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do yung ppl know to much about things tht dont fit their age?
hi im 12/f, am i stupid ?? ok so for the past few days all i hav been thinkin about is that i think ppl tht r waaaayy to young are thinkin about adult things(and u no wat i mean) but i think its bc their parents dont really hav a connection with their children which is y they do what they want..... now im confused is this a stupid thing to think or is it all in my head?????????????? thanks:)!!
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No your not stupid; you're actually very smart for posing this question.
The problem with why young people as you are thinking is really a problem with society and not their parents. Children are bombarded with sex and sexy everywhere they turn. It is on TV, at the movies, in the magazines they read and the music they listen too.
Then of course there is the older brother or sister that all younger children what to be like. They are not totally understanding or mature enough, to follow in the foot steps of the older siblings.
Many parents try to hide or shield their children from all this and let them be children for as long as possible. Unfortunately the world is against their efforts. Short of locking their children in their rooms, which would be illegal, they can't shield them from everything. The best a parent can do is try to have open and frank communications with their children about everything including sex.
The human animal is naturally inquisitive, children more so than adults. Unanswered questions gnaw at us until we find an answer. It is my feeling that parents who don't communicate well with their children are the parents you are concerned with and you would be right in your assumption.
Hopefully you have good communication with your parents. If you don't then try to open the line of communication. If you can't try with another adult relative; an Aunt or Grandparent. Getting information off the street, as in from a friend,, is often wrong and that's where children go wrong.
No you are not stupid and this was not a stupid question.
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Yeah it's true and most teenagers that do all that dumb stuff regret it when they're older. They all wish they didn't grow up so fast.
There could be many of reasons why kids do this. It definitely could be the parents, as well as all the rest of the influences around like friends, tv, people at school.
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trust me you are not the only one. I'm 13 and my friend has had sex twice. I think its wrong and we should just live our lives. and she barely even knew those two guys they werent even dating!! but yes, i totally agree with you. you are not stupid!!!!! :)
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