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player? friends? HELP NEEDED FAST


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 10:19 pm

my friend likes this kid ( well call him james )
james likes me and talks to my friend about me all the time, that friend talks smack about me to everyone now so he wont like me...now i dont mind hurting her because were not friends. but another one of my friends likes him and she thought they were talking before but he says shes gross. whenever shes online he doesnt talk to me but when shes away or off he talks to me. i think hes playing me...what do i say to him if anything at all to find out if he likes her? let me know asap please!

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I'm the friend..not the girl!


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 9:00 pm

There is a guy that I have been good friends with since the beginning of the year. We talk a lot at school and at church...and sometimes hang out with other church ppl outside of school and stuff. He's very, very nice to me (but sometimes he'll randomly be too sarcastic or standoffish) and I really think I like him. How can I get him to think of me less of "one of the guys" and more like a girl withought telling him? (he's pretty unreadable as to who he likes, but he sometimes flirts w/ me) HELP!

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math conferences...


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 8:09 pm

I met this guy at a series of math conferences. He's really cute, fun to talk to, and really smart. During the conference breaks, we basically spent the whole time talking and hanging out. I know this sounds ridiculous, but...I have a crush on him now. The only problem is---I'll probably never see him again. He goes to school in a different county. How should I get over him?

I know this makes me sound like a moronic, blathering idiot, but at least I can find some advice here without anyone actually knowing who I am.

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mad, madder, maddest


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 8:05 pm

i REALLY like this guy. but we kinda just got in a fight.. he wasnt in a good mood in the first place.. and i was trying to tell him how hes feeling.. and i dont know. im just not, good at calming people down. i seem to make them madder obviously.. anyway, now hes mad and he blocked me.. and i dont wanna call him because if i do i think ill just make it worse. and i like him A LOT. what do i do?

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so there's this guy..


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 7:10 pm

ok.. so there's this guy.. and i think i love him.. but we have been through soo much.. and now he hates me for something i didnt do.. he thinks im preventing him from being friends with one of his ex's who happens to be like my best friend.. but thats soo not the case!! its been 4 months since we broke up and ive been trying so hard to get over him.. and i almost did... but i dont know what came over me... i just snapped and fell in love with him again.. and i just cant get him off my mind.. and i really dont know what to do.. cause there is this other guy that i kinda sorta like but i dont know how he feels about me.. but the thing is i can never stop thinking about the guy i love when i talk to the guy i like.. im really trying to get ov...

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moving on...


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 7:01 pm

i've just broken up with my boyfriend of nearly four years. it's been four days since we've last spoken, and i know i shouldn't feel this way, but i feel terrible.

i've tried going out with friends, making myself productive, and yet i still can't get him off my mind.

any tips?

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tired of waiting


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 6:54 pm

me and this guy tyler are really close.. we're pretty much already going out. we just haven't made it official yet (he hasn't asked me!). i'm tired of waiting forever for him to ask me. do you think that i should just go ahead and ask him myself? if so, what do i say?
thanks

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the way he acts...


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 6:52 pm

My fiancee (hes 21, im 23) has just left for Florida (hes in the marines) anyways he'll be there till the 29th and he left the 17th. So Since he's been gone, ive talked to him a total of 2 times and thats it. its like he dont even care if he talks to me or not. also his phone is "messed" up because the ac was leakin' and dripped water into it or so he says. we just got off the phone (convo like 5 minutes!) and he wouldnt tell me he loved me or missed me, i had to say it first and when hes here with me, he acts so different, tells me all the time how much he loves me, introduces me to all his friends, family so sweet and caring but when he goes away its like poof I dont matter any more and it breaks my heart. If I bring this up to ...

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heart broken but still loving..


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 6:45 pm

hey, I'm looking for some good advice because I basically don't what to do anymore. I recently got dumped by this guy. I really loved him, it wasn't one of those "fake" loves as you might call it. I really was and still am in love with him, I would give anything and do anything for him. He did love me at one point too and he claims he doesn't know why he stopped. He thinks that it could be that I took him for granted or was unappreciative and that I hurt him. But I never even knew I was doing any of this, and if I had known I would have tried my hardest to fix the problem. I'm so confused and I've tried almost everything, and now I'm lost. My friends say that I should just move on, but I don't want to give up because I just have t...

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Boy Help Needed


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 6:45 pm

There is this guy I like...we'll call him Chris. He's really funny, and I think I might like him. I've known him for a month or two now. The problem is, I don't act myself when I'm around guys that I like. I also don't know how to flirt and seem appealing to them. So in the end, I make a complete fool of myself trying to impress Chris and being someone I'm not. Is there something that can help me stop acting so crazy? Also, how do you know when to tell a guy that you like him? Or are you not supposed to do that? Ah, I just need boy help in general! If there is someone out there who would be willing to talk to me on AIM and give me pointers, that would be great...

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How to flirt...


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 6:37 pm

I'm 15/f, and I have a major problem flirting. I'm really bad at it. I never know when I'm doing it too much, and coming on too strong and going to scare a guy away, but other times I'm too quiet and the guy doesn't even know I like him. How do I flirt successfully? How much can I get away with without crossing the line?

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how to tell if a girl likes me?!?


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 5:58 pm

how to tell if a girl likes me?!?

age 13
gender male
p.s. girl i am asking about is a grade younger then me

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dance dance!


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 5:43 pm

well theres this dance like Thursday, and I'm going. I have a boyfriend who is one year younger than me if you care. Anyways, if he asks me to dance, i know I'm going to be nervous.
this may be odd, but can someone explain to me how exactly to slow dance.
Like should i put my hands on his shoulders?
Should I smilke?
WHAT!?
5's if ya give a good one!
xoxox
thanks in advance..

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date him or no??


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 5:31 pm

well i just started dateing this guy today ( tuesday ) and i met him last tuesday i think...anyway we dont really know much about each other but all i know is that i really like him and i guess he likes me because he asked me out..well since i dont really know much about him should we not go out?? and like 10 minutes after we left each other i felt like since i got what i wanted ( him really badly ) then i dont want him as much anymore...its like a game with me i guess.i dont know but it happens all the time.my friends think its because i want what i cant have and i guess thas kinda true..i mean i still like him but not as much anymore.what should i do?? ill rate high for any good answers

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oh crap, he likes me


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 5:26 pm

14/f

My best guy friend likes me. It's obvious, everyone knows it. The problem is I'm not sure what to say if he asks me out. I don't like him, yet at times I feel as though I do. He is a funny person, not the best looking, but looks don't matter a lot to me. At the same time it would be odd going out with him. What do I do?

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Pregnant


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 5:24 pm

okay. well on Sunday i had sex with this guy named Mike.. and the condom ripped.. he said hes positive that none of it got in me and that he pulled it out in time, but my period was supposed to be on the 20th and write now its the 21st.. and im really paranoid. I have absolutely no one to talk to that could understand, and my parents would KILL me.. like they both believe that its wrong to have premarital sex , and i did too.. but i made a huge mistake and im so confused.. and i was just wondering like i know this is a little messed up, but if i had a miscarrage within the first week or so of being pregnant, would the baby still have to be taken out or anything? please help, because im so scared.

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Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 5:17 pm

i went out with this guy named alex two years ago. we went out for 3 months. the next year we were getting closer as friends and i had always liked him since we broke up. we are closer then ever now and i can tell him anything, hes even closer to me then any of my girl friends. so now hes going out with one of my friends, they have been going out for like 6 months. so a few weeks ago alex had told me that he really did still love me and that he wanted to go out with me. well katie ( his girlfriend ) is a little, how can i put this, controlling and she said that they we not going to break up now matter how alex felt. and alex is like the nice guy who hates to hurt peoples feelings and so he finally got the courage to break up with her. well ...

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i kinda like him..


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 4:41 pm

k theres this kid at my school..and he and my(realy good) friend just broke up and ever since then as a joke me and my friend and this other girl will go down the hall and when ever we see hiom we'll say "homo" and so yesterday he goes...so do u really think that about me, nad i tried to play stupid and do "think what" and hes like you know what and so yah we talked some more and i changed the topic and he still wants to know what i really think about him...but see the truth is i kinda sorta ((like just a lil)) like this kid and even tho i wanna talk my self out of it i cant..and so now i dont know what to tell him cuz i dont wanna tell him i like him but i dont wanna lie to him either....please HELP

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i'm worried


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 3:31 pm

Hello My Name Is Rachel. I'm 13. Im dating this kid name Bret. Hes amazing and exstremly cute!!! But I'm worriedd.... cause sooo many girls like him and i'm worried that he'll go to one of them instead of me... I mean i do get jealous really easily but still. Because it just seems like everyone thinks hes cute and they all like him but i dont want to loose him... and i also get really jealous when other girls talk to him and I just dont want to loose him and i dont know what to do? HELP PLEASEE!

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How do you make out?


Posted Tuesday March 21 2006, 3:14 pm

How do you make out? How do you know when you use your tongue? Where do you put your hands?

Thanx.

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