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giving a bj


Posted Sunday April 12 2009, 12:25 pm

heya guyz :-)
sorta quick question ...
me & my boyfriend have been together a couple of weeks now & we have been friendz 4 a long time be4 that. i`m 17. he is 18. i have never given a bj & i know he has received one from someone else be4. i don`t want to be bad at it so doees anyone have any tips plz. like what do i even do ha ha thanx :-) </3

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How can I prevent my suicidal thoughts and depressed mood?


Posted Sunday April 12 2009, 10:38 am

I am a 24 year Male from India. I am a Gay and I always wanted to live a bachelor life in peace. I graduated 1 year back and I had a problem with my family regarding my post graduation and future career. And I fractured my right elbow 6 months back in a motorbike accident because my brother forced me to learn to drive motorbike. I told him I was scared to drive. I had to undergo surgery to fix my elbow with pins and screws. It still hurts. Nobody else know that I am gay. I dont honestly want a gay marriage either.
Doctor told me I cannot lift heavy weights again. It feels terrible to think that I have to live alone with a compromised right arm all my life and I spent 3 hours finding out ways to commit suicide in google. The thought ...

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1st time


Posted Saturday April 11 2009, 10:53 pm

me and my boyfriend (both 16) have tried having sex quite a few times with a few problems
first it didnt go in because we thought i was too tight
but now it doesnt seem to go in because it like bends?
i asked him if he wasnt hard enough and he just said idk kind of embarrassed so i didn't push the conversation
anyone have any ideas?

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Sex with my gay BFF.


Posted Saturday April 11 2009, 8:18 pm

Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 9 months. Me and my gay bestfriend hungout the other day and got drunk together alone. Me and my gay bestfriend had sex. For like 1 minute then I stopped and said I cant do this. We were both really drunk and didnt know what we were doing. And I really love my boyfriend and if I tell him he will dump me and beat my bestfriends ass and I dont want that too happen. But I cant have sex with my boyfriend now not thinking about what I did with my gay bestfriend. What should I do?

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Sexual fantasies


Posted Saturday April 11 2009, 1:45 pm

This is not a physical sex questions, it's more of a request of an explanation. You'll understand after reading the question.

I had sex for the first time a couple weeks ago. Since then I've been having a lot of se dreams, and by sex dreams. I've been having dreams of me having sex with like every guy I know, and it's kind of weird. Like I even imagined myself with my best friend's boyfriend, and I don't even like him at all, and he's not that good looking either. I've recently gotten over a "boy issue" and I know that's cause me to have weird reactions to some things, but sex dreams? I've never really been interested in sex before, I found it kind of revolting. The sex a few weeks ago, just sorta happened, I...

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does this make me bisexual?


Posted Friday April 10 2009, 4:21 pm

Okay, so I've always considered myself to be straight since I have never had a crush on a girl or anything like that. I don't have the same feelings for girls (sexual tension) as I do for boys. My relationships have always been with boys, and I've never thought of a girl as anything more than a friend.

However, sometimes I like to imagine myself having sex with women. Sometimes a threesome or more. Something about the naked female body intrigues me. Female porn turns me on. I've often wondered if I'd ever sexually experiment should the right person come along. But I don't really want to be bisexual, since I'd never have a relationship with a girl. So am I still straight?

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am i too young?


Posted Friday April 10 2009, 11:56 am

I'm a 13 year old female and i've been getting the urge to masturbate.
-am i too young to masturbate?
-does it hurt?
-how do i do it?
please help me! i dont know anything bout it but i've just heard of it.

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Getting my mojo back


Posted Thursday April 9 2009, 4:55 pm

Alright I'm 16, male, and for the last month or two I've not been able to get sexually excited. It used to happen a lot, at least twice a day. Now I'm lucky if I can get once a week. What's happened to me? How can I get my mojo back? I haven't talked to my parents about it because it's quite embarrassing for me. I don't feel anymore stressed and other than this my life in the past few months has improved by quite a bit. I would appreciate any help offered.

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Sex questions!


Posted Wednesday April 8 2009, 9:17 pm

For movies, how do they do the sex scenes? Because sometimes they full-on dry hump, and they obviously have to do it because it didn't look computerized at all. And what about in that Paul Walker movie 'Running Scared' when he was kissing that girl's _____. Did he really have to do that or what?

Oh, and how do you pronounce the slang term "twat"?

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What happened to me?


Posted Wednesday April 8 2009, 7:37 pm

when i was 4, i remember my grandpa doing some weird things. i am now 16 and have thought about it all these years. i dont remember it too clearly but i remember things that he did like pull his dick out of his pants and then put me on his lap on top of it. he did other weird stuff like that. its really weird between us now but i only see him once a year because he lives in another country. but he does things like smack my butt or put his arm around me. he doesnt do any of the stuff he did when i was a little kid though. is this considered molesting or anything? and how would this effect me now in life? thanks!

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always says yes to "sex"


Posted Wednesday April 8 2009, 6:21 pm

i'm 18 and my boyfriend is 20 and what i'm asking is not an issue or anything but, im a little confuse cause my boyfriend never says no to sex and we have sex like all the time. i was a virgin before him so i dont really know this question.

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cant seem to be pleasured


Posted Wednesday April 8 2009, 3:43 pm

[16/f] I can’t seem to get any pleasure out of masturbating. I touch my clit in various ways but it doesn’t really feel like anything special. Is there something wrong with me?

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farting through the viginal after childbirth


Posted Wednesday April 8 2009, 4:03 am

I want to know why i fart through the viginal after childbirth and what i can do to stop it

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Mom walked in on us


Posted Wednesday April 8 2009, 12:12 am

Today my mom walked in on my boyfriend and I having sex and now she doesn't trust me at all. I'm not allowed to have guys over and I knew that before today. But now it's all awkward between my mom and I and she expects me to feel terrible about what I've done, yet I don't and I can't! I don't think sex is a bad thing and I may be young at 17 but it was my first time and I was safe. I know we'll never see eye to eye on this but I just don't want this to be all messed up anymore. I pretty much feel like an idiot though, and she's making me feel worse. But even though I broke the rules I still don't feel like my decision was that horrible. Help? Anyone? Thanks.

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sex and enjoyment


Posted Tuesday April 7 2009, 4:52 am

well i love fingering myself and im not sure if my boyfriend will like to. I have loads of other canidates who would love to but ilove y boyfriend more what shall i do?

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straydogg entertainment


Posted Monday April 6 2009, 7:01 pm

so i think im being recruited to do porn. that isnt exactly the problem- i wont do it, but i would like to know if straydogg entertainment modeling/ webcam whatever is porn. i dont want to invite viruses by google searching it, for our family only has one functional computer.

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How to lose your virginity


Posted Monday April 6 2009, 6:58 pm

Hi, I'm planning on having sex for the first time tomorrow with my boyfriend. It's not his first time but it is mine so I'm kinda nervous. Any kind of help would be helpful, thanks. I'm 17 btw and yes I will use protection of course.

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Depression symptoms


Posted Monday April 6 2009, 5:37 pm

I'm 21/f. I was having a fight with my boyfriend (23/m, not that it matters) the other night because he's convinced he needs to be medicated for depression - he has been before, but he isn't acting the way he did when he had to be medicated before. Out of curiosity, I looked up a checklist for ten depression symptoms just to see if I could identify the ones he's said he was feeling, and instead I identified 7/10 that I'M feeling.
* A persistent sad, anxious or "empty" mood
* Sleeping too little or sleeping too much
* Reduced appetite and weight loss or increased appetite and weight gain
* Loss of interest or pleasure in activities once enjoyed
* Restlessness or irritability
* Persistent p...

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could i be pregnet?


Posted Monday April 6 2009, 2:01 pm

Okay me and my boyfriend had sex about 4 days ago,and im spost 2 be on my period this month.my boyfriend came in me ALOT.and when i say alot i mean ALOT!.if i still get a little period does that mean i could still be pregnet??
please help thank you

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unprotected sex


Posted Sunday April 5 2009, 11:13 pm

Hey im 18/f and my boyfriend is 21/m. Tonight we had unprotected sex and he accidently cummed in me. Im on YAZ birth control and never miss any days. We are talking about getting the day after pill or plan B. But im not exactly sure how that works etc. Could i get pregnant even though i am on birth control? Thanks ALOT!

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