Question Posted Wednesday September 21 2005, 3:49 pm
there's this guy I like. We're both 13. He has a g/f. Recently, he discovered I like him (I've been trying to hide it). Suddenly, he's demured a little around me. I mean, we're still friends and all, but it's different. How can we be the way we used to? I know I don't have much of a chance w/ him.
Additional info, added Sunday September 25 2005, 7:54 pm: I'm not going after him! I just wanna be friends again. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? AdviceMistress answered Friday September 23 2005, 10:04 am: i wwent through the same thing with my friend kevin. i told him i liked but it never really worked to make a long story short. just try and chill as much as you can he should be cool about it. but honestly its gonna take awhile for you guys to be friends again, and it may not be the same again oyu maybe even closer than you were before like me and my friend kevin. and if doesn't want to hang than that his problem you don't deserve to be treated like crap. hope everything works out and if you need to tlak i'm here just leave an letter in my inbox. [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
TaintedPurity answered Wednesday September 21 2005, 9:36 pm: Going after guys who have someone is pointless and it only makes you look like a harlot. It's very bad, and looked down upon. I understand why this guy is weird around you. Try telling him that you had these feelings for a while but you realized they were wrong. I'd also suggest talking to his girlfriend about it. It's not good to get a reputation like that at such a young age. [ TaintedPurity's advice column | Ask TaintedPurity A Question ]
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