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Scared of the EYES!
Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 6:52 pm
For some reason when a boy looks into my eyes when they talk to me I get SO scared and look away! I don't know why, but it makes me feel weird and awkward!!! When my family went out to lunch with my crushes family, i sat next to him and when he talked to me he looked me in the eyes. My face got hot and I blushed and I looked away. IS this normal and how can I fix it?!
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OMG HELP ASAP
Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 6:36 pm
ok this guy im kinda "seeing" is calling me back in a few and i have NO CLUE what to say cuz i needed to tell him something really important. what i basically needed to say was that im sick of him playing these games with my head, that i really like him,that i dont know if he really likes me, and how come were not really together or how come were not going out. He said he lieks me a lot but when my friend asked him "why arent you going out" and he said "i dont know" and then she said "are you gonna ask her out?" and he said "soon" i just dont know what to say to him and how to say it nicely!! PLEASE i need HELP!!
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Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 6:34 pm
so like all the girls hang out with guys..and i never dooO! i wanna but i never have the courage to be like oh yeah we should hang out sometime..i would feel stupid and afraid of rejection..how can i like ask a guy to do something..or even with a group of friends? i dont even like start talking to a guy first usually..they talk to me first and if they dont i dont talk to them..this is a problem! help!!
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winter formal
Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 6:13 pm
So i like this guy. He's like my friend and what not. but there's this dance coming up soon. and i really want to ask him to it. i'm just afraid of the "rejection." and if he says yes, i'm really bad at carrying a conversation. what shoulud i do?
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I miss him, but don't want to talk to him..
Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 6:02 pm
okay thing is, this Guy whoe I think I have feelings for, but thing is that I blew it and let him go, He wanted be with me over the summer, thing is that i been advoding him, and we always be best friend, and been 3 weeks he haven't even call plus he want me call him sometimes but i don't know what to say, how to have a casul coverstion, he hase gf and i don't feel wel lu know.
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HOW DO I ACT WHEN MY CRUSH IS AROUND??
Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 5:59 pm
14/f...Tomorrow me and my friends (2 guys, 2 girls including me) are going to hang out a park all together. My crush, Alex, is also going to be there because one of the guys is friends with him. I don't really know my crush that well because I've only talked to him a few times before. I kind of want him to get to know ME and I don't know how to do that if we're all in a group. Like I think we would be playing football or some type of sport. I don't know how to act around him so that he could get to know me. I don't want tomorrow to turn out being a day where I didn't talk to him at all. Any ideas? thanx
I RATE HIGH!!!
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I think I like a girl; what do I do?
Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 5:20 pm
Okay, so obviously by this title you know I'm a girl.
Well, I think I'm starting to have my first crush on another girl and I feel so weird because... well, she's a girl. (If that makes any sense).
What I mean by that is that I feel uncomfortable thinking I like a girl.
Is that so wrong?
Let me explain my feelings about her.
When I'm around her, I feel totally comfortable (sometimes I'll start to worry about how I look, because she's so gorgeous, but... that may exactly be it; I worry about my appearence because she's beautiful and maybe I'm just jealous) When I'm around her, I'm incredibly happy. When I haven't seen her in days I get sad and I miss her when I think...
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Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 5:01 pm
ok i like this guy but i dont really know him all that well what should i do to get him to notice me ?
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I feel like crap
Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 4:34 pm
ok, this is what you need to know. my guy friend/ ex broke up with his girlfriend on tuesday. and yesterday i told him ((actually he found out but i just comfirmed it)) that i liked him. and i was happy because he wasnt makin fun of me or anything and he didnt know if he wanted to go out with his girlfriend.
so today i thought was gonna be all sweet and special and stuff and oh my god! it was the worse day ever! like, my sn it like eeyore 'cause that's my nickname with some of my friends and he wanted a nickname so i called him pooh bear. and today in pre-al whenever we were puttin' our homework in the basket i was like "hey pooh!" and he was like, "move" and that's not even...
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first love gone
Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 8:28 am
My boyfriend broke up with me in october because he thought i was cheating but i wasnt. After it happened it was like nothing, but now i really miss and i want us to get back together but i dont know if he still has feelings for me. My best friend said she was going to talk to him for me but if that doesnt work then what will i do. i would write a letter but he isnt the type of person you give letters, he is a really sweet, kind person and im still in love with him. PLEASE tell me what to do.
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Hugging
Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 5:02 am
Is there any way to tell by a hug if a guy likes you in a romantic way? I've had many different types of hugs, but most hugs are from family and friends, that's the type of hug where it's friendly, but does not in any way feel sexual.
I'm asking because a guy that I'm just friends with, after giving me my birthday gift, hugged me, but when he hugged me he held on for a couple seconds longer than most hugs last, and then he started to to stroke my back really slowly with his hand. There was no one else around, and normally he's shy around me with other people.
Do you think this was his way of letting me know he likes me as more than a friend?
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how do you know when your "over " someone?
Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 4:55 am
I was told once by someone that if you still harbored feelings of anger or jealousy when you saw your ex bofriend with a new girl, that you werent really over him. Also if you kept thinking bad thoughts about him too.
Well my question is regarding my mother actually. She and my father divorced over 15 years ago and she STILL bad mouths him. She is always asking me about his girlfriend and tells me what a jerk he was to her. I found this a little strange because she is remarried to another man. Is it possilble that after all this time she still may have feelings for my father?
Also, HE (my father) does the same thing about my mom, by badmouthing her and saying that her marriage isnt going to last. He also recently admitted that he wished they had never gotten divorced.
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Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 1:55 am
well ive been dating this guy for like 2months now and im in love with him! were complete oppisite but we cant get enough of eachother! but about a week ago he told me that he had cheated on his last girlfriend and im a very jelouse person and now all i do is blame him and accuse him of cheating on me! he does certin things to make me jelouse, like drive by her house and break his neck to look over me into her windows and talked about her all the time and throws her in my face when i do something he doesnt like! like he'll say for example " oh, amanda would never act this way," or "amanda would do it" and now hes even acting kinda mysteriouse and not calling me and when i ask his mom y he hasnt called me she tells me tha...
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What does my brithday present say?
Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 1:05 am
I've been dating this guy for a year and one month and I care very much about him. He is always asking me to "make" things for him. He's an artist who is constantly making things for me, and I guess he expects me to be an artist as well. :P Im not. Point is, I made him this teddy bear. Completely from scratch.. not even a pattern to work with. Would a 20 year old boy be happy to get a teddy bear as a present? I saw somewhere online that guys dont like presents that come off as too clingy. Please help. I rate!
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letter..
Posted Wednesday December 14 2005, 10:55 pm
Kinda late at night but ohk..
I am writing a note letter to my ex that lives in florida i live in maine 6 months ago we broke up and don't really talk that much. I love him to death but he tells me constantly that he was not a great boyfriend and i need to get over him he wants me to because he feels it would be easier on me. he claims to be totally over me even tho we were in love. But ohk he was full of shit on the word so just dont believe it lol. well in this letter i want to tell him stuff like how i feel about him now, what he taught me like in the way of what to really look for in a guy and dont fall in love fast, stuff like that.17/f <-- me
I need Ideas soon. if you could answer tonight it would be g...
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OMG please help
Posted Wednesday December 14 2005, 9:20 pm
ok, so i have a crush on this guy, and i dont know if he likes me. lately i have had this crazy idea that maybe if i tell him how i feel he will be ok with it. (note; last year he had a crush on me, and then me being me, i blew it with him.)i dont know what to do, i really like him, and i have this crazy idea that if i tell him that i'm sorry and i miss him, and i still want to be friends at least, he might say ok. please help
i dont know what to do about him and i am just like really confused
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Nothing of a love life
Posted Wednesday December 14 2005, 8:24 pm
When it comes to guys I always rush things. After that, one of two things happens:
One:
I find out that the guy is nothing like I expected. Most of the time it just turn out that he's a immature pervert and his charm and humor are an act. I don't take time to REALLY get to know a guy so I don't find out how they really are until we're close. After that, I completely loose interest (duh) and break it off with them.
Two:
It gets too serious and they are too in to me. It freaks me out because I either won't be ready for it or I won't want it. I just want to date and have fun. Nothing too serious that makes me want to "think of the future" with him. I guess me rushing things ...
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sad
Posted Wednesday December 14 2005, 8:06 pm
Suddenly this year I feel like everything bad is just piling up into one huge mess and won't go away. Like PSAT scores, my Dad's death a few years ago (I now miss him more than ever), crush complications not working out, grades... things like that. It's making me feel gloomy and sad and even my friend told me for the past month I've seemed kind of sad off and on. I'm not in depression or depressed or whatever, but... What are some things that can help me clear this all up and what are some ways to get me to feel better?
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complicated
Posted Wednesday December 14 2005, 8:03 pm
I have had a huge crush on this guy forever. He is sort of my friend, I mean, we speak to eachother and all, but we are not super close. Anyway one of my bestest -estest ever friends told me she has a huge crush on him to. Then I told her I liked him to, so we are both happy we both like him, no problem. So now I get kind of nervous around him, where I didn't before when I still liked him. And now he is acting like he likes my friend, and he talks to me a lot less. What is going on for heaven's sake? Why is he not talking to me as much anymore, why do you think I'm getting nervous around him, and what the heck do I do?
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she wants him too...
Posted Wednesday December 14 2005, 7:43 pm
well me and my bffl went to the mall and met the most awesomest guy there so we planned to go there every weekend to see him.we both like him and he says he likes us both...well i was talking to him on the phone and he said between you to i would pick you but then he acts like he likes her sooooo much...ok my bffls past history is she likes boys..like she is supper boy crazy and if a guy acts like he likes her than she automatcilly likes him back..well i like him sooooo much!! and i dont know if i should go out with him or no because she " likes " him to and because he seems like a player..what do i do??
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