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Why do people get married?
Im a very nice young adult female.Single and never been in a relationship. Sorry to say this if it affect anyone who is married. But i am so annoyed to see poeple get marry so young and so fast these days. And make alot of babies and then get divorce. And this is about close to 100 percent seriously. Can anyone please tell me why everyone so rush in marriage and get divorce later? Is this how it works in this world? Does everyone have the same mind and feeling? It is just so crazy. Im still patiently wait for my true love. Oh wait. Another question is: Is true love real??? O dear
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It does seem that way doesn't it.
I can't tell you why people marry and divorce so easily other than the fact that we seem to live in a throw away society. If we don't like something we don't seem to want to take the time to make it right or fix it; we just throw it away. We are doing the same with marriages.
I live in a town that is just 40 years old. The town is still trying to grow its roots. The children from here come from homes where as many as 3 out of 5 of them are single parent homes.
I'm sure psychologists and sociologists can come up with reasons why things are this way. I believe that whatever they come up with would just be a bunch of malarkey. The fact is we just don't put value on anything today. When we had values and put value on things we worked to fix things and work out problems. Today we walk away from them.
We also live in a world of instant justification and gratification. We want everything now and yesterday. We are unwilling to wait or to try something before we buy it. We run in, we grab it off the shelf bring it home and then find out it is not what we want so we throw it away or return it.
During the Vietnam conflict I was a maintenance supervisor in the Air Force, a SSGT. I once made a electronics tech repair one of the black boxes needed for a radar system on a C141. He got pissed at me as this was not the way things worked. He wanted to ground the aircraft until one could be flown in from the states, something that would take up to 24 hrs. I needed the plane in the air and I outranked him so I gave him the order to repair the box and fix the radar system. It took 4 hrs and I got the plane back in the Air.
I told you this story to show you what is happening today started a long time ago. We are all in a rush to get someplace or to let someone else worry or do what needs to be done. Yet we really have no idea where we want to go. We all long for the simpler times yet we are unwilling to go back to them. To throw away are smart phone, are Ipads, computers, CNN, MSNBC and the like.
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I can really only partly answer this question
I can tell you, You aren't alone. I also do not believe young people should marry and have children so quickly. However, In today's society that is sadly what the young generations are all about if not that then it's about sex and getting boyfriend/girlfriends at 11 years old. I really can't tell you why this is happening other then the influence and the rise of teenage hormones.
People "Think" they are in love therefore they "think" they are ready to take the next level in their lives. I personally did not get married until I was 25 years old and it's probably the best choice I've made. While I am more mature then I would be if I were 18 and I know what I want out of life. ;)
So yes, I agree with you there.
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