I've never had a real girlfriend before..I'm gunna ask someone out tomorrow and I know she'll say yes cuz I just do. I'm just afraid that I'll be nervous while we're going out..well not nervous just like "we're going out..now what" you know. Or I might try to act like different..idk What do I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? orphans answered Thursday March 30 2006, 10:08 am: I reckon there'll be a few I-feel-awkwad moments but just ignore them, they always happen in new relationships.
Don't kiss her unless she kisses you first, unless the moment calls for it and you really think she wants to be kissed but is too shy. You could kiss her on the cheek if you're not sure, I think that's really cute!
Don't act different! She'll be going out with you becasue she likes the you she knows. Don't be too nice and suck-uppy, be cool, but be friendly and jokey. Be confident! If you take her somewhere, make sure you know the place you're going and won't feel out of place, and know what you want to do there.
When you're going out you should just enjoy spending time with her, there isn't usually a "we're going out..now what" feeling unless one of you isn't satisfied with the relationship. If you get this, just be honest with her without hurting her feelings. You'll work it out. Good luck! [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
Nallie answered Wednesday March 29 2006, 11:42 pm: Say "Please excuse me for being nervous" "I may not always say the right things, but I am trying really hard"
xsweet_pea_10 answered Wednesday March 29 2006, 10:51 pm: Don't act different if she goes out with you then she likes the way you are so don't change. Just be a little more fliry and cuddley lol thats all. Just be yourself and have fun. Once you are a little in to you r relationship it will be better and you will know what to do.
OllieJ answered Wednesday March 29 2006, 10:37 pm: If you know she's going to say yes then she know you will because she already think's you're awesome. So try not to over-analyze and if she's a cool girl you guys will have fun. If there is a little bit of awkwardness, don't worry about and don't let it freak you out. we all have those moments. [ OllieJ's advice column | Ask OllieJ A Question ]
xEVYx answered Wednesday March 29 2006, 10:23 pm: just be yourself around her. act happy and confident. girls like it..& girls like feeling "safe" around their boyfriends, so if you're nervous that might make her feel weird too. if that doesn't work just tell her how you feel and maybe talking about it will make it better and more comfortable! good luck
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