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why are boys such assholes??!!


Question Posted Thursday January 26 2006, 9:03 pm

Well I WAS going out with this guy,we wanted to keep it a secret cause it is suck an unlikely match,well the whole school found out and people were coming up asking me do we go out and all that stuuf. Well his ex-girlfriend found out and was crying and slamming doors today at school and people made up rumors saying she wanted to beat me up and that the boy was gonna break up with me.Well the ex called me tonight and was saying how she never said she wanted to fight me and that she really wants me and the boy to be together well the next thing I know I'm talkinmg to him on AIM (he thinks I'm my friend) and he said he already broke up with me but he never did. And well he doesn't know it was me adn now me and him are broken up and I told him to never talk to me again cause he will get cussed out and why I'm mad that he went back for his ex is that she cheated on him at a basketball game and I don't think ppl like that deserve a second chance. Well I do still like him some and I don't know what to do,his jokes are funny and I promised myself I wouldn't laugh at them and I wouldn't ever talk to him again!!
HELP ME!!


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Vikki27 answered Saturday January 28 2006, 12:42 pm:
Talk to him. Laugh at his jokes. In other words, be friends.

This boy clearly cannot be trusted to be monogomous so don't let him have the chance to do the same to you again.

I know that may sound tough and sometimes when you really like someone, you just want them back and want it to be the same again. But sometimes you have to learn when to say no and this is one of those times. After all, why date a liar when you can find a genuinely nice guy who wouldn't treat you that badly?

Trust me, as time goes on and you get older, chances are you'll encounter many many more boys like this. The sooner you take a stand and refuse to let them walk all over, the better you'll make it through and find one of the decent ones.

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KiSSxMYxPEARLS answered Friday January 27 2006, 2:32 am:
That guy is so effing retarded. I hate it when guys say that they broke up with their girlfriends when they really didn`t. You should seriously slap this guy in the face(not litterally). Honestly, just ignore him. Forget about him. Flirt with other guys. This guy doesn't deserve you because you are soooo much better than he is. && he`s just dumb for going back out with his ex girlfriend who cheated on him. Wow. How lame. Anyways, just hang out with your girlfriends && just go out alot & just do something to clear your mind from him. You`ll eventually get over him.

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