Question Posted Thursday December 15 2005, 4:34 pm
ok, this is what you need to know. my guy friend/ ex broke up with his girlfriend on tuesday. and yesterday i told him ((actually he found out but i just comfirmed it)) that i liked him. and i was happy because he wasnt makin fun of me or anything and he didnt know if he wanted to go out with his girlfriend.
so today i thought was gonna be all sweet and special and stuff and oh my god! it was the worse day ever! like, my sn it like eeyore 'cause that's my nickname with some of my friends and he wanted a nickname so i called him pooh bear. and today in pre-al whenever we were puttin' our homework in the basket i was like "hey pooh!" and he was like, "move" and that's not even the bad part. he threw me a note saying that he was thinkin about going back out with his old girlfriend, and him knowing that i still liked him! and then, my eyes were dried out ((they really were, i wasn't cryin')) so i turned away and started blinkin' alot cuz that makes them better. and then he was like, "yeah, it's gonna feel weird goin' out with her again. and i saw you cryin' over there, because you know you can't have this sexii thing nemore." and i was so mad, and after that i ignored him completely and i kept hitting people screaming,..and i don't have anyone to talk to because everyone's like "aww that's so sweet that he did that!" and the only reason he went back out with her is because he felt sorry for her! because in her profile it says, "i lost the best thing i ever had, and i don't know if i'll ever get it back" and she was obviously talkin about him,...and oh my god i want to cry, but i cant! i don't know what to do!!
help please!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Mariahhhhx3 answered Thursday December 15 2005, 10:10 pm: well first of all, if hes going to do that to you then hes obviousely not worth the tears. Hes still in love with his girlfriend and if he does go back out with her then you know hes a jerk. And about what he said "yeah, it's gonna feel weird goin' out with her again. and i saw you cryin' over there, because you know you can't have this sexii thing nemore." dont let it get to you hes obviousely way to full of himself and thats not a good characteristic to have .so i would say just ignore him and if anyone says anything to you just tell them that yeah you did like him but no im not waisting my time on him.
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xomegaroni answered Thursday December 15 2005, 6:51 pm: he seems kind've mean for doing that. yeah he wasn't like mean mean, but he wasn't caring about it either. he obviously wants to 'be with his gf' er 'feels bad for her'. whichever one it is you have to stay out've it until they break up. you don't wanna get caught in the middle even if you do like him. he was probably surprised that you did like him & doesn't wanna ruin the friendship you guys have. juss give him some time & space & maybe juss leave him alone for a bit. yeah you guys can obviously be friends but let him cool off & settle things he needs to with his gf. if he ever wants to talk to you though, obviously talk to him.
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