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im tired of being the hot girls best friend
ok so i have alout of friends who are very pretty and mean so much to me but alout of guys thing they are so hot im happy for them and all but it makes me feel sad becasue out of the group im the one they all call ugly the guys you now i mean its bad enough i think im ugly and fat and all these things i just dont feel pretty and i hate the feeling of being the ugly one in the group i have alout of friends and everything even a lout of guy friends but they like to tlak to me about my friends and how to get them hooked up of caorse i dont let my pain show and try to help the guys out but i just feel like crap at skool a guy made a hot girl list and every one of my friends was on it except me it crushed me but i kept it to myself i need help thanxs
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every school has mean, rude people. don't let these guys get you down! You are beautiful in your own way. Don't look at the negatives, look for what you really like in yourself, wether it be your skin, hair, lips, eyes, nose, etc.
Don't give into those boys, some guys are just plain jerks.
It is good that you are happy for your friends. Just wait, i know it may be hard, but the perfect guy for you may come along someday soon. Just because guys say your ugly, doesn't mean you are! Focus on having fun, and don't worry about what people say about you.
Just be yourself, and have fun doing it!!!
Hope this helps!
Love,
Katie
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You've got a lot on your mind to sort out.
I think that you'll always feel a sense of discomfort around your friends because they seem to get a lot of guys. But, does it really make them the girls that your mind makes them out to be?
In other words, schools are full of immature and rude people. People that will make fun of others because of things that people can't control. Why? I don't know, because their friends get a laugh at it. Being on a Hot Girl list does not make you any better than other girls who weren't put on that list. It just makes you another girl that guys are thinking about sexually. Thats why it's a Hot Girl list.
Guys that call you fat, and ugly are the ones who will pay a price. And it will effect the person they are later on. We don't know how, but trust me, it all comes back to them in a matter of minutes, days, or even several years. Plus, would you really want to be added to a list of girls that those morons call hot?
So your friends got added. Yay hooray. What else is new? It's just a list that a jerk made to make other girls feel bad. You aren't the only girl who wasn't added either. I think what you should concentrate on is yourself and your accomplishments with yourself. Be happy for yourself when it comes to something great about you. If you get a good grade on a test, be proud of you even if it's something that happens everyday. Don't let your friends or those guys decide what feelings you feel, and how you feel about yourself. You are not the ugly one in your group, you are just another great and fun girl to hang around with in the group. And it doesn't take a certain appearance to have a great heart and spirit. It takes great character. In the long run, it doesn't come down to what the people around you think, it's what you think.
-TheTeenGirl
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