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Boy Help Needed
There is this guy I like...we'll call him Chris. He's really funny, and I think I might like him. I've known him for a month or two now. The problem is, I don't act myself when I'm around guys that I like. I also don't know how to flirt and seem appealing to them. So in the end, I make a complete fool of myself trying to impress Chris and being someone I'm not. Is there something that can help me stop acting so crazy? Also, how do you know when to tell a guy that you like him? Or are you not supposed to do that? Ah, I just need boy help in general! If there is someone out there who would be willing to talk to me on AIM and give me pointers, that would be great...
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of course..this is something that happens to every girl sometime. you definatly need to be yourself, and if chris doesnt like the real you, then too bad for him! he missed out, and there are a ton of great guys out there that will love you for YOU-not someone to try to be. my screen name is livelov3laugh287 if you ever need anything! i hope this helped you <3 amy
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Here's what you do... Just be yourself! Don't worry about flirting and seeming appealing... You're a wonderful person, and if you stop with facades like flirting and let that wonderful person really shine, you're more likely to get a worthwhile guy. It might not work on the guys you "want" it to work on... but you could be pleasantly surprised! For instance, I'm a complete and utter nerd... but when I gave up on covering it up, it turned out my one friend LOVED my nerdiness, and now we're dating.
Bottom line: BE YOURSELF!!!
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