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what does this mean?


Posted Friday January 27 2006, 8:18 pm

If a guy tells you to have children when you're young; and then winks at you, does that mean anything? This happened to me with a guy friend of mine. First he started asking me if I wanted children. I said that I was still young (I'm 24) and had lots of time for that. Then he said to have them when I'm still young because I wouldnt want to be 60 when their 18. He has never had children himself (he's 41). This is when he winked at me. Do you think (because this is my theory), that this was his way of hinting he wanted to have children with me? Because obviously he wants them, and was telling me to have them young because if I waited until I was 40 to have his kids he would be in his 70's by the time our kids were in their teens.

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whats going on!!?!?!?!


Posted Friday January 27 2006, 8:09 pm

ok well i like these 2 guyz hoo r my best friends...well i dont want 2 jest be there best friend nemore but i cant decide hoo to like more or go out with...and also another problem is i no for sure one likes me but the other always says i dont no or mumbbles hoo he likes quietly when me and my friends ask him hoo he likes..its so confusing but then the one that likes me told me and my best friend that the other guy likes me and i dont no who to believe but i dont wanna be like who do yu like...so plezz!!!HELP!!!!!!!!
--MiLLiE

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Age


Posted Friday January 27 2006, 7:55 pm

Ok here it goes..
I really like this guy, I'm 13 and in 8th grade and i really like him. the problem is, he's in 7th. but i see him beause our yougner brothers are on a basketball team together. I don't know if he likes me, but i like him and i want him to notice me. We have a dance coming up on Feb 9th or 10th, so how couldi get him to notice me. like...
What are some tips to get him to notice me and stuff?
.:rate 5's:.
thanks
Kate

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love and parents


Posted Friday January 27 2006, 6:16 pm

I like this guy but i am not allowed to date till i am 18 and i am 13 now. all my friends are dating and this is the most i've felt for a guy. what should i do or say?

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Why doesn't he want to be with me like I wanna be with him??


Posted Friday January 27 2006, 6:02 pm

I am 15/f and i need some advice...

I have been dating this guy off and on for bout a year and half. And i had not talk to him in bout 2 or 3 months and in that time i moved. Well then i had sergury and i had sergury where i use to live and he came and took care of me and then we ended back up together. Well then i found out that he was movin to canada. And then he tell me he wasnt to just be friend but i want more than friends but everyone is telling me to move on what should I do.?

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I changed my mind.


Posted Friday January 27 2006, 4:40 pm

A few months ago, this really sweet kid told me that he liked me. I sort of liked him back, but I thought I liked this other kid even more, and so I told him I didn't like him in that way. He took it really well, just said ok, and then we didn't speak too much any more, because it was pretty awkward. Since then, I have given up on that other guy. Now, I know for certain that I definitely like this other guy, and I don't know whether it would be inappropriate for me to tell him that after I had already told him no. Should I tell him?

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Helpppp plzzzz


Posted Friday January 27 2006, 1:22 pm

14/f
So....I like this guy lets call him T. Well T is 17...but he likes me back. The thing is I am like really falling for him. I just don't know if things will work cuz of the age difference, its only three years but still.... I really do want things to work, but if things won't I really don't want to fall to hard for him because than I'll just get heartbroken. I just don't know what to do anymore. This isn't really a question....I just don't know what to do!

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what should i do?


Posted Friday January 27 2006, 9:31 am

ever since i started walking to school there have been these 2 girls who always say hi to me and i never really thought anything about it until one of them asked me out and at first i wanted to go out with her but then somthing inside me told me she's bad news and i dont know if it's because im neverous i dont know if it's because ive seen her smoke a few times i dont know what it is but could someone please help me i dont know what to do.

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Getting over my ex. [18F]


Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 10:50 pm

Alrighty. So my junior year of college I developed a most excellent friendship with this guy, a senior, who we'll call Joe. Joe and I got really close and I asked him to my prom, and we were both on a band trip for a month that summer, so eventually we got together. Joe went to college 2 hours from home and we managed to make the long distance thing work for a while. As much as I loved Joe, he wasn't the greatest boyfriend... he rarely called/IMed/e-mailed, and I sent letters all the time, never to receive any back. I visited him a few times and he came home once or twice.

I thought we were doing ok til I went to visit March my senior year and he was really distant, and then in the beginning of April (this would be 2005) he ...

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Nice guy and Slut girl


Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 10:02 pm

Well ive had a crush on this real nice guy ad we talk alot and he told me about his ex who broke up with him twice in 2 weeks. I told her that I liked him cause she was going out with someone and she told me she was over the guy i liked and that we should go out...she gave me soo much hope. Then the nxt day she comes in and tells me that shes breaking up with her b/f and that she thinks the guy I like (her ex) thinks that she likes him again because she kept asking him who he liked. I was mad cause i trusted her but thats not it. The guy I like told me that she was telling people that she liked him again....Rite after I told herow i felt! Ughe everyone sais shes a slut cause shes gone out with everyone on our sports team!!!! Was she jus try...

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got more than i bargained for


Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 9:30 pm

(I'm 13/f)There's this guy (lets call him M) and I thought I liked him so I told him I did and now he's my boyfriend. But the problem is I don't anymore. And I don't think I ever really did. He likes me a lot. Another problem is I like another guy (let's call him S) and I know he'll never like me back because he's really cute, and I'm, well, not. (He's into really pretty, really skinny girls)

So, what do I do?
1) How do I let M down easy and not hurt him too much?
2) Should I forget about S and move on?

(P.S. I know it said only to have 1 question per thing, but I thought maybe it'd be okay since it's the same topic?)

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boys


Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 9:16 pm

i really like this guy. i am in 8th grade and he is in 7th. i guess you could say that i love him. i have been crazy about him for about 9 months now. he has a girlfriend who is in 9th grade. he flirts with me a whole lot and i catch him looking at me during the one class that we have together. he also messes with one of my friends while i am around her but not in a flirting way. my friends say that he is just going out with this girl to make me jealous. he does stuff like lean on my arm when i am sitting down and he is standing up talking to one of his friends that i sit by. he also shows up in my classes just to talk with his friends. he is like a "dream guy" and i know that lots of girls like him but how can i get him to notice...

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Who do I choose?


Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 9:15 pm

I really like this boy A LOT..in love with him..yes he's my first love. Anyways, me and him have been talking a lot more and it seems like he's starting to like me again and I don't wanna let him go. Then there's this other kid that I liked for a couple days and he likes me but my two other best friends are like madly in love with him. Which one do I picK? PLEASEEE i need some help...i really love the first guy though and I don't wanna let him go but I just don't know if I just give the other guy a chance :/

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why are boys such assholes??!!


Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 9:03 pm

Well I WAS going out with this guy,we wanted to keep it a secret cause it is suck an unlikely match,well the whole school found out and people were coming up asking me do we go out and all that stuuf. Well his ex-girlfriend found out and was crying and slamming doors today at school and people made up rumors saying she wanted to beat me up and that the boy was gonna break up with me.Well the ex called me tonight and was saying how she never said she wanted to fight me and that she really wants me and the boy to be together well the next thing I know I'm talkinmg to him on AIM (he thinks I'm my friend) and he said he already broke up with me but he never did. And well he doesn't know it was me adn now me and him are broken up and I told him ...

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hmmm


Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 8:23 pm

hmm okay well i like this kid and my frined does too and she is like my best friend and her other freind like does shit with him behind my back nad she is suppose to my friend and well shes not i hate her now cause she back stabbed me more then once and i cant trust her and i just dont like her.. But i like him and thats not a good thing cause he is like a broter to me cuz his brother and my brother are like best friends and it sucks cause we kno eachother inside and out and it sucks cause we talked about it the other day if we went out and he said it would be wierd cuz im like his sister.. and well my best frined did shit with him and he like broke her heart adn now her friend is doing shit to him and he is just letting ehr do it infront o...

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my true love needs a "break"


Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 7:39 pm

okay... so me and my boyfriend were dating for two years we had a GREAT relationship we were best friends, and loved eachother very very much!but the last month or two of our relationship he was starting to feel like "distant" from me and so of course i asked him about it and he always said nothing or i dont kno.. and i didnt want to annoy him about it so i let it go, but then he told me that he thinks he needs a break not just for him but for me too! and that last 3 days and i cried the whole time and he told me taht it was too hard and it wasnt worth it and that he loved me so much.. and so everything was better. then we go out of town for a week and i felt once again "distant" from himyet AGAIN! and the next day tha...

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i like this boy - a friend of mine - i told him but now we d


Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 6:50 pm

well, my subject pretty much says it all... i like this other boy now... he knows that i like him - my friends tell him that all the time and i told him that i do like him once, just so he knows that what my friends tell him aren't lies... we used to be friends - well, i THINK we're still friends... but ever since he knew about me liking him, we barely talk anymore, unless for a couple of words - thanks, here - or we're in the same group for class and we HAVE to talk and help each other... was it wrong to tell him that i like him?? what can i do so that me and him talk again, but not seem desperate for him?? [[i'm not desperate for him, although i catch myself looking and searching for him at times...but you can't really help doing that... ...

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Help on a luv life?


Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 6:19 pm

me and my bf made a bet about who could stay up the longest, and if he lost, he had to go some where with me, and if I lost, i have to kiss him. WE called it a tie, but we still have to go through with it. What should I do?

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help


Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 6:18 pm

okay i've been talking to this guy and a couple of weeks ago he tried to do stuff w. me at a party well i've liked him for a while now and he talks to me occasionally like if im walking with a boy that is just a friend he will say something like " this boy dont want to go out with you" or he'll say whats goin on here ? and i like him soo much i cant get over him and all i think about is him like in school i cant do my work cus i think about him soo much and i dont ever learn anything.. what should i do should i try and talk to him?

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The neverending problems


Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 6:13 pm

I've loved this guy since July. First of all, when I say 'love'...I'm sure you're thinking "she's just another naive girl." Well maybe I am, but I don't use the term 'love' loosely. I love him so much it physically hurts. I mean...when I think about not having him, I feel like I've got needles and glass in my veins. But he kept confusing me, because he seemed to keep changing his mind about whether or not he liked me. So when my friend asked me out on New Years Eve, I of course said yes, because I didn't imagine it going anywhere with the other guy, and figured this would be a way to get over him. Well...it's just getting worse. I love him even more! I told him I still like him yesterday. And he likes me again. (he said with all h...

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