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A heart split in two
I have posted a few questions before and its a comfort to know how much support is out there. Two weeks ago my girlfriend of 4mnths left me. She came over to my house on a Saturday evening. While I took a shower she went on my computer and found I had seen a porn site or two. I came out of the shower and she said nothing. We went out for dinner and went back to my house. She showed me the site and broke down. She left me. She has cancelled her cell phone. She wont respond to my emails. Her parents wont even speak to me. My question for you is why is she doing this. I mean after two weeks youd think she'd talk again. But she wants nothing to do with me. I love her and would do anything to win her back. Im 25. The night she left me I broke down. I cried alot. I lost everything. What can I do to win her back. Something that will melt her heart. Why girls do this? How to get her parents to talk? Im so lost hurt and torn. This is the second time in my life I got shut out in a relationship. I've come at wits end.
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well mabye since youve guys have been together for so long and she realized that you were looking at porn she may feel that you want more than what she can give you...i know this seems weird but she may see it as you cheating on her.just give her some time and i know how she feels she wants to be the only woman in your life so make her feel that way! hope i helped
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i think that shes mad at you for watching porn becuase when your boyfriend is watching other naked girls they dont want that. she would rather you look at her naked them some random girls. her parents wont talk to you because theyre trying to protect their daughter. now if you really want her back i would go to her house stand outside and knock on the door. if she slams it on your face go to her window and start singing your guys favorite song or a love song. she will smile and fall in love even though she will not show it. girls get mad like this. girls love it when that one guy keeps chasing after them saying sorry. you just have to tell her the truth and tell her how much of a wreck you were without her
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honestly, and this is gonna sound a litle harsh, but you should forget about her. all men look at porn, if she isnt mature enough not to be threatened by that then she isnt mature enough to be in a relationship. now maybe, just maybe youll be able to convince her to take you back, but shed most likely find something else to have a problem with. also, you wont be trusted by her, shed probably want to frequently look at your computer to make sure you werent going on any porn sites, and even if you were to give porn up (and most guys dont) would you really want to live with such constant distrust? my suggestion is to find someone else.
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It sounds like this girl has something seriously agains porn. Maybe her parents do too. She was so shocked that she found this that she doesn't even want to respond. She's so upset at you that she doesn't want to even speak to you again, because she's probably afraid that you want her to become involved in porn or something. If you can ever get ahold of her sit down with her and tell her the truth. Tell her why you visited those sites. Tell her how much you love her. How much you always have loved her and how much you always will love her. Tell her anything that comes into your mind when you see her. Tell her that you made a big mistake and that you well never ever do it again just for her. Once you earn her trust back, you'll earn her parents' back too. Good luckk.
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