ok well to start off im 15 & a freshmen & i met this senior from my highschool right around a month ago & we started talkin. well now i really like him & he knows i do cause i finally jus flat out told him & he always brings that up to me. but i asked him if he liked me or not cuz at first he said he did but then when i asked him later on he was like 'well i dunno. so now i asked again recently cause it seemed like he did again, but he wont give me an answer. he calls me almost, if not every, night & we have fun talkin & stuff. but at the same time hes always tellin me about these other girls who like him & these girls from his work & whatnot. and i dunno, my friends [who have never even met him] think hes jus usin me to get some, but hes never even tried anything w/ me, and weve never even hugged or anything. is that weird for a senior to like a freshmen? were only about 2.5 years apart in age, so it doesnt seem too bad, but at the same time it kinda does. & what can i say to him to finally just get a straight answer from him about stuff like this? cause everything ive tryed hasnt worked. :[
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TheTeenGirl answered Sunday April 16 2006, 8:50 pm: I really think that senior and freshmens are two worlds apart. When you are a freshmen, you are just now understanding and figuring out what you might want in the future. When you are a senior, you are off to college soon and have a pretty good idea of what you want to be. Most seniors are about 17 or 18 while freshmens are only 15 or 16. When he turns 18, he will be an adult while you are a minor (child).
I'm sorry, but I think the maturity levels aren't strong enough to connect.
TheTeenGirl answered Saturday March 25 2006, 9:27 pm: I'm sorry, but I think this guy is a little too old for you.
You are just beginning highschool, a point in your life where you are just now thinking of what you really want out of life. And he's a senior, a person who has now found a very close idea of what they want. I think that you can do a lot better getting with someone whose on the same page as you, because this guy isn't.
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