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i think i am in love with somebody that i don't know


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 10:58 pm

14/f. my parents had a big christmas party in december, and they hired a blues band to come play. the guitarist in the band is good friends with another amazing guitarist who just turned 15, so the 15-year-old came and played too. he seems like a complete carbon copy of myself because we both love music (i play several instruments) and he isn't afraid to pour his heart out on stage. besides, he is uberly cute. i was too shy to talk to him when he was at my house, and he lives a long way away. in mid january i found his email address and sent him an email saying who i was and stuff like that. he sent me a message back in february that said hey there, etc. (in my email i told about my obsession with music, he commented on several thing...

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Feelings for my ex


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 10:34 pm

Alright, to start things off, I have been dating my current boyfriend for three years in May, and I love him very much.

But the thing is, I'm getting recurring feelings for my ex-boyfriend. We had been best friends forever, as long as I could remember, before I fell hard for him. I broke up with him because I suspected he didn't really like me--it turns out he did. Anyway, he now has a girlfriend. I feel like I still love him, and I can't remember whether I even really stopped loving him or not.

I don't want to hurt the guy I'm with, because I love him as well! I honestly don't know what to do. Any help would be greatly appreciated!

20/f

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**UPDATE**


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 10:23 pm

to all the people who gave me advice on the rape thing.thanks..i guess you guys were right cuz uhh i told my mom and she listend to the phone call and we went to the cops and they sent me to a doctor to "check" me out for seamon or somthing and they found some and it matched him so hes going to juvey..its a start...so thank you everyone who gave me advice on it..it gave me the couragee to do it and you know what? after i told the police other reports of it showed up..so THANK YOU SOO MUCH!! (sorry it was long:-D)

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Sorry, rather long.


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 9:33 pm

Okay well, I did something really bad. I was just on a cruise for two weeks, and before I went, my boyfriend broke up with me. But then, I was in florida for a week before I went on the cruise, and he came all the way down from PA to tell me that he was sorry and didn't want me to hook up with any other guys because he loved me and would always love me. But then, when I got on the cruise, I met this realllly cute guy, and we started making out and stuff by the time the two weeks were up. And he started to really like me, but I'm not too sure if I like him, because I love my boyfriend with all my heart. The boy on the cruises name is Tom, and my boyfriends name is Matt, by the way. And I'm a 17 year old.

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14/f hickie


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 8:54 pm

I have a huge problem.
Last night, I went over my boyfriend's house.
While I was there .. I ended up giving him a hickie.
His parents saw it but they dont care. But how can I make it so noone else notices it?
How long does it take for them to go away?

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he moved back into town


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 8:53 pm

ok theres this guy Tim that i've been so inlove with. we planed on dateing when he got back into town. well i just found out a few min ago that he has moved back. i'm so excited but yet i'm ready to start crying cuz i have a strong feeling that he doesn't wanna be with me anymore. i have no clue what i'm suppose to do. i know his still inlove with his girlfriend. but i also know he cares about me. it's like his stuck in the middle between both of us. but now that he is back here. i have no clue what i'm suppose to say to him or anything. i don't know if i'm suppose to tell him i still have feelings for him and just have him turn his back on me or just wait for him to call and sufur me self till he does even if i does take a few months/days....

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talk to him...


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 8:23 pm

OKay well theres this guy and i went out w/ him for i guess about 5 mouths then i got kinda scared becuz we got so close and im scared to get close to people so i broke up w/ him. and i still love him. i want to tell him in person (ive already have online) but it seems like ever sence i broke up w/ him he doesnt care like all his friends he doesnt talk to. my friend pointed it out to me and i feel sooo bad. i realli want to talk to him but i dont no how. im not normaly shy around guys half my friends are guys and i get all shy and shaky around him its realli weird but can anyone help?

Sorry its so long.

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My heart is NOT a toy.


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 8:18 pm

Okay, so there is this boy that I dated for 9 months, lost my virginity to, and was totally in love with. He broke up with me on Valentine's day and I haven't been quite the same since. I still love him, and he keeps playing with my head and my heart. He said he still loved me and he just needed some time to himself because he's a senior in high school and he's busy, which I understand. But he was busy before, and everything wa fine. We go to different schools, which made things tough, but I think it was worth it.

And I saw him a week ago and he kissed me just like he used to. I mean - it felt like he really loved me, still. So then everything seemed okay and we were talking about getting back together. It seems like every o...

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quotes


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 7:08 pm

Does anyone know where i can get quotes from the movie "In the mix" with usher? Thanks a bunch!

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should i or not?


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 5:07 pm

ok i have a problem i just got together with this girl i have liked for a really long time i mean like ever sence we were little but it turnes out that she feel in love wit my best friend before me and her started datein and she still has feelings for him but he dont like her but then she says she cares about me but if she dont always act like herself then i know why. but i need to know if i should stay with her or not.thanx

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MODELING!!!! :[[


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 5:03 pm

hii
i am always so worried about being a model. i really want to be one. i know people say its just a dream and everybody wants to be one. but then why are like alot of people at my school models? ughh i just wish i was a model.. i dont know how to become a model because it costs so much money. well of what i know of. somebody help me!!! please does anybody know how to become a model without paying so much money? i kno im pretty enough to be one [not being cocky] so please dont say maybe im not pretty enough. i mean maybe im not? i dont know.. :// gahhhh this is so confusing :[

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broken


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 4:48 pm

okayy... so my little cusion.lost her best friend .. this boy liked loved her for 8 months.
and my cusion secretly love/loved him too.but he thought she didnt love him.so he would beat him self up and stuff.then he started going out with my cusion's best friend so forget about my cusion.
and it worked.he says he got over her.
they dont talk any more.
now my cuz relizes she really loves him.
shes terribly heartbroken.
if that made any sence.
any way.
shes at my house right now.
crying x345354
i feel bad.
i'm cheering her up.
but not so good.
because i've never really been heartbroken.
or inlove.
so does anyone have ANY advice about how sh...

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crush/new friend


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 3:44 pm

I've liked this guy in my government class for about a month now and we never talked, sometimes we'd say hi or smile at eachother but that was about it! Then this past thursday i was walking out of the office in our school and i saw him there, he looked like he was going to say hi so i said hey and smiled and he did the same then i continued walking. So later that night i got home and i checked my myspace and he had sent me a comment, saying, "Hey! How are you? Did you like the movie today?" (we had gone on a movie field trip that day). So i then i wrote back, and we ended up talking for like 2 hours online. Then friday when i saw him in class we said hi but it was kinda like before we started talking. Then after school, i went on...

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Didn't like him and now I do


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 1:12 pm

There's this guy who goes to my school, and over Christmas break he started messaging me on MySpace saying he thought I was pretty and asking who I liked and that kind of thing. I told him my friend liked him, so I couldn't like him, and said it would be better to be friends. He agreed, and we haven't really talked since. Now, I think I'm beginning to like him, and I don't know what to do since I declined him better. What do I do?

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asking


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 12:13 pm

How do I ask this guy that I really like who I talk to a lot in school to hang out? I think he suspects that I like him a little but I just want to hang out with him.

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help


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 11:02 am

Hey my name is Rachel and iam 16 years old and I was wondering if you just started going out with a boy like a week ago is it to soon for a first kiss literally this will be my first kiss ever by a boy.

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what do i do now


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 10:40 am

ok so I just found out my x bf has a gf and he told one of my rly good friends he also said not to tell anyone if that matters at all. but she told me and now i feel like i rly need a bf but I dont want one just to get back at him. I've liked this other guy for like almost a year now. and we dont rly talk but we go to the same church and we see eachother like every single sunday and wednesday. my friends say they think he likes me but I dont kno what to do! I rly want a bf. please help!

xo K

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A heart split in two


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 10:23 am

I have posted a few questions before and its a comfort to know how much support is out there. Two weeks ago my girlfriend of 4mnths left me. She came over to my house on a Saturday evening. While I took a shower she went on my computer and found I had seen a porn site or two. I came out of the shower and she said nothing. We went out for dinner and went back to my house. She showed me the site and broke down. She left me. She has cancelled her cell phone. She wont respond to my emails. Her parents wont even speak to me. My question for you is why is she doing this. I mean after two weeks youd think she'd talk again. But she wants nothing to do with me. I love her and would do anything to win her back. Im 25. The night she left m...

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im confused


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 2:03 am

ok well to start off im 15 & a freshmen & i met this senior from my highschool right around a month ago & we started talkin. well now i really like him & he knows i do cause i finally jus flat out told him & he always brings that up to me. but i asked him if he liked me or not cuz at first he said he did but then when i asked him later on he was like 'well i dunno. so now i asked again recently cause it seemed like he did again, but he wont give me an answer. he calls me almost, if not every, night & we have fun talkin & stuff. & i get really anxious on the phone, & i hate talkin on it & he knows that. and he'd always rag on me about that, just jokingly. but ive kinda gotten over that since ive been t...

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im confused


Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 1:54 am

ok well to start off im 15 & a freshmen & i met this senior from my highschool right around a month ago & we started talkin. well now i really like him & he knows i do cause i finally jus flat out told him & he always brings that up to me. but i asked him if he liked me or not cuz at first he said he did but then when i asked him later on he was like 'well i dunno. so now i asked again recently cause it seemed like he did again, but he wont give me an answer. he calls me almost, if not every, night & we have fun talkin & stuff. but at the same time hes always tellin me about these other girls who like him & these girls from his work & whatnot. and i dunno, my friends [who have never even met him] think he...

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