Question Posted Wednesday December 14 2005, 8:03 pm
I have had a huge crush on this guy forever. He is sort of my friend, I mean, we speak to eachother and all, but we are not super close. Anyway one of my bestest -estest ever friends told me she has a huge crush on him to. Then I told her I liked him to, so we are both happy we both like him, no problem. So now I get kind of nervous around him, where I didn't before when I still liked him. And now he is acting like he likes my friend, and he talks to me a lot less. What is going on for heaven's sake? Why is he not talking to me as much anymore, why do you think I'm getting nervous around him, and what the heck do I do?
xomegaroni answered Thursday December 15 2005, 3:40 pm: he probably likes both of you & likes going back & forth. yeah not the best thing, but maybe you guys can fix it. juss talk to him when you can & your nervousness is only because you have a crush on him. that's completely normal & everything. you probably didn't feel it before, maybe because you weren't "competing" like you are now with your friend almost. idk i think you should juss relax about it & being nervous is completely normal.
Razhie answered Thursday December 15 2005, 1:16 pm: Well what the heck do you want to do?
Your question gives no clue as to what it is you want. Are you happy to see him and your friend flirting? Are you just upset that you are nervous? Or do you want to be fighting for his attentions?
It sounds like he likes your friend. So maybe you are subconciously backing off from him to so not to complicate things and hurt your friend. Maybe you don't feel 'good' enough to compete with her. Maybe you are just not that into him. Whatever the case, no one can read minds. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
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