i think i am in love with somebody that i don't know
Question Posted Saturday March 25 2006, 10:58 pm
14/f. my parents had a big christmas party in december, and they hired a blues band to come play. the guitarist in the band is good friends with another amazing guitarist who just turned 15, so the 15-year-old came and played too. he seems like a complete carbon copy of myself because we both love music (i play several instruments) and he isn't afraid to pour his heart out on stage. besides, he is uberly cute. i was too shy to talk to him when he was at my house, and he lives a long way away. in mid january i found his email address and sent him an email saying who i was and stuff like that. he sent me a message back in february that said hey there, etc. (in my email i told about my obsession with music, he commented on several things i said). i know that he has a myspace account, but i'm scared to add him as a friend because i don't want to seem like a stalker because i haven't even ever met him before! but my friends and i are convinced that i will marry him someday, so i have to do something. i know that i might see him in june/july, but i'm not sure. anyway, my question is, how stupid do you people think i am and what should i say to him the next time i see him? thanks, y'all. 5's for everybody.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sizzlinmandolin answered Sunday March 26 2006, 5:46 am: Well who knows if you'll marry him that's jumping the gun a little. Don't pay attention to your friends. You seem to like him though so there's an okay possibility for a relationship. Don't expect anything because he doesn't know you that much. Keep e-mailing back and forth so you get to know each other and go ahead and add him as a friend on myspace. When you actually see him, flirt a lot and if he is flirting back admit to him that you like him. With a good timing and a little luck maybe something will come out of it. I hope I helped and good luck! [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
kasey_balla15 answered Sunday March 26 2006, 12:09 am: well the way i see it it is lust not love it is really not easy to love someone that you have only seen one time and dont even know him or what he is like but i guess if you really have alot of feelings for him wait until you see him again and try to talk to him. hope i helped [ kasey_balla15's advice column | Ask kasey_balla15 A Question ]
Juicygirl answered Saturday March 25 2006, 11:37 pm: Adding him on Myspace won't make him think you're a stalker, trust me.
It's actually a great way to get to know him better. Myspace is basically for you to add people in the same class as you whom you want to get to know. Most people add each other on Myspace regardless if they've only seen each other once.
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