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I'm 13 and a female last year i hit a swore at this kid because he called me fat.Well sence then i've been talking to tuckermen(the boy i hit)We have gotten closer but not like close close like a fun talk and stuff.Alot of stupid stuff happened(nothing inportant with other friends)I started crying.I hate crying infront of people .I know it not a sigh a weakness but it still uh i just dont like to.The teacher asked alot of questions and i always gave little information.Then tuckermen asked.I liked it.He cared.I went to class still blinking back my tears.He kept looking at me every 5 minites smileing.It cheered me up.I cant like him.I cant im 130 pounds and a pot belly.Ive never had a boyfriend.I know atleast when he called me fat that he didnt like me.I liked that he cared so much.I cant like him.
do i????
please help.
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Okay. first off, 130 isnt that much, depending on your height. If you are 5 ft or less, then you are over weight. But if you are over 5 feet, you are exactly where you need to be. And if you are over 5'10, then you are underweight. If you are an average height, then you are at a perfect weight. Don't believe me? Go here: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
Oh, and I am 13 and never had a boyfriend either. Its really not a big deal, you will get a boyfriend sooner or later. You just need to find the right guy. Maybe this Tuckermen is the right guy??? if you like him, dont deny it. It sounds like he is flirting a bit, or at least wants to be your friend, so take him up on it. Ask him out. If he says no.. its okay, life will go on. If you know you dont like him, then dont ask him out. Just be friendly, so the opportunity will always be open.
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First of all, you're not fat... I'm 16 and i weigh 155 and im 5 ft 8 inches and everyone is always calling me anorexic and stuff... And second if you have to convince yourself that you dont like him then chances are that you really do, and maybe to you it sounds like a bad ideah but taking a chance never hurts... and about the teasing you thing that is like pretty much every guys way of flirting, and plus that was last year, alot can change in a year... hope i helped...
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You so are NOT fat.
If your interested in losing what you call your pot belly, then just start with some crunches.
Nothing major, it will tighten your stomach muscles.
Tell him it hurt you when he called you that name.
If he doesn't act sorry, then you don't need him.
Good luck :)
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Whether you like him or not, does he really deserve you after calling you a harsh name?
I know theres forgiveness, but did he even bother to say he was sorry? I don't know, this guy needs to show you that he deserves to be with you. And it's ok to like this guy, he's been treating you ok ever since, so I really see no problem except what happened in the past.
But I hope you are careful with what you do. Having a first boyfriend usually means that all of your first mistakes begin. You begin to fall too deeply, and you fall head over heels and it can really put a load on you if he call the relationship off later. So be careful with who you are choosing to be with. It matters in the end with you.
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you are about 15 or 18 pounds heavier than me and people always call me anorexic because i'm "skinny" so 15 more pounds would make you relitivly skinny and not at all fat! and if you have to convince yourself that you dont like him than you probably do like him.. and dont worry about your weight! tons of people at my school have "pot bellys" and they are still beautiful! a little bit of curves never hurt anyone!
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it is possible you like him, and i frankly think you do. and your not fat, im 13 and weigh 145 and people are always saying im really thin. he probably likes you too because guys like to tease girls about stuff like thatthis kid who has a mad crush on me always calls me fat. he obviously cares about you if he asked if you were ok.
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You can't just tell yourself you dont like someone. Whether its wrong, right, stupid, or practical, you obviously have feelings for this kid. Maybe you dont like him, but if you just try to make a decision without so much brain and a little more heart, it should be pretty obvious. Whether he likes you or not, he obviously cares about you, which is a good start. I don't really understand what you thinking you're overweight has to do with the problem, but maybe there's just something I'm not understanding. hopeihelped&+goodluck.
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