: yea :( I'm on vacation with *best friends name* family for the weekend I would invite u but it's pretty far
Him: I don't mind the drive
Me: good to know :)
Him: lol why?
Me: cause it actually means you care enough to come see me even if it's really far and that means a lot to me... It's nice to sometimes have confirmation that you really do care
Him: your welcome!"
And that was it i havent talked to him since Saturday. Is it wrong that I'm upset that all he had to say was you...
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Wedding-Nervous??
Posted Monday July 23 2012, 9:50 pm
19/f
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years in November. We are engaged, and planning a wedding in 2015.
I know he is the one I want to be with, we have a normal relationship, it isn't perfect, but its worth every second.
Last night my mom asked me about the wedding deal, and it got me really thinking about it, and now I have butterflies and I'm really nervous although its 3 years away.
Is this normal?
What are some tips when planning a wedding; like things you wish you knew BEFORE you got married?
Any tips would be helpful.
I don't have any female friends-too much drama and dont' care to have any- so what should I do about BridesMaids & Maid of Honor??
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Does he like me?!
Posted Monday July 23 2012, 7:15 pm
i'm 19/f.
he's 22/m.
this boy i've been crushing on. i feel like he gives me special attention. I live 3 hours away during the school year, but during the summer we hangout. saw him last nigth and i was about to leave, so i gave him a hug- he was distracted (talking to someone about dinner plans) and I escaped. i had a previous engagement to get to, anyways. he then texts me 10 minutes later and says, "why do you always leave?! you couldve come out to eat with us."
then this morning he texts me and asks if we can get coffee tomorrow..... whhhhhat?
what do y'all think?! does he like me? what should i do?!
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How do you get over a guy??
Posted Monday July 23 2012, 4:36 pm
We've started talking/become friends since the last couple of months. We go home on the same school bus and recently hes started to walk me home everyday, and my house is a couple of streets away from his and further from the bus stop, but he takes me to my house anyways.
I want to get over him because of, well, him. He's really nice when it's just us 2 but around his friends at school, hes a complete douche and sometimes he ignores me. My friends don't know the 'him' without his friends, so they think that he's a bad influence on me and there's times that part of me actually agrees with them.
I really do like him, and everytime we walk home and talk, I fall for him just that little bit more. But I know it wo...
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Can I Ever Figure Out If He likes Me.?
Posted Monday July 23 2012, 1:38 am
Hi my name is Haley im 13 and im from Georgia I like this guy and ive liked for going on 2 years and idk how to ask him if he likes me i know its not the proper/right way to make the 1st move but it seems like ill have to does anyone have any suggestions..?
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How to get to know if a guy likes you..
Posted Monday July 23 2012, 1:01 am
Hi, My name is Haley Williams Im 13 and I want to see if this guy likes me well... Ive talked to him a few times at like homecoming and stuff like that at school but its been about a year since I last talked to him and well im friends with him on facebook but im scared to message him and ya its kinda hard to explain but anyways he is a friend of my cousins and I told her about me liking him and she said well does he like you and I paused and finally replied I dont know and well what should I do I like him alot and I have butterflies everytime I talk to him can u help me.?
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do yung ppl know to much about things tht dont fit their age?
Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 10:20 pm
hi im 12/f, am i stupid ?? ok so for the past few days all i hav been thinkin about is that i think ppl tht r waaaayy to young are thinkin about adult things(and u no wat i mean) but i think its bc their parents dont really hav a connection with their children which is y they do what they want..... now im confused is this a stupid thing to think or is it all in my head?????????????? thanks:)!!
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Talking to guys
Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 1:42 pm
Hey, 17/f
Basically I have a bit of a problem with talking to the opposite sex. You see, a relationship two years ago (over in 5 months) only came about because I talked to a guy, and he took it as me leading him on abit.
So now, I cant really have a conversation in class with any guy because I'm worried they'll think I fancy them. So basically in class I ignore the guys and talk to the girls. However, this cant continue as I'll be in a v.male class next year and they'll think I'm odd.
So How do you talk to guys without them thinking you fancy them?!
Thanks
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Am I being too jealous?
Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 11:21 am
Hi, I'll try to make this as short as possible and get right to the point. My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months and we're completely in love with each other. He has a lot of friends that are girls, which is not a problem of course since we trust each other. But, lately, this girl has been really attached to my boyfriend. She keeps leaving him comments on his facebook that are paragraphs saying she loves him, he's her "bestie" and is always there for her, etc. The thing is that I've only met her twice and I'm always with my man since we live together, so when did she suddenly become best friends with him?
That's not what has me jealous, though. A few days ago my boyfriend told me that this girl wants to...
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Two year crush, and still can't talk to him.
Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 10:17 am
Okay, so I've had a crush on this boy for about two years already. I don't really get to see him because he's graduated from my school and gone to high school. And every time I'm pretty sure I'm getting over him, he just pops up somewhere. I know I don't have a lot of things in common with him and he wouldn't want to be with a naive little eighth grader, but I just want to talk to him. He thinks I'm a bit annoying and obvious because of these past couple years, but I want him to see I've changed. But how am I supposed to do that if I never see him? I have only ever said a few words to him, but I want to have a conversation with him.
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Should I go through with this
Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 6:58 am
I was thinking that my ex-wife was such a b**** that at 3 am I would stand on her front lawn screaming the Christmas song must be santa in the middle of July what do you think
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12 yr. olds sex life :(
Posted Sunday July 22 2012, 2:04 am
ok so my friend is 12 (im 13 we're like 3 months apart) and today she was going on about how this boy, lets call him O and her D, wants to have sex with her. you know what? here's the REAL conversation.
D:omg O wants to have sex with me!!
me: but eww you guys r too young and noones gonna sell condoms to you guys!
D: O has pulls, duh.
me: no D its a really bad idea youll be known as a slut.
D: WHO CARES ive liked him for 5 yrs.
me: so? you arent even dating him!!!!
D:what ever you dont get it.
me: yeah i do.
D: at least ive had a one night stand.
i havent replied to her yet but i dont want her to screw up :( i want to email it to her parents soo bad but i dont know...
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my boyfriend promest me he will engage to me
Posted Saturday July 21 2012, 11:12 pm
My boyfriend promest me that he will engage to me a romantic engagement on the weekend of his 16th birthday and our plan is to get married on my 19th birthday. . . We both 15 now and he's birthday is in november which I think is a good time to think about it through. I love him, we never fight and we've been together for 3 years now and I don't mind at all spending the rest of my life with him! Do you think I'm doing the right thing? Even that I'm pregnant with his child and we planning on keeping it and every night. He tells me to tell little one that daddy loves him so so so much. . . I just thought I'd give that little detail aswell :) so do you think I'm doing the right thing?
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I just don't know what to do...
Posted Saturday July 21 2012, 9:29 pm
(I'm sorry, this is going to be long...but I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read it)
I let myself develop deep, deep feelings for someone...who already has a girlfriend...normally it would have been , "Oh well, he's taken. Next!" but not this time. This time, my feelings took over me. Whether or not I was going to try to break them up was never an issue, and still isn't. That's not who I am, and I will never attempt such a selfish act. So, I told him how I felt, but also told him that I'm not looking to sabotage anything and then we continued to be his friend as usual...
But here's where it gets a little trickier...I'm very, very sure that he has strong feelings for me too. And I'm not saying...
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Why do people get married?
Posted Saturday July 21 2012, 5:29 pm
Im a very nice young adult female.Single and never been in a relationship. Sorry to say this if it affect anyone who is married. But i am so annoyed to see poeple get marry so young and so fast these days. And make alot of babies and then get divorce. And this is about close to 100 percent seriously. Can anyone please tell me why everyone so rush in marriage and get divorce later? Is this how it works in this world? Does everyone have the same mind and feeling? It is just so crazy. Im still patiently wait for my true love. Oh wait. Another question is: Is true love real??? O dear
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Boys i met are so strange
Posted Saturday July 21 2012, 3:14 pm
Alright, I dont know if something wrong with me or what. But i know that i have the beauty lol and im very sweet and innocent. 23 old. Every guys i met, which i meet guys all the time and so fast. But Every guys i met, we only last one day, one night. There was never a second or third date. It does hurt though. They never text and say whats going on. I asked a bunch of question but they never reply. Why every guy i met are being like that? I dont know what they dont like about me. But all i know is im so nice. It make me curious why guys just ditch me so fast without saying anything. Anyone think why? Is it because most guys dont like nice girls? I asked every guy i dated the same question:"what is it about me that you dont like?"...
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what's the meaning of he loves me to death?
Posted Saturday July 21 2012, 2:41 pm
Hi, boyfriend of 2 years says i don't even realize that he loves me to death? he says he loves me to bits. why would he say i don't even REALIZE because i know he loves me. so guys, what does he mean? thanks
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