well there's this guy and i really like him, i have since november. the problem is, is that he has a girlfriend. they have been together since october. and my friend just moved back to my school ( i used to be friends with her at my old school and now shes back) and she knows that i like him, and she flirts with him and i think she likes him and hes a flirty guy and he does with a lot of girls including me, but i dont like it when she tells me that he flirts with her and stuff.. and if she were my friend and knew i liked him why would she say that? and .. i really like him and for the guys out there.. what are some ways to distract him from his girlfriend.. get his attention..bc im sick of waiting for them to break up, bc it doesnt look like its going to happen anytime soon even though my other friends say they will because they have been together for so long. please help.. i rate high <33
You want to break up a relationship so that you can get what you want. No, it doesn't matter that this girl has feelings for him too, and that he actually likes her too. You should get him and thats that. And I think that you are totally self-centered.
So you say that your friend is flirting with him too. Don't you think that if you can flirt with him even thought he has girlfriend that she can too? You and your friend are in the wrong, and I truly believe that you have no right getting mad at your friend as if he's yours. He has a girlfriend and you are being really rude about it.
So stop whining about this guy and start putting yourself in this girlfriend's shoes, you wouldn't like it if some girl were trying to be with your boyfriend at all.
LinDsx3 answered Wednesday March 29 2006, 7:46 pm: ive delt with that. shes not a friend if first of all, she flirts with him and secondly, she tells you! she obviously flirts back and seems a little bit cocky.. i think if you want to distract him definetly dresscute, thats a must and flirt.. i mean its a given but you have to. ask him is plans for the weekend or talk about hoe excited you are for summer or spring break and give him your number to keep in touch during summer or to hangout during break. smile at him alot and occasionaly ask him about how his gf and kind of laugh or smile when saying it. give off sexy vibes as well [ LinDsx3's advice column | Ask LinDsx3 A Question ]
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