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How to lose your virginity
Hi, I'm planning on having sex for the first time tomorrow with my boyfriend. It's not his first time but it is mine so I'm kinda nervous. Any kind of help would be helpful, thanks. I'm 17 btw and yes I will use protection of course.
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Dont worry is the first thing to do.I am 17 too and i have had the same recent experience. Main thing is dont freak him out. Although when he first pulls it in and you burst ou crying from the pain he will be nervous and not as secure giving you less sexual satisfaction. To be honest it may hurt on the first time but after you can xperiment and have different pleasurable sensations by for example: ribbed condoms, flavoured condoms, vibrators, dildos, and try dfferent positions-for begginers i would try doggie, sucking-blowjob, missionary and kama-sutra which is on this link below
kama-sutra-free.com
hope u enjoy ur first night of luxurious playful fun!
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- Decent sized pack of condoms. Spring for the 12 pack, especially if you're going to be around each other a while.
- VCF - Vaginal contraceptive film. Small film you push inside yourself, wait 15 minutes, you have spermicide. Its a second line of defense in case the condom breaks, its quoted 80 something percent effective against preventing pregnancy alone. Found next to condoms at CVS.
- Lube - Probably a good idea to have a small bottle. Astroglide or a generic version can be found, usually near the condoms as well.
- Don't be in a rush. If you can't get two or three hours alone min, wait.
- Relax. Its a big step, but its not going to shatter your world, and don't be afraid of fucking things up. You should be able to giggle about bumping heads or someone slipping off the bed.
- Sex is a skill. Everyone sucks (metaphorically) when they start out. You should both be ok with the fact that it might not be as good now as it will be once you get to know each other's bodies a bit better.
- Communication is important. Talk about it afterwards, about what you liked, didn't like, and whats going through your head about it in general. Be open and honest and get him to be the same. It might be a bit uncomfy at first, but the more you talk the easier it gets.
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