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boy trouble....
im a 16/f and i went on a tubing trip with my team this past weekend and i hung out with this really nice guy. we were together the whole time. we were constantly all over eachother and he held my hand and talked with me the whole time. well people who saw this misinterperted the situation and now everyone thinks i like him. well no ones paying any attention to what he does cause he has a gf...which i didnt know when we were together. he is a really sweet guy and he was so easy to talk to. the thing is that im starting to like him. i see him everyday at practice and he always grabs my waist and gives me small hugs. my best friend keeps telling me that there is no way that he doesnt have feelings for me since he held my hand the whole time and he kept asking me to get on his tube with him. is there anything i can do in this situation to get people off my back and is there any way that he likes me? (even if he has a g/f)
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There's two possible answers.
1. He likes you
2. He doesn't, and he's just very flirty (all of us know them.)
If he likes you, he's not just going to sit around and stare... he'll ask you out or something. If he doesn't, well, oh well.
Also, put yourself in his girlfriends shoes. If he asked you out and you accepted, would you trust him? If he was going out and flirting with other girls, like he is now... I wouldn't entirely.
Hope I helped!!!
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well i dont think people will leave you alone about it however i think he likes you i mean why waist time hugging and holding hands if you dont like the person that your holding and hugign good luck hope i helped boyproblems
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sorry to tell you this but i dont think theres anyway of getting people off your back. people make their opinions about people and stick with it for the reast of thier lives.yes i no its very sad.first they jump all in your business,then they make opinions about you that arent even true.
but for the most part i think he really likes you.the whole girlfriend situation is very sticky but your basiclly going ta have to tell him to choose.if you want him that bad then he needs to choose.if its not that important then theres no need to ruin the girls life that he's going with.
follow your heart
Delilah
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Well, people are always gonna think what they want to, so if they think you like him, let them think it, because it sounds to me like you do.
The thing that worries me is how he already has a girlfriend but he's all over you? If I was in your position I wouldn't exactly trust him to not do the same thing to another girl. But I'm sure you know what you're doing, I just want you to be aware that he may not be the most faithful guy.
Good luck hun!
-Siobhan
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It sounds like maybe this guy is a player... He has a g/f yet he's all over you??? That's just not right. Your best bet is just not get involved with him. If he does it to his now g/f... what's going to stop him from doing it to you if y'all do get together??
And for those people who won't leave you alone, just flat out tell him he's not your boyfriend. That he has a g/f and that you two are just friends... and if they still won't leave you alone then just ignore them. They'll stop.
good luck.
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Well when a guy starts holding my hand and grabs me by my waist I'd assume he felt something for me. Or at least wanted just in my pants. When you're going along with the situation well knowing he has a girlfriend you're being what's called a... homewrecker.
Even if it's just LITTLE things like that. If that was your man and you caught wind of it would you be alright with it? Chances are you want to stomp this in the ground before she finds out or you're going to be knee deep in angry girl drama.
How do you get people off your back? Get him off yours. I don't think that what he's doing are just friendly and ordinary gestures. You really don't want a two woman man either so it's not wise to fall for that character. Just tell him to lighten up on you.
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