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Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 11:22 pm

im 15 and i am girl need advice on how do you break up with a guy you have been dating for a year and four months because you dont like him or love him anymore and i dont have an explaination why??...HELP!!..he thinks it because of the hurricane and me loosing everything i had but its not ..my feelings were this way before that..and we are taking a break right now but he doesnt get the terms "TAKING A BREAK MEANS"...and i have basically created a monster..because i never get to hangout with my friends anymore or doing anything but be with him and its getting old and soo is the relationship because he takes it way to seriously considering we are only 15 and 16..he thinks that im "THE ONE" ..and wants to spend forever with...

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THIS IS DRIVING ME NUTS!!!


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 11:06 pm

Okay this is going to sound soooooo weird but it's really been bothering me. People always say stuff about having lesbian sex and i'm like wtfh. How is that possible?!?! I know i'm stupid but just can you tell me what they do or something?!?!? TONIGHT PLEASE PEOPLE!!!! I swear i rate high...help!!!

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Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 10:46 pm

So I like a freshman and I'm a sophomore, and I'm a girl. He has a girlfriend [also a freshman] and I'm not too disappointed but I was considering hooking up with him if at all possible, I'm not sure if he's interested, right now I basically just have a small crush on him and we have a class together, that's it. What should I do?

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Does he like me???


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 9:06 pm

Okay this was like a couple years ago i was in 5th grade and he was in 6th and like he talked to me online and he was from my same school so i started talkin to him and he IMed me and stuff and then he stopped talkin to me online for a while and we dont talk at school but now he seems like he likes me because he always like looks at me and stuff and when i was in a school play and so was he i was tieing my shoe before i went onstage and he like looked right at me. But I'm scared to go up to him and start a conversation with him and then he doesnt like me but hes really cute and i like him and i think he likes me. what do u think?? i'll rate high for good answers!!!!

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confusing


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 8:58 pm

i like this girl who is a junior and im a sophmore but this other girl likes me and she keeps asking who i like. i dont want to tell the girl that likes me that i like someone else and hurt her feelings but that might be the only way out. what do u think i should do?

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boy trouble....


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 8:35 pm

im a 16/f and i went on a tubing trip with my team this past weekend and i hung out with this really nice guy. we were together the whole time. we were constantly all over eachother and he held my hand and talked with me the whole time. well people who saw this misinterperted the situation and now everyone thinks i like him. well no ones paying any attention to what he does cause he has a gf...which i didnt know when we were together. he is a really sweet guy and he was so easy to talk to. the thing is that im starting to like him. i see him everyday at practice and he always grabs my waist and gives me small hugs. my best friend keeps telling me that there is no way that he doesnt have feelings for me since he held my hand the whole time a...

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guys


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 8:12 pm

i have a question for the guys:

do you like it better when a girl just straight up says i like you? or would you rather just ask the girl out yourself because i really like this guy and he knows who i am and everything but im afraid that if i tell him that there will be an awkard vibe and he wont like me back and things wont be the same. what should i do?

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homecoming date trouble...


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 7:54 pm

okay omg okay well like, i had this hc date but he aint my hc date n e more *long story* so like i met this really hott guy through my friend and hes comming to my homecoming and i dont know if like hes my date or watever like i want him to but all i know is that hes comming so we're like, trying to get to know each other and all....meanwhile theres this guy thats been like crushing on me for like more than a year and he asked me to go with him and i told him i already had a date *it was the 1st guy but now me and him are off* so when he found out he was like oh you can still come with me but then i was lyke aw yeah id want to but i have this other guy that might wanna go with me too okay well i really wanna go with this guy thats been crus...

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I care about both of them...


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 6:46 pm

Ok well my best friend and her boyfriend have been going out for i think 4 months now....there relationship was going really well hes a nice guy and she really liked him and he liked her. well me and her went camping so we missed this huge party we were invited to but her boyfriend still went. that was totally ok with my friend cause she didnt think anything of it. well now school has started and they have been fighting more and everybody at the party keeps telling her that he was like all over this girl at the party and was like freak dancing with her and like making out with her. first she didnt believe it but then one of her good friends told her her the same thing. when she confronted her boyfriend about it he said he never cheated on h...

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Gawsh yall!


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 6:27 pm

Okay guys! I've been dating a guy for 3 months and I love him more than anything in the world! He promised me he would never leave me and for once in my life, I BELIEVE A GUY.OKay well we're both virgins and I think he wants to boost it up a little.How do I prepare for all that? If anything happens anytime soon...I want to be ready and things to go really good.Help!
<3 Totally Clueless

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Changed attitude


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 5:41 pm

Ok, long story short, I fell in love with one of my best friend over the summer. Yes, I'm 13. Yes, I know you're about to tell me that this is mere infatuation rather than love. I'm just gonna spare you a 1 rating: It's not infatuation. I know love, and I know infatuation. And this is definitely love. I can feel it as right as 2+2 is 4. Anydangways, she knows very well how much I love her, but she still only likes me as a friend. Now that the school year's started again, our attitudes have sort of changed. We used to joke around all the time, but nowadays, we see each other in the halls, and either we just say "hi" or we stay silent or involved in our conversations. Personally, whenever I'm talking to my friends in the halls, and ...

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*sigh*


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 5:05 pm

well...me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over 2 months now.
we were really good friends before then, and i was totally crazy about him, and for about the first month we dated, i was still totally crazy about him. well, he lives about a half hour away from me, so its hard to see him, and we talk online everyday.
the problem is, it feels like my feelings for him are fading, but i know deep down i do love him. and i dont know what i should do. how can i get that feeling back?
i dont want to break up with him, because i know i'll regret it. but sometimes the more i think about him i find more and more things that really bug ne, just stupid little pet peeves.. and i dont know how to go about telling him tha...

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bonfire


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 4:57 pm

ok so my couisn has these to friends that i have been talking to on the computer, we have hung out like 3 times or whatever, but that was before one of them and i started flirting, so i was talking to him and i was talking to him about my school bonfire/homecoming thing and i dont no how it happened but now he is coming, and i dont wnat him to feel lonely, because he really doesnt no anyone at my school, so do you think i should invite the other boy too and my cousin, but i dont want to make anything akward with them because we will be all flirty adn everything...so i dont no what to do i just need help...thanks!! xoxo

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hey


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 4:41 pm

hey well i have a boy friend right now n i was hearing things that he n his ex gurlfriend r like still dating or somthin n some ppl r sayin they're not but i dono who to bolieve soo pleaze help me !!

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Confusing relationship


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 4:40 pm

Right, what do you do if you were friends with this guy, and you really liked him as more than a friend, and then one day, with a little message-taking by your friend, he lets on that he wants to kiss you. Then you end up with him later on, kissing a lot.
Then its so awkward in the morning you text him and say that you hope it won't awkward because you're really glad you're mates... (Let's just say it took a lot of work to get your friendship going after a mishap earlier in the year)
And he totally agrees, he only wants to be mates so you say the same... and then when you next see him...and every time after that, it's so awkward you want to scream, and now you don't talk to each other.
In fact you each seem to pretend ...

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i like this guy, and....


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 3:54 pm

okay, so this might sound familiar, but i like this guy. and i have no idea whether he likes me back or not, but sometimes he stares at me. i don't think it's because i have something on my face or something. also, i'm way too shy to even tell my friends that i like him and definitly won't tell him either. so please help! thanks so much!!

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Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 3:49 pm

there's this guy I like. We're both 13. He has a g/f. Recently, he discovered I like him (I've been trying to hide it). Suddenly, he's demured a little around me. I mean, we're still friends and all, but it's different. How can we be the way we used to? I know I don't have much of a chance w/ him.

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cheating or not?


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 2:45 pm

the thing is, people are telling me my boyfriend is cheating on me ..he has been doing stuff with other people when he went out with other girls.. whenever i talk to him about him cheating on me he always walks away and doesnt talk to me.. i dont know what to do! he says he didnt cheat on me but he lies! what do i do.. i love him so much

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I miss him..


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 1:57 pm

Ok me and my ex broke up last tuesday. yesterday me and him got into a big arguement and now he hates me. but now I miss him a lot and i dont know what to do anymore.. I dont want to miss him but its hard not to because hes my next door neighbor.... and yeah, so im lost. he has a new gf and not to sound concided but he went from a girl (me) who is rated about a 9 to a girl who is about a 4 or 5 and I picked on him for that but im just really jealous and i have to walk home with him every day!! HELP ME!! what do i do?! we used to argue everyday because i used to say he doesnt care but i realized he does!! omg im really confused!! please help and what can i do to get him back?!

Signed,
i miss him.

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Wants my best friend


Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 1:52 pm

My best friend and i like these two guys who are also best friends and they like us. Well on monday the guy i like madeout with me and the guy my best friend likes madeout with her. Now my best friend is telling me that the guy i like wants to make out with her. I asked him and he said he wants to see whos a better kisser. so w.e then my best friend said that he likes her but not me he just thinks im hott but in the past my best friend has lied to me. and we werent friends for that but now I feel bad because i dont want to believe her but i feel like i have to. I dont want to believe her because i dont want it to be true. :( I really like this guy and he keeps saying oh what ever im done with this *hit and I dont care BElieve what u ...

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