Question Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 6:46 pm
Ok well my best friend and her boyfriend have been going out for i think 4 months now....there relationship was going really well hes a nice guy and she really liked him and he liked her. well me and her went camping so we missed this huge party we were invited to but her boyfriend still went. that was totally ok with my friend cause she didnt think anything of it. well now school has started and they have been fighting more and everybody at the party keeps telling her that he was like all over this girl at the party and was like freak dancing with her and like making out with her. first she didnt believe it but then one of her good friends told her her the same thing. when she confronted her boyfriend about it he said he never cheated on her. she believes him now for the most part but there relationship is rough. i would support by best friend till the end and i have become friends with her boyfriend too and i dont want them to brake up because i know they still really like eachother but these rumors keep going around and it kinda looks like there going towards that. any advice i could give them?
Rumors seem to be a big highschool thing, and they can make or break people. Rumors doesn't add up to hard evidence or the truth. But when you have a close friend telling you these things it's time to get with the program!! Your friend needs to tell her boyfriend straight out that she will not tolerate for being cheated on and if he wants her then he damn well better make it clear.
No one should have to strain themselves in a relationship. You say it's rough but they really like eachother? Maybe they wool is pulled over their eyes. I'd suggest time apart from one another to see what their true feelings are. [ EvilCheshire's advice column | Ask EvilCheshire A Question ]
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