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got drunk..horrible night
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 9:46 am
i have a wonderful bf of one month. we were friends beforehand for 8 months..we got so close..we have so much respect for one another and such a strong bond.
the problem? last night i was drinking with a bunch of friends..some of our guy friends wound up coming over. i was the drunkest i have ever been..i went up from behind 2 of my guy friends and hugged them from behind and my hand went over their crotch area. a little while later the guilt sunk in and i feel so horrible. i told my bf and he doesnt know what to think, he said we will talk today. my queestion : if this were to happen to you what would you do? what can i do to make this better? im thinking like making a solid promise to NOT drink again for as long as we are togethe...
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Worried about my friend - this is long sorry :(
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 6:11 am
Ok so I have this friend, let's call her Eva. She has liked this guy named Ray for the past four or five years and he seemed to like her too even though they never talk.
About a year and a half ago, me and Ray's friend, Austin hooked up. About a few months after that we set up Eva and Ray and they started going out.
Now Eva had always been crazy about Ray. She knew where he lived and what songs he liked even though she didn't know him. She wasn't stalkerish but she was obsessed.
So I was talking to my bf a few weeks after Ray and Eva and he mentioned that Ray was crazy about Eva and that he talked about her all the time and kept buying presents to give to her later and everything and I told Eva that and she was happy....
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Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 3:57 am
Alright well, theres this kid and if I don't talk to him I start missing him. And when I ask myself if I like him I say no. But then when I miss him I start thinking I really do like him. I think im confused. Hes not really my type but hes so fun to talk to, and hes so funny. He understands all my weird jokes. Were like the same person but differnt genders. I dont get why I keep telling myself that I dont like him. I get frustraited about it too. I think that that is what my question is. So if you can tell me why I keep telling myself I dont like him, that would be great. Thank you! <3
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Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 3:35 am
wut is the best way to get over a break up
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Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 3:32 am
my gf lives kinda far away and my dad wont take me to go see her. she cant come over unless shes got another girl friend with her. being that as it may that defeats the purpose. any suggestions on were i could get some time alone. p.s. 14/m and the movies wont work cuz ive alredy tried.
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just like dad
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 2:15 am
My father died about 3 years ago and now I am going out with this boy that is a lot like him...is that a bad thing? I mean I love him but he is just...a lot like my dad! Am I being stupid going out with him or is it like a bad ideas or something? I have these feelings like he is going to leave me, but I thought that maybe that is just because my dad "left" me...I don't know...I'm confusing...I know! But I would really like any help I can get!thanks!
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boy crush
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 1:56 am
i dont know what to do this boy really likes this gurl and i really like him he said i was cute but i feel so weird when i am away from him i think this migth be the real thing am i in love i need help?
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Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 1:47 am
ok.this is a pretty long story so sorry.
heres the basic information
Theres this guy named daniel,we first met at the mall. and then i found out that he went to my school and stuff. so we started talking more and more on aim. and we became like the best of friends ever. and i could already tell from there that i completely was going to be in love with him. because little things would get us both completely jealous. so we just started hagning out more and more. and every time we got a little but more flirty. and it was fun and all. but then like. i told him how i felt about him and it turned out he felt the same. then from there we were unseperable. but its weird we both knew we were completely in love with each other. but we ...
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im falling for my best friend...
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 1:22 am
ive known this guy for about 5 years and hes my best friend. i never used to think i had feelings for him until now. but things are getting confusing now, when we hang out he'll do things like put his arm around me or cuddle and i dont know what to think. im starting to feel things for him but i have no idea what he feels about me. i dont know if i should ignore these feelings because i dont want to ruin the friendship we have. any advice would be helpful.
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I am soo confused
Posted Wednesday December 28 2005, 1:00 am
Ok.. I have a really good friend named jake. he and I talked a lot last year and almost got together. Well a couple of weeks ago i hooked up with him and did *stuff* . well he sed that he really cares about me n never wants to see me sad and that if nethin happened he'd kill some1 over me.. and blah blah blah. but at the same time he likes this otha girl. he doesnt like me like that i guess, but i have liked him on and off for 5 years. he is like one of my best friends, and i mean, he says im pretty, and im nice, and all this other stuff but yet he doesnt like me. I dunno wat to do. I wanna give up but I never can. Do you think i will ever have a chance with him, or if he even does rilly care about me? I wanna give up but i dunno wat to do!!!!!
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Anything I could say?
Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 11:53 pm
My bf is awesome. I like hims so much, but the thing is, we run out of things to talk about, so we stick to saying flirtatious things on text. When we talk on the phone, I always feel pressured to keep the conversation going because whenever there is a silence, he always says he has to go. But after we hang up, he always texts me saying how much he misses me and likes me. Does anybody know anything I could say that is flirtatious? Thank you so much.
14/f
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boys mixed with friends suck
Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 11:48 pm
Okay I like this boy named Peter who lives a town away, and we've been talking alot and he likes me too, the problem is, my sorta friend Marisa dated him and they didnt break up too long ago. I only see her in one class at school and we dont talk that much. but i still feel bad if we were to go out. I dont want her to hate me, especially since shes always saying all this bad stuff about him and she doesnt even know we talk so im in a really bad position.
( but also i dont feel as bad because my best friend was dating this boy name Kevin last year and Kevin broke up with my best friend and the very same day Kevin started Dating Marisa.. and my best friend is better friends with Marisa then I am)
so if Marisa cou...
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I don't know what to do.
Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 11:40 pm
Ok well here is my story. I am a 16/f I have a 5 month old baby boy with this wonderful guy! Here is where the problem comes in, today me and him were talking about our relationship. (We date) And well he broke up with me. We have been together for 2 years! I am head over heals in LOVE with this boy! Like honest to God there is no question about it. What should I do? Because he said that he feels really bad because he hurt me I mean he cried because I was crying (because he hurt me by breaking up with me) Well I just need someone to tell me why he would have done this!! I really love him and he really loves me, I don't know why he did it and I want him back. HELP! Both he and I didn't want our relationship to affect our child. That is why I...
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High school Sweethearts
Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 11:00 pm
Do you guys believe that high school sweethearts can last throughout adulthood? I've heard from many people that if they end up getting married they'll just end up miserable. Or that most end after senior year.
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Ugh. i dont really know
Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 9:52 pm
ok theres this guy like ireally like. and well i thought he liked me too. like he called me like twice a day all the time. and he would like choose to be with me instead of hanging with all his other friends. and like when his friends would call and stuff. hed just be like im busy right now and hung up. but like its really weird bc these past couple of days hes been kinda i dont know i guess you could say just avoiding talking to me or something. i really dont know i dont get him. one day he likes me the next its like he isnt the same person. but it really sucks bc im completely in love with him. and he just ..is starting to kill me basically. like yesterday he got on, on aim..and he didnt im me..i imed him..and he didnt answer so i was jus...
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moving..
Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 9:51 pm
7 months ago i moved to maine. from florida well i left my ex down there and i really love him and he loves me just not as much as i love him. well im 17 and ill be 18 in october. over the summer i plan on going to florida to visit. well i really don't want to come back i hate it here so much. i have like 5 friends and it just sucks.
i dont have alot of money to live on my own with but i have tons of family and friends or even my ex that i could move in with.
I'm wondering if i should just drop the idea or try n talk to my parents about it.
just so you know my ex and i are not together because i cannot do long distance relationships. But i do love him.
Tell me what you think. and ill Rate you <3
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Boys stink
Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 9:41 pm
ok well im a female and i'm 15 and i have been going out with this kid since june, and well we were like best friends before we started going out and he's like really shy, so when we started going out, we never really hung out and didnt talk on the phone because he doesn't like to, he's never had a girlfriend before and we still haven't hung out and i meet him on the track team, and now we are back at track and he won't talk to me, and like two days before track started again he told me that he didn't really like me as much as he used to, but didn't want to break up, and i still really like him and i think he still likes me but is afraid to like talk/hang out with me. i try to call him and like talk to him and stuff but he just blows it off...
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boy problems
Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 9:02 pm
I like this boy a lot..hes constantly all i think about..he almost seems perfect to me ...like nothing is wrong with him..and although everyone has imperfections i just dont see them..well he knows i like him but he doesnt know that i think hes like perfect , but he just doesnt seeem to care or anything..he has a girlfriend but they been goin out for like 1 week..i just want him to care that i like him and not hurt me and like rub in my face that he has a girlfriend..so what do i do?
I rate 5 for any help
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MATT
Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 7:54 pm
ok i like this kid right hes totally hot~~~ He knos i like him so it became weird so we decide to be friends w/e in the whole deal! but i wanna be more than friends. does any body have tips or ways i can get to like me????????????????
ps ..... no smart ass comments. i am not ugly either!
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Christmas
Posted Tuesday December 27 2005, 7:42 pm
Okay, first of all, I am aware that Christmas is already over. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 weeks, but 5 months before...last february to june...I love him so much. I still haven't gotten his present for Christmas cuz I am so busy, and he understands that. He told me I didn't need to get him anything, but I want to. I want to give him something that says I love him but won't creep him out....He got me a ring (from walmart), lipgloss, and a giftcard to the bookstore....so he spent like $25...I want to give him the perfect present and I don't know, I want him to tell me he loves me....We dated for 5 months before, then we broke up for 5 months, now we are 2 weeks. Sorry this doesnt make any sense. I guess I am asking: What ...
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