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I think I like a girl; what do I do?
Okay, so obviously by this title you know I'm a girl.
Well, I think I'm starting to have my first crush on another girl and I feel so weird because... well, she's a girl. (If that makes any sense).
What I mean by that is that I feel uncomfortable thinking I like a girl.
Is that so wrong?
Let me explain my feelings about her.
When I'm around her, I feel totally comfortable (sometimes I'll start to worry about how I look, because she's so gorgeous, but... that may exactly be it; I worry about my appearence because she's beautiful and maybe I'm just jealous) When I'm around her, I'm incredibly happy. When I haven't seen her in days I get sad and I miss her when I think about her.
This could just be a big mis-interpretation. Maybe I just admire her and love her as a friend and nothing more.
There are times when I think I don't like her, but then later I'll start thinking "WTF? Who are you kidding? You DO like her" and so on, until the point where I start denying it again, and... I'm just really, really confused... and I don't like any of this bi-thing (yes, I AM into guys, so yeah) at all...
What do I do? Any advice given will be much appreciated.
Thank you.
- jenixx
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well if your over 16 already then you pretty much know if your into guys or girls and if your not well its probally b/c you think you cant be as pretty as her and want to make her jelous and if no that then your bi or gay sorry to break it down to you kike that but its true.
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well..i honestly dont think that your bi..the feelings your having..i think shes just like a really good friend to you..like a best friend...if your having like fantasies (ex: kissing her, touching..etc) then you may be bi-sexual..and if you are..well then you mite want to maybe come out of your shell a little bit..if you know what i mean..you dont have to tell your friend you like her like her..but you could tell you close friends and maybe her that your bi...it mite feel alot better to you
i really hoped i helped!
EX 0H----->SAM<3
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I'm assuming you're a girl...
Anyway, here are a few things you should concider
Do you want to make out with her?
Would you like to 'make love' with her?
If not, you're probably not bisexual.
It is likely that you just think she's pretty. People want to be around pretty people, no matter what sex they are. They also treat them better.
If you are bi, you should just choose guys. It's a lot easier lifestyle.
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Don't worry this is perfectly normal. Most people go through a stage where they are attracted to people of the same sex, and it can range from nothing more than a slight crush to actually having sex with the other person. For most people it's just a passing stage that happens as we develop sexually and our hormones are changing our bodies and messing with our emotions, but for some people it developes into their natural sexual preference, there is nothing wrong in this and if it happens it happens. Whatever you do be careful how you handle this situstion, if you back off from her in order to try to loose these feelings then you could loose her as a friend and that could be a big mistake because you could become really close friends for life, but also if you swamp her with attention and she doesn't feel the way you do then again you could loose her as a friend, just play it cool and be friends with her as you are now, your future relationship whatever it may be will develop naturally.
Try not to worry so much and I hope everything works out for you.
Kizlode
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