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"personal" problems with my boyfriend


Posted Sunday May 2 2010, 3:40 am

I've been seeing this guy for a while now and we've slept together 3 times only. well tried to. every time that the situation has come up he doesn't perform very long before it just doesn't work anymore. He says that maybe it's because he likes me "too much" but it makes me think that maybe he really doesn't like me at all. i even tried to "encourage" him this last time and it still didn't work. I don't really know what to think or how to take this. it doesnt change my opinion on him because i really care about him, but im worried about what he's thinking or feeling and why this is going on. any advice as to what you think is goin on or even how to make the situation better is much appreciated, thanks in advance.

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Study Tips


Posted Sunday May 2 2010, 1:33 am

Hi,

I'm 18/f and a college student. I'm studyin gpre-med so I'm taking a lot of science classes. So in high school I never had to work extremely hard (I studied a lot, but didn't have to stay up all night if that makes sense) and I always got A's, but since I go to this really good university and I'm taking advanced classes I'm finding that my study methods are not effective.

So...what can I do to get higher grades on my midterms? What are some study habits that are really effective that I can try?

Thanks a lot

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Weight Loss Slump


Posted Sunday May 2 2010, 1:20 am

*Please Read Need Help* 18 F 212 lbs. So I've been on a diet for about 2 months. In the beginning, my body was never used to exercise or eating right so I dropped a lot of weight. I lost about 12 lbs within a month. I've hit a slump basically. I've been eating pretty good, but my body could use veggies + fruit. I was also taking vitamins, but one morning they made me puke so I stopped. I noticed after I started taking them, I lost a good amount of weight. Since I lost all of that weight, I haven't been losing anything at all. Sometimes it's hard for me to go to the gym so I'll only go 2 or 3 times a week.. and I don't get to stay very long because I'm in college. I don't know what's going on, I did cheat a little for Spring Fest but that's ...

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How could he move on so fast?


Posted Sunday May 2 2010, 12:58 am

So I was only with my ex for 3 months, but in that short amount of time, we had that amazing connection.. it felt like we had been dating for years. we were even engaged. but a week after he proposed, he dumped me. and had a new gf the next day. I know that he's moved on.. and I'm trying to but I can't. I love him so much. In that short amout of time, I fell head over heels for him. I need some help getting over him.. I just can't do it by myself. Please help me!!

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New York City Bomb


Posted Sunday May 2 2010, 12:24 am

I heard on the news that there was a bomb tonight in New York City's Times Square. What happened? Is everybody OK? Who did the bombing and was it like nuclear bombs or what? I'm really scared because I live in New York but my mom doesn't let me watch TV much and I couldn't catch all of the information on there and I'm just SCARED! Please, somebody tell me what's going on in New York with these bombings...

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Is it Possible ?


Posted Sunday May 2 2010, 12:14 am

Is it possible that a girl will fall inlove easily with any company or guy when they lose someone who they loved so so much?

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What's a fluffer?


Posted Sunday May 2 2010, 12:11 am

Arnold Schwarzenegger said something about being a fluffer or never wanting to be a fluffer. I don't know exactly but my friends think this is absolutely hilarious. The only "fluffing" that I know about is when you fluff your pillows at night or when you fluff up your hair. I know I'm missing something but I don't want to just blurt it out in front of my friends that I have no clue what being a fluffer means. What is a fluffer?

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My mouth's acting up.


Posted Saturday May 1 2010, 11:53 pm

16/f
The little piece connecting the inner center of my upper lip to my gum really hurts (like in a stinging type way). What's up with that?

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volleyball tattoo


Posted Saturday May 1 2010, 11:12 pm

I really want a volleyball tattoo, but I cant seem to find one anywhere, like a design. (F) by the way :). I want it to be small. can anyone help?

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yes, another pregnancy question. bear with me.


Posted Saturday May 1 2010, 9:40 pm

allllllright. so i answer a lot of questions about pregnancy on here, so i know how irritating these kinds are. but its just a question. if it bothers you, don't answer :) thats what i do, anyway.

the last time i had sex was two weeks ago. we used a condom at first, and then it was slipping because of the lube, so we took it off. he didn't finish, but he was close. and we did it for about ten-15 minutes without the condom on.

what is the percentage of a chance that i could be pregnant, even if he didnt come? (i dont know if he pre-came or not. he says he didnt, but i cant be too sure)

thanks.

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i babysit this 8 year old...


Posted Saturday May 1 2010, 9:23 pm

i watch an 8 year old kid everyday after school for an hour, give or take 20 minutes. usually we (being my sister and i) start watching a movie to keep him occupied, but sometimes he wants to watch something on TV or have a snack. anyways, to the problem...

he's 8 years old. he's a boy. he's hyperactive and annoying, and knows that he is hyperactive and annoying. sometimes he's annoying on purpose. he'll bug my sister and me by throwing stuff at us, poking us, being gross, turning off the TV, and just, you know, plain out being a pain in the ass. i dont know what sick sense of humor this is, but it pisses me off and i yell at him, but it does no good. he thinks its funny. so, i try to ignore it, which makes him try harder. tw...

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Depression and weight watchers


Posted Saturday May 1 2010, 8:50 pm

I have a good life...a great family, amazing boyfriend; no money troubles; no overbearing problems besides my weight and body image. I'm not morbidly obese, but I am overweight (150 lbs at 5'2"). I was reading the symptoms of depression and I pretty much have all of them..the worthlessness feelings, insomnia, not so far as suicidal thoughts, but I just haven't felt good in over a year. I've tried losing weight, but I haven't.
Could I still be depressed?
And I think I might try to join weight watchers, does that work? Maybe that will help...

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Young Writer


Posted Saturday May 1 2010, 4:10 pm

Hi well I'm a young writer, I'm writing a book now. I'm taking my time, writing it so it can be very good. It's a horror type mystery book. When I'm finished I haven't decided what to do with it. My boyfriend, my best friend and another friend read my prolouge and they think I'm a very good writer. XD I was thinking about uploading it to some site so they can preview it and what not. I'm not sure..what do you people think I should do? Thanks ;p

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Long Distance Confusion


Posted Saturday May 1 2010, 3:12 pm

I'm female, and 15 from the UK.
I live in the South and the guy I really love (like I've never met anyone as amazing as him) lives in the North.
We've been talking for a year and a bit, and when we're on an up (as it were) it would be like we've known each other our whole lives.
He's been at college (he's the year above me in school) since January but he's had his laptop and mobile, so i guess that's been OK.
But I got told the other day by my best friend that you shouldn't just let feelings waste away, you should let them out and show them. So I texted the guy saying that and he said that it he didn't want this at this point in his life. I guess I should respect him for that because he needs to get on and do wha...

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job


Posted Saturday May 1 2010, 2:00 pm

how can i a 15 year old work at one of these jobs in 60609 in chicago,ill back of the yards



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mmm i really want ot get to know him.


Posted Saturday May 1 2010, 1:37 pm

19/f i am not allowed to date. my parents are very controlling and don't allow me to do what i want. Well there's this one guy i met. He goes to the same gym as me. He saw me at the mall and he was like I've sen you before at the gym and we started talking. He told me his name was will. well he asked for my number and said maybe one day we could work out together, and i told him i wasn't really allowed to hang out with guys, and he was like not even workout? and i told him i would be at the gym the next day. I went the next day i went to go work out and my dad came with me. ha. and i saw will there and he said hey to me and high fived me. He was there with his friend so we didn't talk much. But when i was leaving i asked him if he was comi...

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98 New Beetle-can't see the speedometer/rpm


Posted Saturday May 1 2010, 10:57 am

I recently got a used 98 Standard VW Beetle for my first car and I love it! I didn't have any problems before last night when I was driving home from a movie. It was dark outside and I couldn't see the Speedometer or the RPM dial. I haven't been driving standard for long so it was very difficult to drive without being able to see the RPM. Is there anything I can do to fix this? Preferably something I can do at home so I won't have to take it to a shop. Thanks!

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My "friend" is putting her son at risk


Posted Saturday May 1 2010, 7:42 am

I've known my "sometimes friend, Tiffany" since 7th grade. I'm now 24, our friendship has been on and off throughout the years. But we have never had a "falling out" and just stopped talking, changes of locations and lost of phone numbers, different directions in life, ect were generally the reasons for our lack of keeping in touch. But if we did happen to run into one another or what have you, it was like we never were apart.

In March or April of 2008, I had come across her myspace page and emailed her, we started talking and hanging out pretty regular.
She had a little boy and was coming out of a really bad abusive relationship with the father of her son, and having problems finically and findi...

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I told my friend that I like him...not sure if i should have


Posted Saturday May 1 2010, 2:21 am

Hi,I'm a 18 yr old female and I have a question that I need some opinions on.

Okay so there's this guy who i knew since last year but we started talking since March 1st and we've been talking everyday since then. I've gotten to know him a bit and he seems like a nice guy and eventually i started catching feelings for him(because i fall for people easily).I was kind of getting the feeling that he likes me because he would tell me that i'm pretty,he asked for my number so we exchanged numbers, he would talk to me everyday on MSN(he would always be the one to message me first), he would flirt with me saying that I'm sexy or that i looked nice today at school and he told me that even if he was sad, my hugs would make him happy be...

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Is it.. over for good?


Posted Saturday May 1 2010, 12:14 am

I was with this guy for almost three months. Things seemed to be going perfectly as far as I knew. There are a few years between us, but we established from the start that that didn't bother either of us. We'd already said 'I love you's but I hadn't force him into it, by any means. Every time he wanted me to come over, I did. (He worked a lot and I wanted to make sure he still had guy time without me, so we saw each other like, an afternoon during the week, and I came over late on Friday and spent the night and left in the afternoon on Saturday. )

We never argued or fought. His friends all like me and think I'm good for him as far as I know because I calm him down. His friends girlfriends all like me, too. (He likes to rant....

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