ok so I just found out my x bf has a gf and he told one of my rly good friends he also said not to tell anyone if that matters at all. but she told me and now i feel like i rly need a bf but I dont want one just to get back at him. I've liked this other guy for like almost a year now. and we dont rly talk but we go to the same church and we see eachother like every single sunday and wednesday. my friends say they think he likes me but I dont kno what to do! I rly want a bf. please help!
Now this is the part of my answer you are not going to like...but I am sorry I need to say this:
I take it you are a teenager....if not then...wow...but you do not NEED a boyfriend...people just put that into teenage girls minds that they aren't cool unless they have a boyfriend.
Well it is a pretty stupid thing because girls get sooo worked up about boys...
So you do not need a boyfriend and if it does not work out with this guy...enjoy your life...hang out with your friends do stuff you love to do...don't let not having a boyfriend bring you down.. [ LoViNu2mOuCh's advice column | Ask LoViNu2mOuCh A Question ]
amyyy789 answered Saturday March 25 2006, 12:23 pm: well if i were you i would start to talk to this other guy you like, and find out how he feels about you and just get to know him! if things feel right then, when the time is right then he will [hopefully] ask you out!! but, well depending on your age..you didnt say...its not the most important thing to have a boyfriend. it might seem like it is cuz everyone practally has one, but dont just do what everyone else wants!!--just for future advice cuz i can tell you really like this guy [ amyyy789's advice column | Ask amyyy789 A Question ]
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