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How do you get over a guy??
We've started talking/become friends since the last couple of months. We go home on the same school bus and recently hes started to walk me home everyday, and my house is a couple of streets away from his and further from the bus stop, but he takes me to my house anyways.
I want to get over him because of, well, him. He's really nice when it's just us 2 but around his friends at school, hes a complete douche and sometimes he ignores me. My friends don't know the 'him' without his friends, so they think that he's a bad influence on me and there's times that part of me actually agrees with them.
I really do like him, and everytime we walk home and talk, I fall for him just that little bit more. But I know it won't happen if the him at school doesn't change.
ANY advice on how to get over him, and forget about him, is appreciated. Thanks!
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i was in the same situation as you a couple months ago, me and this guy were dating for a year and whenever i would go up too him at school he would be a complete a-hole and would ignore me and tell me to go away but when it was just us 2 he was the sweetest guy ever and i fell in love with him,but things just didnt work out and im still trying to get over him. my advice to you is to move on you dont need any guy like that..you need someone who will treat you like a princesess. it might be hard to move on but it will happen. or maybe you should just tell him how you feel about the way he acts aroound them.
if your trying to move on maybe you should look into other guys..go on casual dates with them or maybe just cut the guy off completely stop making him walk you home and stop talking to him. hope this helped
best of luck!
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Well, getting over him is not your only option: you could speak to him when it's just the two of you, and explain how you don't like his behavior when he is around his friends.
But if you do want to get over him, it will be very hard if you keep seeing him. You can decline his offers to walk you home, and you really just need to keep yourself busy and try and meet someone else.
Walk home yourself, or find a friend who lives nearby, or just walk with your existing friends. When you feel yourself thinking about him, do something else. Read a book, study, watch tv, listen to music, cook, etc etc.
That's the only real way of getting over someone: keeping yourself busy, and meeting new friends and people.
But like I said, the best option really would be to speak to him about you feel.
Good luck :)
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