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disapearing sentuality (sp?)


Posted Thursday March 30 2006, 11:47 am

After having my virginty taken away without willingness, I just wish I could have it back. That one special thing that I wanted to share with a special person. It feels to me as though no guy will treat me special that they will all treat me like a girl with a body but no soul no self.
Every night every day I sit here every one of my friends everyone around me has a special someone that makes them feel happy.
Im afraid that when and if I find a special someone that I will feel Unsafe and un able to feel special when and if we have sex or even when we are kissing. I feel the same thing with every guy that they just want me for sex and not for ME! What can I do, to make myself feel that they dont want me for just that. Or is th...

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love!!


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 11:56 pm

what do girls look for in a guy, i think i know but i wanna know more! rate high!

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Asking him?


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 11:07 pm

Theres this guy that i like alooot like you have no idea. its not love. well im talking to him online right now and i want to ask him if he would ever be more then friends with me because i feel like im holding on for nothing seriously. He knows i like him alot but he has never mentioned anything about liking me.

xThankkx

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the guy i like..


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 9:51 pm

ok sorry this might be long ill rate all 5's for your time.

i like this guy and he said he likes me back but he doesnt trust girls cause he's been hurt in the past. My one friend who is friends with him too talked to him about it and tried to get it threw his head that i wouldnt hurt him like that and i've tried also. i just dont know what to do anymore i like him so0o0o0o much and ill wait for him. but i dont know sometimes i think im wasting my time cause he'll never date me.

any advice on what to do?
thanks !

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=/


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 9:29 pm

I've never had a real girlfriend before..I'm gunna ask someone out tomorrow and I know she'll say yes cuz I just do. I'm just afraid that I'll be nervous while we're going out..well not nervous just like "we're going out..now what" you know. Or I might try to act like different..idk What do I do?

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present for bf


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 9:14 pm

It was my boyfriend's birthday two days ago. We've been together a long time and love each other a lot. I got him a computer game as a present but it didn't arrive on time. I want to make it up to him by doing something before the present arrives. What can I do?

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how do i not hurt him


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 8:47 pm

ok well i have a boyfriend and everyone says that when this one guy finds out that i have a boyfriend he is going to be so so so sad because he has liked me for like ever.. this guy is one of my really good frinds and i dont want him to get upset so i think it would be better if i told him myself rather than him just hearing it from other people.. can someone give me some advice on how to tell him without being mean....
thxx
xoxx

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Boyfriend's parents


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 8:11 pm

How can I explain to my boyfriend that if his parents end up getting a divorce it isn't his fault?

Please Read. I'll rate!


Details [if they might help]
....Last night when I was talking on the phone to my boyfriend on the phone he told me that he thinks his parents are going to get a divorce. He says that all they ever do is fight and that his dad has slept on the couch everynight for the past two months. He said that his parents haven't said anything about getting a divorce, but he can just feel it and his younger brothers and sister cannot. He is 17 and the oldest kid in the famliy and he feels like this is all his fault. He thinks he has put too much stress on his parents because:
1. He...

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hopeful romantic.


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 8:07 pm

You are at a social gathering and this beautiful girl happens to eye you. You smile back. You meet again 1/2hr later. You have small talk. now what. I am a shy guy who is very short with words. I always have it when I talk to a woman my speech disappears and all that comes out is mumble jumble fidgeting hands and a beating heart. Can you help me in giving me advice, tips on how to flirt with this girl and somehow connecting. When it comes to flirting I have no problem doing it with other woman but if it is one I feel attracted to Im lost. Your help will be very very much appreciated and I will rate you high. Both of us are in our twenties. Both over six feet.

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veryyy depressed


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 7:53 pm

okay so, I like this guy. And I believee that he knows that I like him, but I'm not sure. Well anyway we're usually real sweet to each other, but today, we didn't talk to each other at all. Like in Math, we sit next to each other. And we kept looking at each other but we wouldn't talk. He would keep looking over at me and stuff. And to me, he sounded sad whenever he talked out loud to the class or something, but he didn't sound sad to some other people. Well anwyay, when I didn't know what the date was, I asked the kid in front of me. And usually I ask the kid that I like. So when I asked Chad (kid in front) what the date was, the boy I like (g) looked over at me and sorta shook his head (i dont know i saw him out of the corner of my eye)...

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girl likes boy


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 7:25 pm

well there's this guy and i really like him, i have since november. the problem is, is that he has a girlfriend. they have been together since october. and my friend just moved back to my school ( i used to be friends with her at my old school and now shes back) and she knows that i like him, and she flirts with him and i think she likes him and hes a flirty guy and he does with a lot of girls including me, but i dont like it when she tells me that he flirts with her and stuff.. and she flirts with him too.. i see it happen, and if she were my friend and knew i liked him why would she say that? and .. i really like him and for the guys out there.. what are some ways to distract him from his girlfriend.. get his attention..bc im sick of wait...

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girl likes boy


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 7:24 pm

well there's this guy and i really like him, i have since november. the problem is, is that he has a girlfriend. they have been together since october. and my friend just moved back to my school ( i used to be friends with her at my old school and now shes back) and she knows that i like him, and she flirts with him and i think she likes him and hes a flirty guy and he does with a lot of girls including me, but i dont like it when she tells me that he flirts with her and stuff.. and if she were my friend and knew i liked him why would she say that? and .. i really like him and for the guys out there.. what are some ways to distract him from his girlfriend.. get his attention..bc im sick of waiting for them to break up, bc it doesnt look lik...

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matt


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 6:42 pm

Hey well im 13/f and i really really like this guy. His name is matt but I honestly dont think he knows I exsist besides when he glances at me in the hallway. I want to know how to get him to notice me but hes pretty popular and hes friends with a lot of popular girls. But dont get me wrong hes not shallow hes a great person. How can I compare to the other girls. I'm not bad looking, not trying to be conceted but its not like ive never been told I'm pretty. I try so hard to get him to notice be but I'm terribly shy when it comes to guys I like. I know most of you will say try and talk to him but i cant im just one of those people who doesnt approach people. It just doesnt happen with me. Is there any other way to maybe get him to notice me?

thanks =)

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what do you de when guys dont want you.


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 6:20 pm

(sorry its long, PLEASE, read it.)
what do you do when no boy wants you?

its quite depressing actually, the few people who have ever liked me are sort of, ehh, weird. Im not going to lie, i AM pretty. But i have a twin brother in my grade. and i was trying to pump him for information (what else are twins good for, right?) and he said no guy wants to date their best friends sister, twin, especially. im fed up with it. i love being a twin, its just that no guy likes me because of it. Also, my brother had a friend over during the summer, who was very cute. He asked "so, do you think my sister's hot?" and he said "sort of." im tired of being a sort of. im tired of being a twin. i really just want to kno...

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flirt


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 6:03 pm

I am 14 and not very good a flirting. We have a big dance at the end of the years and everyones going around asking people to the dance even though its in june. I really wanna go with this guy that i "almost" danced with last dance. The problem is we never talk. He is in none of my classes and when I see him in the hallway I look away. (he doesn't aknolage my presence either) but I know he did almost ask me 2 dance but he was to shy i guess? How can I get his attion and maybe get him 2 ask me 2 the dance? Please help I rate high 4 good advice!!!!

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help


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 5:00 pm

why would a boy aske me out if he knew that he wasn't allowed to date untill he's 17?

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mom problems


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 4:20 pm

me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months and everything is going great...but his step mom, his real mom died when he was young, totally wants me dead! ive only met her once. she was smiling and everything at me but then when he went to invite me over he told me that she hated me. his dad and brother love me but his step brother and sister hate me to. i never did anything wrong to them. i have barely ever talked to them. his dad told me not to worry about it because she(his step mom) is just upset because her son doesnt have a gf and is jealous. what can i do to get her to like me? i rate 5's.

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a boy..


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 3:52 pm

I heard before christmas that a boy liked me but at the time I didn't like him. Now I'm CRAZY about him! But I think he has already moved on..I asked his friend if he used to like me and he said, "Yeah..USED to." How do I find out from him without letting it sound like I like him?

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so what do i do now?


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 2:26 pm

Well as some of you know i cheated on Scott, and after i did i felt really bad i cried. i am in a really tough spot here i am not a cheater i have never cheated before in my life this is the first time...now i don't know what to do..everytime i talk to scott all i can think about is what i did..and me and timothy keep missing each ohter's calls so we haven't talked since all this happend. i like both of why.i want to date both of them but i know i can't...i am supposed to go and see scott friday but i know i won't be able to look at him without thinking about what i did...and i dont even know how timothy feels about what happend....what am i going to do?

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a decision on two guys! *help* I rate!


Posted Wednesday March 29 2006, 2:14 pm

My boyfriend (of a year and a couple months) and I broke up a little over 6 months ago. (we’ll call him K) But we’ve acted like we were still together up until 4 weeks ago. I met someone (we’ll call him M) a week before I went on vacation/work. (3 weeks ago) (I would talk to M everyday almost 3 times a day! I would also talk to K while I was out of town. K would tell me how much he loves me, he can’t move on and he doesn’t want to, he wants me to come back, etc. A few days after I got back M and I hung out and we got together officially. Now K calls me every once in awhile and we’ve gone out to lunch a couple days within the past two weeks. And the last few days I’ve hung out with him and his friends, and I’ve missed that....

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